Where do I begin?? From the moment we stepped foot into the castle we were welcomed with kindness and excellent customer service. Whitby was the first venue that we looked at before booking our wedding, and we only looked at two other venues before going straight back to the castle to leave our deposit and book our wedding date. Besides stating the obvious that the castle and the grounds are beautiful, the staff at Whitby Castle is what makes the venue so wonderful. The first person that we worked with was Courtney- she took her time showing us the grounds and the venue and spent quite some time talking over details with us, and determining what we wanted our wedding day/night to be like. She never made me feel like I was "just a number", always made me feel comfortable asking as many questions as necessary, and made me feel confident that all of our wedding wants and needs were going to be met. The next person that we were introduced to was Will. Will not only makes a great cocktail, but he greeted us with a kind smile and was eager to please every time we stepped foot in the castle. The night of the wedding he was behind the scenes (and at the forefront of everything) making sure guests were accommodated, drinks and food were flowing, and really went above and beyond to see that my husband and I were happy and comfortable the entire day/night. He is an excellent asset to the Whitby staff!! Rosa was behind the scenes of my wedding day making sure that the bridal suite was stocked with drinks and snacks, and she helped to set up all of my personal decor in the entrance of the castle. At the end of the night she packed all of my belongings up for me, and she was a huge help- also very kind and easy to work with! Now last and certainly not least, we were introduced to Ralph. Ralph was awesome!! He was organized, straight to the point, and very matter of fact with us. He was the guy who put everything together for us right before the big day. He sat down with us and talked out all the details, gave us a timeline of the day and night, and really set our expectations high for the wedding. He was very easy to communicate with and promptly responded. He completely exceeded our expectations, and the day of the wedding he helped to keep us on track, and really made it possible for us to have every detail of the wedding that we wanted, happen. I can't say enough nice things about all of the staff at Whitby. They really are an excellent team, and I would highly recommend this venue to any special event, especially a wedding. ALSO, the food is EXCELLENT!!!!!! Our guests are still talking about our cocktail hour and all of the delicious options. My husband and I missed the cocktail hour and hardly got to eat during the wedding, and the staff put together 4 containers of food "to-go" for us, without even asking...... I really am beyond pleased with my experience at Whitby. Thank you all!!!!! I wish I could relive our wedding day there 100 more times! read more

We held our wedding reception this past weekend (June 10th) at Whitby Castle and can say this venue threw us a party nothing short of spectacular. From signing our initial contract almost a year and a half ago to food/cake tasting to our final meeting the week of the wedding, the staff at this venue were so attentive, responsive and organized. We mainly communicated with the maitre 'd, Ralph, who assured us that the day would run smoothly- and everything went off without a hitch! The ballroom is beautiful with its large windows overlooking the golf course, uniquely shaped room and dark wood floors and the outdoor deck for the cocktail hour is setup beautifully for guests to enjoy on a nice day. Part of the cocktail hour space is enclosed with a tent, which was a nice feature for guests who wanted to stay out of the sun. Ralph was amazing to work with, especially the week and day of the wedding. He personally called all of my vendors to confirm delivery times of the reception flowers as well as determine an appropriate time for the DJ to setup to ensure that the room would be clean/ready in time for vendor arrival. Ralph and his team worked extremely closely with our DJ and photographers to make sure that each vendor's timeline for the day did not overlap with each other. I was provided a bridal assistant, Jasmine, who was so attentive and at my side for the entire evening, whether it was to re-fill a drink or to fluff my dress. The food was outstanding. We received numerous complements on the abundance and tastiness of the cocktail hour and reception food as well as the synchronized dinner service for the main course from our guests- hats off to the chef and staff! If you want a venue where the staff truly take care of you, your guests and vendors, look no further! After months of planning, it was a relief to be able to enjoy our reception and not have to worry about a thing! To Ralph and the staff at Whitby, Bill and I can't thank you enough for a great day! read more

