I wish there was the option to have 0 stars after the humiliating and unprofessional, insensitive verbal attack I went through this last Thursday on the VIA RAIL.
I mask -exempt and the ticket-agent who sold me my $85 ticket confirmed my entrance to the train.
I recognized the line was full of masked patrons, so I courteously waited at the back of the line to speak directly to the next service representative, before boarding the train. With approximately 5 minutes left before the train leaves, I am feeling uneasy and anxious about missing the train. With a medical exemption, I am rightfully travelling and was already permitted, yet this representative insists that I comply, wear a disposable mask upon entry, and then take it off when I am seated. I agreed in order to comply, and make the train, given my day plans, missing the train would have been very inconvenient to say the least.
Although I am not legally bound to disclosing my reasons for exemption, the materials of the masks cause an allergic reaction within 5 minutes of being over my face and mouth area, but boarding the train took less than that and I began to experience only mild inflammation. I'm now seriously annoyed, yet, I'm aware many representatives in the service and transportation industries are NOT familiarized with the protocols for patrons who have mask exemptions.
The train ride I was in for was 2 hours approximately.
Half way through the train trip, I ordered a coffee from a pleasant representative. I am mask free and he is wearing his mask. The patrons around me, are all masked. It was bad enough that the dirty looks and heavy sighs from those around me reminded me of being in an immature, inexperienced elementary school scenario. I'm sensing tension at this point. The same service representative came back to notify me that his manager insists I put a mask on, even as I am drinking my coffee. The request came as a surprise, as the request was happening more than half way through my trip. In addition to that, being mask exempt or not, why am I being asked to wear a mask at the exact same time as I am enjoying a coffee purchased whilst on the train...? Does this make sense to any logical person?
The service manager barges towards me and the other representative to move them out of the way, so he may now stand over me, and right in front of me. The train seats are already in close proximity, so he is standing very near to me in my personal space. Without any questions or even an actual introduction, I am now being yelled at with several claims, according to the service manager:
1. That I am causing trouble and the police need to be called to kick me off the train for non-compliance ... even though I am medically exempt!
2. That I am a loser - then he backtracked his words, and said I was a loser, only if I don't comply with him and place the mask on my face. At this point, I place the mask on, to help deescalate his tone of voice and aggression.
3. That I am stupid for not complying and that I am ruining "it" for everyone on the train (how that applies, I am still uncertain).
The service rep (who sold me my coffee) was visibly uncomfortable and tried to walk away but was ordered by his manager to stay where he was and to not leave yet.
I, even with a mask on at this point, ask him to stop yelling, and reminded him that calling the police would have been necessary only if I was committing a criminal act. Next, I calmly share with him that it's impossible that I was creating any trouble, since I was already permitted on the train, and that I was already sipping my coffee, so he needs to stop yelling and listen. I then asked him, "will you now listen to me?"
This whole "conversation", which was humiliating and confronting and incredibly unprofessional, lasted almost 15 minutes. My face is becoming flush, and inflammatory reactions are starting to happen.
Because I put the mask on, he started to calm down and the other patrons on the train felt it was necessary to yell at me as well, urging me to put a mask on, adding to the "bullying" effect. Any other type of professional service, such humiliation would not have been tolerated.
At this point now, the manager agrees to leave me alone, since I was drinking the coffee with the mask around my ears and waiting to be put back up after I sip the coffee.
To release tension, I am now sitting in my seat, crying, trying to finish my coffee and I take a picture of my face to document the reactions.
There's approximately 30-45 minutes left of my train trip, and at this point, the service manager approaches me again, clearly seeing my face with tears and inflammation all around my chin and lower half of my face. He is at a loss for words, so returns again to ask me to leave my seat!
He says "follow him", under his breath, "This is for your own good". I pick up my items and follow him. He seats me beside the luggage! Like the 1900's. read more