Please do not so much as consider moving your loved one into this home, and absolutely run the other way if your loved one suffers from dementia.
This home was wonderfully run for years before Harry Ban Meines bought the business 2yrs ago. To say that Harry lacks any and all experience, knowledge, skills and compassion is a gross understatement. He is not only completely ill-equipped to care for any elderly persons afflicted with any sort of dementia, but for anyone with spontaneous medical issues. Aside from all that, this man is purely EVIL. I honestly believe he is either a sociopath and/or psychopath; all the characteristics apply. What a huge and costly mistake. My intuition has never been so far off! Helen (primary staff) is wonderful and the ONLY thing allowing this business to float.
After having met my father (who has Alzheimer's), Harry agreed to take him in only to have him physically and brutally extracted three days later. Anyone with ANY knowledge of dementia has told me when one becomes agitated and combative out of the blue, the FIRST thing they check for is a UTI. This was the case with my father, but Harry kicked him out with no consideration of any underlying medical cause, no care, concern, compassion, and nowhere to go-- and in a time of utmost need for both my father AND myself.
Harry knew my mother just tragically died in a house fire FIVE days before, and now my father was in ICU; I was overwhelmed with grief and had my hands full. Though my father was only there 3 nights and was kicked out for good, he is charging me 3x the number of nights because my father's clothes were there until then. Not only that, but he actually REFUSED to let me pick up items he FAILED to return to me when I was there, including my father's meds! He charged me $100 to ship my dad's walker when all I wanted was for it to be put outside to be picked up. He REFUSED. He FAILED to release my father's meds as well and REFUSED to have them picked up, even left outside. He charged me for picking up a donated hospital bed which my father slept in only 1-2 nights (which he would have picked up anyway). The night he had my father extracted, he never called me until afterwards, knowing I am only 10 minutes away, and after I spent hours finding a nighttime attendant AT HIS INSISTANCE (who showed up for the night but Harry still had my father taken away). His behavior and treatment have been unusually cruel, totally unreasonable; literally astounding.
This has been the most cruel and unusual treatment I have ever been met with in my life, let alone by someone who is supposed to be trusted to care for someone who cannot care for themselves. He made every single thing far more painful and unnecessarily difficult, as though out of spite. I was exceedingly cooperative and did everything I could and everything he asked of me, only for him to bamboozle and go back on everything he asked of me.
My experience was so horrifying that it is my wish this place be shut down-- God forbid anyone else should be put through the horror and hardship he has caused my father and me. There isn't a doubt in my mind he's only in this for the money; that certainly speaks for itself. It's as though he is the devil himself. If not for Helen, there would be no care at all there. My father and I have suffered extreme trauma and duress because of this experience. I will be filing a huge complaint with the licensing board as well as with APS. Please, PLEASE STAY AWAY from this place.
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