I haven't had my wedding yet (happening June 30th 2018) but I've had such an incredible experience I needed to write a review now. It all started a year and a half ago when my fiancé and I stepped foot on the property. We were absolutely BLOWN away. The castle was actually the last place we toured (and we almost canceled - thank god we didn't). Janet, our sales associate who unfortunately had to move and isn't at the castle anymore, crafted the most incredible contract with everything we could've dreamed of. She worked with our budget, guest amount and EVERY concern. We threw A LOT of hopes and dreams at her so to say we walked out of the meeting getting absolutely everything we wanted and then some is amazing. Although she had to move, her transition was seamless. We were introduced to Niki, who hands down has answered every question (even the 4am ones) with a smile. However, tonight REALLY solidified my obsession with the castle when we met Ralph our coordinator. We laughed throughout our entire 1.5 hour appointment. He was SO detailed and made sure to capture every single thing that came out of my mouth. He eased our nerves and answered everything. I honestly feel like he is a life long friend we are completely comfortable with. He took the time to get to knows us and what we want over anything else. My fiancé was amazed at how organized he was and how completely painless he made the entire process. I am so amazed and happy with the experience so far I had to write a review!!!!!!! Our wedding is in three weekends and we couldn't be more excited (stay tuned for part two of the review :) ). Our guests are in for a real treat!!!!!! So so obsessed. Any bride looking for a venue outside of the box LOOK NO MORE. This place is pure perfection. read more

We could not have had a better experience at Whitby Castle. Everyone who worked there went above and beyond to make sure our day was beautiful. Our livestream wasn't working right before the wedding, and Ralph Bracco, the operations manager, offered to let us try on his personal laptop. Ralph also offered to move our flower arch from the ceremony space to behind our sweetheart table -- he didn't have to do that, but he realized it would be nice and jumped on the opportunity. And when we said we'd like to do a few sparklers at our exit, he said he had a few extra-long ones he'd be happy to give us. These were a few of the small ways he went above and beyond what he had to do. On top of that, he was charming with our families, and everyone loved him. My bridal attendant made sure I had everything I needed throughout the day. She was incredibly sweet and attentive. Niki helped us throughout planning. She was totally accommodating, helpful and kind. She even understood and handled it with grace when we thought we might have to cancel the wedding due to COVID. She, and everyone at Whitby, was sensitive and supportive in helping us take COVID precautions. We couldn't have had a better experience, and frankly, I've been procrastinating this review simply because I knew I couldn't do it justice. We're incredibly thankful and will never forget the wonderful service we had on our wedding. And by the way -- the venue is gorgeous and the food is good. read more

My husband and I had our wedding at Whitby Castle on 3/19/22 and we couldn't be happier with our decision. From when we first met with Niki in October 2020 through our wedding, the staff was always prepared and professional. Whitby has all the options and answers to all of your questions and the staff pay great attention to detail. They met and exceeded our needs and always with a smile on their faces. Niki and Ralph work together like a well-oiled machine. The chef, Fernando, cooks with such love and care that you could taste it through his food and was enjoyed by all of our guests. Everything was artful while also delicious. Gabriel was so attentive to us during our tasting and the whole night of our wedding to make sure we were always happy. Gabriel's smile can only be met with more smiles. We loved the space which has such natural beauty that you need not worry about budgeting for anything else. You're not going to find another castle, on a golf course, on the Sound ever. This is the one. It's beautiful, the staff is excellent, and you'll be happy with your decision to have your wedding or other event at Whitby. Thank you Niki, Ralph, Fernando, Gabriel and Whitby family for everything! read more

We got married here this past week on 5/1/25, and I don't think there are enough nice things I can say about Whitby Castle. Niki and Ralph made everything so unbelievably easy for us the entire time from booking to the days after our wedding. Roxy was my bridal attendant, and she made sure my husband and I were never without a drink. They brought all our cocktail-hour food upstairs for us so we could eat in peace and relax. Niki was so easy to communicate with for the entirety of the planning process. Every single question we asked of Ralph, who doubled as our maître d', got answered and was perfect. We had so much fun at our reception, and it was so helpful to have Ralph there guiding and directing us every step of the way. It was so easy to coordinate dropping off and picking up all of our decor the week of the wedding. There were so many details, which can be overwhelming on your wedding, but with Roxy, Ralph, and Niki (and the entirety of the staff!!) everything was so seamless and like a well oiled machine. I am so unbelievably appreciative of everyone at this venue and cannot recommend Whitby Castle enough!! read more

