Where do we start? We started our wedding planning with venues - 12 venues in one weekend. We were looking for a rustic elegance style that fit at least 250 guests. Coincidentally Bear Brook Valley was the first place we saw, and to be utterly cliché it was love at first site. We met the wedding coordinator and she showed us around the ballroom, the cocktail hour area, and the outdoors. She took us through the menu and all the add-ons. We were hesitant at first because we saw the venue before they even had their first event. We didn't have a reference - but what we saw was potential. We fell in love and our trust in the BBV team was rewarded every step of the way, and tenfold on our wedding day. The space was gorgeous, set in a gated community at the heart of an old golf course where you can find peace and quiet, as well as beautiful green hills, and a sea of stars above you on a cloudless summer night. A small waterfall lay hidden in the woods behind the building, giving life to a stream that makes its way to the pond at the feet of the pergola where many outdoor ceremonies take place. It's a gorgeous location for Secret Garden style pictures. Aside from the shear beauty of the location, the building is also something to marvel at. From all of the outdoor fireplaces and areas to discover, to the cocktail area which is incredible. When you see it filled with your guests you couldn't imagine a better place for them to mingle before the main event. Groomsmen can hide away in the Woodford lounge to play a game of pool while the bridesmaids have a nearly fully equipped salon in their hideaway for any touch ups necessary throughout the night. As you make your way up the iron staircase decorated with the signature cattails, you set your eyes on the large hall, with exposed beams, exposed wood tables, and the view of the grounds. This is not your typical New Jersey wedding venue... but it was the venue of our dreams. So the location is great, but it's not just the physical attributes of Bear Brook Valley that sold us. We went to our venue probably 5 times before signing a contract. We met our coordinator and all the assistants that would be taking care of us on our big day. We met the owner and his wife and when they saw us back for subsequent visits, they remembered us. They knew details of our wedding and were extremely friendly. The quarterback of the whole operation was the program coordinator. Katrina went above and beyond, always available, and bent over backwards to make our ideas a reality. Three months after our wedding people are still talking about it; about the beautiful venue, excellent service, and delicious food. We couldn't have imagined a better place to have our wedding. Any regrets? We didn't have our ceremony at the venue due to religious regulations (of the church, not the venue), and we would've loved to spend all day there to take full advantage of venue. The minute our wedding was over we started to tell everyone we knew about Bear Brook Valley, with the secret wish that someone would have a wedding there so we could go back as guests. You will not be disappointed. read more