It has taken me five months to write this review. Every time I tried to put my thoughts together, I…read morebroke down in tears. I hired Celeste to be my midwife after my sister recommended her. At first, she was amazing, and I felt I was in good hands. She seemed knowledgeable and experienced.
I noticed a few small things early on. Celeste and her assistant had trouble drawing blood and finding my veins, despite nurses always telling me I had "good veins." This would later create a problem during my labor when neither Celest nor her assistant could put an IV drip in me. She also made comments about me being "shy" and easily "embarrassed," which now seem more like digs than jokes. During a team meeting, she commented that she wished my husband had a brother, which felt inappropriate but I overlooked it because she seemed capable of helping me deliver my first baby at home.
The first major red flag was when she recommended a birthing class, led by one of her close friends. Celeste assured me I would gain valuable knowledge from it. My husband and I paid close to $500 for the class. However, when I shared information from the class with Celeste, she dismissed it, saying, "Oh no, that's wrong, don't do that part." This inconsistency made it difficult to apply what I learned.
The second red flag was when she recommended I start taking Primrose oil at 34 weeks to soften my cervix. I was hesitant because I didn't understand why I needed it if my cervix would soften naturally. Trusting her, I started taking the oil. I went into labor at 36 weeks and later learned that Primrose oil can induce early labor and cause complications. Coincidentally, Celeste had a trip planned around my estimated due date, which made me question her motives.
The final red flag was during my labor. My water broke immediately, and I knew I was on a 24-hour timer to deliver at home. Celeste advised me to rest and labor alone as much as possible before calling her. She mentioned she would be very quiet during the birth, but when she arrived, she seemed like a completely different person. She was cold, detached, and making me feel like an inconvenience.
I managed to reach 8 cm dilated on my own and felt powerful until Celeste began making snide comments and facial expressions to her assistant. She said things like "I'm just used to my buttery babies," implying my baby was taking too long. She kept saying I was in my head, which felt like gaslighting. At one point, I was told to push even though I was only 8 cm dilated.
My husband and mom witnessed Celeste and her assistant scrolling through Instagram and Facebook, watching funny videos, while I had contractions. When they were present, they gave directions I couldn't follow due to the intensity of my contractions. Celeste showed zero patience or empathy, leaving me feeling unsafe and unsupported.
I finally asked my husband to take me to the hospital. I do not recommend Celeste's midwifery services. She needs to address her own issues before attending to such a vulnerable time in a woman's life, where empathy and kindness are desperately needed. I am grateful my baby and I are safe, but nothing can prepare you for being told you risk hemorrhaging and death.
Overall, my experience with Celeste's midwifery services was deeply disappointing and distressing. While she initially seemed knowledgeable and capable, her lack of empathy and professionalism during the most critical moments of my labor left me feeling unsafe and unsupported. I urge anyone considering her services to be cautious and prioritize finding a midwife who can offer the compassion and respect every birthing individual deserves. My family and I are grateful to have come through this experience safely, but I cannot overlook the emotional and physical toll it has taken.