We had a dream wedding at Whitby Castle, and it truly exceeded every expectation. From the very first planning meeting with Niki, to the final dance, - every detail was executed with elegance and care. Our Maitre d', Ralph, was simply outstanding. He went above and beyond, treating our wedding as if it were his own. His responsiveness throughout the planning process and his calm, attentive presence on the day itself made all the difference. He anticipated our needs before we even voiced them and ensured everything ran seamlessly. The food was delicious, and the flow between the ceremony and reception spaces felt natural and beautifully orchestrated. The entire team was incredibly accommodating--happily allowing us early access to set up personal touches and handling every request with a smile. Both Ralph and Niki are true gems and made our experience unforgettable. If you're looking for a stunning, well-run wedding venue with a team that genuinely cares, I cannot recommend Whitby Castle highly enough. It was the perfect setting for the most important day of our lives. read more

I had the pleasure of hosting both my baby shower in 2024 and my son's first birthday recently at Whitby Castle, and I can honestly say it was an exceptional experience. The venue is stunning, the food is outstanding, and the staff is incredibly kind and accommodating. I had the privilege of working with Yasmin, Niki, and Ralph, all of whom went above and beyond to ensure everything ran smoothly. Whether one was unavailable, another team member was always ready to assist and make sure my needs were met. Their attention to detail and dedication truly made the event flawless. A special thank you to Rosa for her outstanding support on the day of the event. She was incredibly helpful, kind, and informative, and her exceptional communication made everything so much easier. Whitby Castle exceeded my expectations and helped turn my vision for my son's first birthday into a reality--and more. I highly recommend Whitby Castle for any event. We will certainly be returning for future celebrations. Thank you again to the entire Whitby team for making our day so special! read more

My daughter was proposed to in a the Castle in Disney. We thought it only fitting to host her bridal shower in one locally. When we discovered Whitby Castle, we immediately fell in love. We had looked at others in our area but after meeting with Ralph, we immediately knew this was the right venue for us. Ralph was amazing from start to finish. The event was barely over and we were already trying to decide which event we could host there next. The food was delicious, ample with a wonderful assortment of which Ralph gently guided me through the selections that would most fit the event we planed. It was absolutely perfect! The ice cream bar was a huge hit. We hosted on a sunny, Sunday afternoon in July. We have such wonderful memories of this special day. This review is long overdue. The event was so special that even four months later I am still smiling reflecting back on my daughters beautiful bridal shower. Thank you to the staff at Whitby for all you did to create this memorable day for our family. read more

As is the case with many couples, my Fiancé and I were faced with the unsettling news that the wedding we had been planning for the past year was going to be postponed due to the recent world events. At a time when things seemed to be in complete shambles, Whitby Castle/Lessings went above and beyond to make sure everything would be ok. Niki was extremely supportive and helpful when reaching out to deliver the news. We were easily able to rebook our event without any concern. She even waived our minimum guest count in the case that guests would no longer be able to attend. Whitby Castle has always been fantastic to work with. Our food tasting was absolutely delicious. Any questions we have, Gabriela and Ralph have answered very quickly (even on the weekends). We couldn't ask for anything better. We are so appreciative of what Whitby Castle has done and can not wait to celebrate our special day. I have the utmost confidence that the team will make sure everything is perfect. read more

I cannot speak highly enough about the level of service from Whitby Castle before and now during the COVID pandemic. As a bride who is in the midst of postponing from 5/23/20 to Feb 2021, the only thing keeping me sane is the stellar level of service from the team at Whitby. As soon as I expressed concern about my date, Niki put a backup date on hold for us that she kept for over 4 weeks as we made our decision. The transition has been seamless as we have made modifications to our timeline and guest list with Whitby helping us through the entire process. And before this all began, the team was nothing short of amazing as they allowed for modifications to the menu and drinks list to suit our tastes, gave us recommendations about decor, and answered my (many) emails and questions about the planning process. Although it's 9 months later than we were hoping, we cannot WAIT for our wedding next Feb at Whitby! Updated review to follow! read more

From the beginning stages of booking this venue for our wedding, our experience with Whitby Castle was excellent. Our guests had a great time, and so did we. Niki and Ralph helped us make our menu as vegan and gluten-free as possible, which we truly appreciated. They gave us so many great options and the food was fantastic! On the wedding day, Ralph was always there to see that everything went smoothly and help us with whatever we needed. Our bridal attendant, Rosa, also went above and beyond for us. When one of our guests had to urgently leave to catch a train, Ralph was there to help and Rosa literally drove her to the train station! We couldn't believe how generous they were. All of the staff were professional, friendly, and followed safety procedures like wearing masks and gloves at all times. We highly recommend Whitby Castle. You couldn't ask for a more beautiful venue or a more accommodating staff. read more

