So... long story alert.
My sister is getting married in November. She saw a story about this boutique on TV and the story of why the store was opened touched her personally because she's plus size. We made an appointment like 3 months in advance. My sister was super excited! While we waited for our appointment date, we went to another local dress boutique and had an amazing experience, but my sister wouldn't buy a dress because she wanted to come to curvaceous couture. She knew she wouldn't have to worry about feeling like she wasn't going to be able to fit anything or worry about having a limited selection of plus size gowns. We drove from Fayetteville, NC to Columbia, MD while it was snowing. We got a hotel room, made a whole thing of it. Me, my sister, my mom, and one of her bridesmaids. We get to the store, early (remember, she's super excited). There were 2 people working there; the manager and an employee. The employee was the stylist and she didn't introduce herself. She said, twice, "Just sit right here and I'm going to talk to the bride so just sit right here." I felt weird so I asked the manager if we were allowed to walk around the store. My sister comes out in the first dress and she's gorgeous! She looks around and points to some other dresses she wants to try on. For quite a few of them, the lady says, in front of us, "You're not going to be able to fit that." My sister said to the lady, "Can we just try it? We went to another dress shop and this skinny lady was able to fit me into 16s and 18s." The lady says, "Well that's a 20, you're not going to be able to fit it so is there anything else you want to try on?" My sister points to another dress, "I'd like to try that one." The lady says, "But that one is $3,500 so I don't think it's a good idea." My sister tells us that she told the lady her budget was $2,000, BUT if she found something she liked, she'd spend whatever she needed. The lady says, "I don't want you falling in love with it because its $3,500." I pick some dresses for my sister, the lady says, "What do YOU want to try on?" I'm like, really lady? My sister tries on another dress (this is maybe the 3rd or 4th dress), and she's tried on different styles. The lady says, "You just don't know what style you want." My sister says, "I told you I was a blank canvas, but I'm willing to try styles until I find the one I like." The lady goes to the front to talk to her manager, clearly having an attitude. Next dress, my sister LOVES!! We ask to try veils so she gets some. There is another one I want my sister to try so I lean into the room to ask her to get it down. She couldn't hear because of the music so the manager offers to get it down and does. I come back into the room with the veil. The lady says, "If you need something down, tell me next time because its a liability," with full attitude. I told her that the manager got it, not me. She didn't say she was sorry or anything. She just ignored me. So my sister has narrowed it down to 2 dresses and she's wanting to try a dress on one more time. The lady tries to convince my sister not to come back out into the open area where we are. My sister comes out anyway. I ask the lady if we can try one more veil. She says, "No, your appointment is about up and I need to squeeze your sister out of this dress." Pissed, I walked out of the store because I'm about to go off! It's snowing, no one is here, and you don't have time to get a veil?!? Yeah, I'm done. We drove 6 hours to come to this store that specializes in plus size bridal experiences where a bride looks for that emotional connection to find HER dress. This woman robbed my sister of that. I go back in and my sister is wrapping her appointment up. The damn lady says, "Do you plan to lose any (emphasis on any) weight before your wedding?" Wait, WHAT?!? THERE WASN'T A MORE TACTFUL WAY TO SAY THAT? I hope the owners were made aware, she was fired, and they plan to contact us. She took all the fun, excitement, and meaning out of this for my sister. She was already self-conscious and this woman made it worse. How dare you!!!
My sister said the lady's name is Danean.... read more