Condescending, interrupting, gaslighting. As it was my first appointment, I explained when we started that I wasn't sure what I needed or how to start. Abouesh just continued reading off of a checklist and became visibly frustrated when I wasn't sure how to answer some of the questions, and began crying because some of the answers were emotional. In a matter of ten or 20 minutes, he decided that my problem was anxiety. Which is not what I was there for. I was trying to articulate (and explained that I was struggling, this is important later) what I needed and becoming increasingly frustrated when he kept dismissing the issues that I was trying to bring up and instead blanketing them under anxiety of which I "obviously suffered from" because I was crying. He was making me cry harder! His ego was very evidently hurt when I disagreed with him on a lot of what he was saying. When he asked what was making me so upset and I stated that he was being very unempathetic, he used the excuse that hes a doctor and he has to be. YOU WORK IN THE MENTAL HEALTH FIELD. We continued to try and talk, but he kept interrupting and talking over me and asked me to not say anything because he was "struggling to articulate"... Ultimately, he stated he would like to try again a different day because apparently I was just too emotional. No progress was made at this appointment whatsoever. When the possible diagnosis of ADHD was brought up, it was dismissed as depression or anxiety because he said "I have ADHD, bad, so I know what that looks like." Which is insane for this 50-60 something year old man to compare himself to a 28 year old woman. One of the most asinine statements of the visit that I will end on, was when I brought up potentially being autistic (I know psychiatrists cannot diagnose this but I thought maybe it could be relevant) and he says and I QUOTE "I don't think you're autistic. You might be somewhere on the autism spectrum...but not autistic."...HAHAHAHA what??? And then admits that hes not licensed to diagnose that. CLEARLY dude. I politely agreed to be added to a waitlist and left the office on a cordial note but I wish I had been more upfront and truthful in the moment, but I was so upset and in shock about how I was just treated. I will be calling back the office to remove my name and tell them about my experience. read more