They ruined my valentines night with my sister!
On Friday night around 6:00 pm.
We arrived and decided to sit outside.
We go out side, they sat us at the first outside table on the right.( cool) Soddenly I get A call I had to answer. I was busy on my phone and the waiter kept asking me what I wanted to order, (like if we were on a time race), knowing I was on the phone. I told him to give us a few minutes nicely, but he kept asking 3 or 4 times while I was talking in Spanish on the phone. He got extremely possessive and territorial and kept pushing me to talk to him. my sister was getting uncomfortable ( valentines Friday dinner). He kept coming back and asking the same question on a agitated way, like if there was a time frame to answer. The restaurant was empty inside and only 3 tables busy on the outside. He, then proceeded to send a lady to ask the same question. By then I had finished with my important call. We ordered soft drinks and a vegetarian plate. When they delivered the vegetarian plate my sister got exited because that was exactly what she mentioned the whole week, and I proceeded to try to mention the names of the items on the plate, like tabule, keepe, knowing I wasn't an expert in libaneses food.
To my surprise, the obnoxious waiter started speaking on a demanding, loud voice saying: YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY WRONG! and proceeded to mention each name of the items, pointing with his finger at each item, once again, 1-2 feet in front of our face on a uncommonly, unusual loud voice. ( he made me feel extremely uncomfortable.) My sister is looking at me embarrassed.
Then he said: IM GOING TO TEACH YOU THE NAME OF EACH ITEM AND BY THE END OF THE NIGHT YOU'LL HAF TO TiLL ME EACH NAME!... and left! On a loud voice( once again, he was only 1 to 2 feet in front of our face)
At that moment I was going to complain and leave the restaurant, but decided to stay and take the crab from this inconsiderate waiter because MY SISTER had been asking me to go there the whole week and had great expectations for that moment, so I desired to stay and take the crab ( I can handle it)
But It does not end there.
After ruining the beginning of my dinner with his grandioso demeanor, he just leaves for a while. I had to ask another waiter for refills on the sodas and more bread because he just didn't come back to take care of the table (for a while). TO MY SURPRISE! I see him walking in the parking LOT with a fast pase, outside and pases right in front of Us!, on the walkway. He seemed agitated looking at me ( I was seating looking outside like, what the heck is wrong with this guy?
Then.... He walks inside From the outside,
withhout cleaning his hands and handles
The main dish and ( once again) starts explaining me the names of the items in a kinder-garden-demeanor way. After he finished teaching us what's a lamb meat and a chicken meat Cabob, I asked him, out of curiosity. Are you ok? I just saw you coming from walking outside. His reply was...
I have to take care of the out side as well.
My thoughts were... is this guy doing security and a waiterat the same time?
Wich I didn't believe it at all.
My questions are:
Was He having a bad day?
Did he feel offended because I took longer on my important call?
Did he get mad because I was talking on the phone? Maybe a little louder?
Perhaps, speaking Spanish?
Did he leave the table and goes outside to prove me he is in control?
Is He doing security and waiter job at the same time?
Did he get annoyed because I couldn't pronounce well the items on the plate?
Did I have to go out of my way to ask for soda refills?
Was it fare for my sister to go trough this confusing, embarrassing and bizarre moment the night we desired to go out after a whole week of work? ( VALENTINES DAY?)
Can someone please explain????
After we finished the meal, my sister suggested to take care of the bill and I exited the restaurant ASAP because it was extremely confusing and bizarre, how this man was acting .
I picked up the car and picked her up at the main entrance to, at least, give her the honor she deserves.
But thank God! There's plenty of middle eastern restaurants in central Florida.
I will save money again and ask her for an opportunity to treat her the way she deserves.
My sister is a nice person. She works hard.
She didn't deserve this weird time.
I hope nobody has to go though this situation. read more