So, I really wanted this to be a better experience. The best part of my experience here is that now I am more clear about what I prefer in terms of classes and teaching methods for my 2 year old son. First, he is not a follower. He loves to move and tumble and climb and I've been encouraging that in him. I also want him to have more group experiences. We moved to the bay area from New Mexico and had our son a year into our new life here.
So I signed him up for a tumbling class at UC Berkeley Rec because we are so close geographically. The first class was just him and another little girl who wasn't in a space to engage in the class that day. The next week it was just him, me and the instructor. So much for the group experience. I found myself frustrated with the lack of an actual group. So I asked for help and they offered alternatives for us.
We chose a class that met at 11:30 on Tuesday. I don't know if this class has already had a lot of experience together, but it seemed like it. They were doing routines (at least 4 different sequences) and all of them seemed to follow along. Impressive, but oddly uncomfortable for me as my son is off in his own world and missing the entire class. No one engaged him outside of 'the routine' except me, of course. I found myself trying to herd him back with the group the whole time, which is fruitless and exhausting, not to mention neglecting to honor his creativity and individuality. I also heard the teacher comment "good job" on the performance of some children, but not others. Yuck. As a teacher, it is up to you to find the good in every child's "job" to encourage them as people first, not as performers.
He also ended up under the trampoline and I had to physically remove him as it was NOT CLEAN under there at all. He was covered in chalk and stank like old dirt when I got him out. After a painful and embarrassing fall with my son in my arms, and no one available to help us (we were the difficult ones in the class and I felt largely ignored), I left with a bloody, chalky taste in my mouth. I doubt I will return and I have one more class...
So, if you value performance and athleticism in your toddler, this may be the place for you. However, if you are more interested in your child's sense of self, confidence in their bodies' abilities, and relationships with other children, you might want to look elsewhere. We're going to try Ruby's Tumbling next. Who knows, maybe I have no idea what I'm talking about and this is what Gymnastics class is. Just offering my experience and feedback to Cal's program.
Sorry Cal, I want to love you. I really do. But, I cannot understand the obsession with performance?! Can't we all just be loved for who we are and not what we can do?
~unimpressed :( read more