I would like to report on a brief interaction I had with Lisa Wolfe. I phoned her in 2013 and asked her if she had room on her schedule and she said she did not. At the time, I had made over 100 phone calls looking for therapists. However, she phoned me back and said she knew of someone and referred me to another therapist. She spoke highly of him, saying she refers her clients to him all the time.
I went to him and he didn't just have room on his schedule...he didn't seem to have any other clients, or not very many. This was a red flag, among other red flags including his repeatedly calling me "Honey." He seemed completely incompetent to treat what was bothering me (eating disorder) and I wondered why Ms Wolfe had heaped so much praise on him, except perhaps they may have been pals of sorts.
During my third session with this man, he asked me out on a date. I was terrified! I left the office, not knowing what to do! I also felt devastated that such a thing would happen to me. Of course, I did not accept the date. Who was this man? I waited two days, then, phoned him and told him I didn't want to see him anymore. His last words to me were, "I love you." I was shocked and in a few other ways, saddened. I knew in my heart I needed to report him. But where?
I phoned back Ms Wolfe. I felt that she should know that this other therapist that she had referred me to was not only unethical, but he had broken the law in a really, really bad way.
Her response? Sadly, very typical. She first said, "Maybe you weren't a good match." I continued to tell Ms. Wolfe that what he had done was illegal. Then she said, rather lamely, "You just weren't ready for his energy therapy."
I believe Ms. Wolfe should have encouraged me to go to the police. She should have supported me and at least been as shocked as I was. Instead, she defended what was completely illegal behavior on the part of a colleague.
I am saddened that therapists refuse to acknowledge the mistakes and misdeeds of other therapists, and instead, they blame the victim. This runs rampant in the profession; it's disgusting, and it needs to change.
Based on this, I would not recommend her to anyone. read more