As a type-A bride, I really thought I could do it all myself. See, the issue wasn't could I do it, but rather should I do it? Brides, believe me when I say that Kathy is worth every penny you spend on her. I know when you're looking through your budget, you think to yourself, "I don't need a coordinator." But you do, you really do.
Let's set the scene to a week before my wedding. I was finishing up all the last minute details and then suddenly, my power goes out. I kid you not - I wish I was making this up - my house has no power, no internet, nothing. But you have a wedding that's still rapidly approaching, so what do you do? Enter the angel that is: Kathy.
When I say that Kathy came through for me, she really came through. All of my wedding decor was still in boxes. My family members were asking: what do we do the day of the wedding? What time? The questions were endless. And they never EVER ask the groom. Only the bride.
Kathy took over everything. She managed the rehearsal, she decorated my venue space, she answered EVERYONE'S questions. And for me, she asked all the questions I never even considered! If I didn't have Kathy to prepare me for every little thing, I would have truly been in a panic all day. She was so organized, and truly handled it like a pro - because she is a pro. She's always so calm and collected, throughout all of the wedding chaos.
As my day of coordinator, her primary focus was making sure the day went smoothly. Again, as a type-A bride, I had felt the need to be in charge of everything. She tied all those loose ends for me, wrangling all the vendors, making sure they knew exactly where to go and when to be there. Her suggestions made me realize that if I continued to plan it all myself, I would've forgotten so many details! No one tells you that planning a wedding itself is a full time job.
I hired Kathy about 6 months before my wedding, and she quickly relieved so many of my fears and hesitations of hiring a wedding coordinator. Even my then-fiancé quickly agreed, "we need to hire her." A month prior to the wedding, she will start having more frequent meetings to make sure everything is on track, and she will take over email correspondence of your vendors, so you can focus on the fun parts of wedding planning! The day before the wedding, she directed all my friends and family in our dress rehearsal, and made sure everyone knew exactly where to go. A personal favorite: she made sure everyone's positioning was symmetrical. The attention to detail was immaculate.
Day of the wedding rolls around, and like I said: I was scrambling because the blackout lasted for THREE DAYS. There were so many last minute details I wanted to implement, and I never had the time. She told me she got it, and she nailed it. Everything looked amazing.
Kathy put up with so much to coordinate my wedding. I would text her in the middle of the night (I had mild insomnia), and she noted every last detail. With her, I just threw caution to the wind, and everything was flawless.
I'm so glad she does more than weddings too! I will definitely reconnect with her soon for my next birthday party, or picnic! All of my Bay Area friends have already been informed: Kathy is the best. No contest. read more