I will SPARE you the novel, but Noleen is truly a Angel on Earth. I had the opportunity to meet Noleen when my original Doula Dianne was busy attending another birth. I had been a high risk pregnancy since conception and at 39 weeks, I was super over being pregnant - I had already left my employer for disability leave from not being able to sit through a whole shift any longer. This third pregnancy came riddled with tons of health complications: gestational diabetes, sciatic nerve pain, and physical therapy. There was absolutely nothing wrong with my daughter, it was just me (the host body) breaking down slowly. Noleen met me at triage when I started to go into labor, and accompanied me to rub my back and to help me breathe through contractions that seemed as if they were coming every couple of minutes. After being in triage for about three hours, I was having consistent contractions, but I was not dilating enough in order to be admitted. I burst out into inconsolable tears, begging the nurses to try other methods of helping me dilate, as I was in so much pain. Noleen was extremely understanding, and encouraged me the entire way, and promised to be back by my side when it was time for active labor.
My co-worker took me back to stay with another friend that was watching my two oldest children. As soon as we pulled up, what I thought was my water breaking was actually me passing the placenta instead, and there I sat in a pool full of blood. Panicked, my coworker rushed back to the emergency room for me to be admitted, as I was bleeding profusely. My coworker was able to text Noleen once I got admitted to state that we were back at the hospital, and that I had lost a lot of blood. Noleen, pretty much close to home herself, rushed back to the hospital in no time; however, because I was losing a lot of blood - and we both know that the placenta SHOULD be is the last thing to come out - I was rushed into surgery for an emergency C-section. Unfortunately I was not able to have the Noleen's reassurance and comfort as the birthing staff was prepping me for surgery, but Noleen was definitely the first smiling face that I saw once I woke up and was able to hold my beautiful baby girl for the first time.
Even through all of the pain, the shock, and the relief that both me and my little girl made it through surgery safely, Noleen still managed to capture very precious and tender moments afterwards with her camera. She wrote a tearjerking birth story paired with breathtaking photos that was delivered to me when she visited me at home about two weeks postpartum, and held Baby Zahra sitting on my living room floor. The amount of patience Noleen displayed during a very scary and sudden situation was extremely impressive and I can't thank her enough. Unfortunately, it is at the recommendation of my midwives that I do not bear any more children, but if some miracle happens, and I am blessed to bring one more child into this world, I will definitely have Noleen by my side every step of the way! read more