I was married at the Whitby Castle on November 19, 2016. I can't put into words how wonderful our experience was from our very first meeting until the day of our wedding. Ralph is absolutely amazing and the staff especially, Katie (our bridal attendant) is wonderful. Ralph will guarantee that your wedding is everything you dreamed of and so much more. Ralph will go out of his way to do anything for you that will make your day perfect. Our family and friends keep raving about the Ralph, Katie, the staff, food and ambiance of the castle. The Whitby Castle provides you with the ultimate fairy tale wedding. We absolutely LOVE the castle and would recommend it to anyone looking to book a wedding venue. If I could describe the castle in one word it would be PERFECTION. Thank you so much to Ralph and the entire staff at the Whitby Castle for making our wedding everything we wanted and so so much more! read more

My husband and I got married at Whitby Castle this past weekend and all we can say is RALPH IS THE BEST. From the first meeting with Ralph to our wedding day he made sure everything ran smoothly and that we were taken care of. Everyone told us we wouldn't eat at our own wedding but Ralph went out of his way to make sure we had a moment to eat in between everything. The whole staff was extremely accommodating from beginning to end we didn't hear a single bad remark. The venue was set up beautifully and it was almost like the staff was one step ahead of us the entire time making sure every aspect of the night was perfect. We can't even count the number of guests who told us how beautiful the venue was. You will not regret having your wedding at Whitby, Ralph and the entire staff are the best of the best. Thank you!! read more

Whitby Castle is an amazing venue for a wedding as the castle provides a beautiful backdrop for the wedding ceremony and photos and the staff (especially Ralph) were so enthusiastic and supportive through the whole evening. My husband and I got married there on July 15, 2017 and it was everything we wanted for our wedding and so much more. Ralph was nothing short of fantastic as he listened to every concern and question we had and helped to make our wedding memorable. The staff at Whitby Castle made our guests (and us) feel as though we were family. Our family and friends were very impressed by the beauty of Whitby and by the service provided before, during, and after the wedding. My husband and I highly recommend that you visit and strongly consider having your wedding at Whitby Castle. read more

Whitby Castle was a fantastic wedding reception venue! From the very first time we connected with Niki after visiting Whitby Castle she was incredibly helpful. Throughout the entire planning process, her responsiveness, guidance, and support made everything feel seamless. Ralph, and the amazing team had flawless execution on the day itself. From the moment we arrived on property, we felt completely taken care of. Every detail was handled exactly as we had envisioned, and the venue looked stunning. Our guests have not stopped raving about the breathtaking setting and the incredible food. We are so grateful to Niki, Ralph and the entire Whitby staff for helping create memories we will cherish forever! Highly recommend Whitby Castle! read more

We cannot say enough about Ralph, Courtney, and the entire Whitby Castle team. From beginning to end, our day could not have been any better thanks to the entire team. We had 8 guests drop out less than a week before the wedding and Ralph was able to accommodate an additional reception enhancement, no questions asked. This was completely unexpected as we thought we were going to have to eat that cost. Our guests are still talking about the food, service, and ambience and it's thanks to Ralph and the entire team that made this day so special. He even pre-sliced our first piece of wedding cake so we didn't have anything to worry about during the big cake cutting moment - now THAT is attention to detail! read more

I was recently married at the Whitby Castle, they did an amazing job! Our guest we're WOW'd from the beginning when they pulled in the driveway to the castle and amazing back drop. We were married outside on the lawn at dusk, the weather was perfect and the lighting on the castle. Our guests kept talking about the amount of food and top notch service from the staff. Ralph did an amazing job! From our first meeting he was on top of all the little details and had amazing suggestions. We are extremely happy we picked the Whitby Castle, we couldn't have asked for a better wedding. We can't thank Ralph and the whole staff on the event they put on for us. Thank you! read more

What can I say that has not already been said about the Castle. My husband and I got married there on Oct. 28, 2016 and it was everything I wanted in the wedding and more. Ralph was the most amazing person ever; he listened to every weird question I had and made that night perfect by working with me. The moment the ceremony started to the last song played was made perfect by the staff there. Every one of my guests were very impressed by the beauty of the Castle plus the service they received while attending the wedding. If you want top notch service in one of the most beautiful places in Westchester, look no further! read more