Brides Review: Brides, please be cautious beforedoing business with Above the Curve Designs/Yani Leslie Smith!"
I got married on November 22, 2024, and it has taken me nearly two weeks to process the nightmare of my wedding day enough to warn others. What started as a promising relationship with Yani Leslie Smith quickly spiraled into a complete disaster due to her unprofessionalism, lack of transparency, and total disrespect. Here's a full account of everything that went wrong:
1. REFUSAL TO PROVIDE A VENDOR LIST OR FINANCIAL BREAKDOWN
Two months before the wedding, I asked Yani for a vendor list to confirm details directly with my vendors after having a nightmare that no one showed up. Yani immediately became defensive, refused my request, and insisted that all communication needed to go through her. She flat-out refused to give me any transparency on where my $12,000+ had been spent, saying she would "never" provide that information.
2. WARDROBE ISSUES
* Bridesmaids' Dresses: She required all the bridal party to use her serveses for their dresses/suits. The dresses arrived 2 weeks before the wedding and were completely wrong--cheap, poorly made, and nothing like the custom designs we had agreed upon.
Despite charging $333 per person (which included shoes, jewelry, custom dresses, and alterations, and I have text messages from her to prove this), she charged my bridesmaids extra for alterations up to $85.
* Groom and Groomsmen:The groomsmen's suits were not ready until the days before the wedding and some were not ready until the day before the wedding.
The groom and groomsmen never received their boutonnieres, and the groom didn't receive his pocket square.
* The groom's suit was the wrong color upon arrival and she tried to gaslight me by saying it wasn't. I had to pull up text messages proving it. She then provided him with a suit that was too small. He couldn't even lift his arms in the jacket.
* Bride's Accessories:I didn't receive my veil or jewelry until hours before the ceremony, adding unnecessary stress and anxiety.
3. REHEARSAL CANCELLATION
Two hours before the rehearsal, Yani canceled, claiming her mom and daughter were sick. This left me and my bridal party to figure things out on our own because the venue coordinator, who had agreed to assist us made other plans because Yani assured us all day she would be at the rehersal and the venue coordinator was not needeed.
4. CATERING DISASTER
* On the wedding day, there were no caterers. My husband overheared Yani state that she had picked up takeout food from a restaurant at the last minute.
* The food was nothing like what we had during the tasting--overly spicy, inedible for many guests, and completely different from what we expected.
* Despite paying $31.95 per person for 100 guests, the food ran out after serving only 80 people in child-sized portions.
5. DJ ISSUES
Yani refused to let me speak with my DJ beforehand. The DJ tried his best, but he didn't know our music preferences and had no country or Afrobeats music--the genres we wanted most. The music was completely off, and the reception atmosphere suffered because of it and most people left early because of this.
6. ALTERCATION AT THE RECEPTION
This was the most shocking and upsetting part of the entire experience.
* Yani had been drinking heavily throughout the evening, helping herself to the bar I paid for.
* An hour before the reception ended, she came onto the dance floor visibly intoxicated, smelling like weed, and started bumping into one of my bridesmaid intentionally.
* When confronted, Yani called my bridesmaid the "B" word, and in the process, spit in her face.
* My husband and other bridesmaids had to intervene, taking my friend outside to calm her down, but Yani followed and continued the altercation.The situation escalated when Yani, along with two staff members, physically attacked and jumped my bridesmaid. They grabbed her by the hair, ripping chunks of it out and leaving bald spots.
7. INCIDENT WITH MY DAUGHTER
During the reception, Yani caused further distress by refusing my 8-year-old and 13 year old daughter entry to the reception space during my first dance. My daughters were supposed to have a front-row seat to this important family moment since we were blending two families together. Yani pushed my youngest daughter on the back and wouldn't let her in, causing my daughter to become extremely upset. She cried the entire night, traumatized by being excluded in such a hurtful way. I am still feeling mom guilt because of this.
8. EXTREME STRESS AND HEALTH ISSUES
Leading up to my wedding, the stress was so overwhelming that I broke out in hives, which only added to my anxiety and ruined the joy I should have been feeling. Yani's behavior--her refusal to provide basic information, constant demands for more money, and her disrespect--left me emotionally drained and physically ill read more