Psuedo-pyramid-cult scheme is the best way that I can think of to describe this…read more
This happened several years ago, but it still stands out in my mind.
A friend of mine took this course, to use the term loosely, for some personal reasons. After she completed this course, she asked if I wanted to go to a free seminar, again using the term loosely, of sorts. (I am saying all of this in hindsight.) I agreed to go and it was free alright.
This was what I experienced:
The venue was the Renaissance Vancouver Harbourside, known under a different name back then. You get registered by filling out some forms, enter into a huge ballroom with all kinds of peeps, and you get seated.
A couple of speakers start coming out and talking about some life changing events in their personal lives and how they had a "breakthrough".
This "breakthrough", becomes a recurring theme.
I'm starting to get skepical. The stuff that they are talking about sounds familiar, like what I learned in university about thought processes, stereotyping, and schemas.
This is what a schema is:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Schema_%28psychology%29
Then the unexpected happens. Peeps in the audience start getting up and talking about their own personal (very personal, emphasis added) experiences and how they had a breakthrough. They shout at the end of their 10-15 second spiel, ".......and I had a breakthrough!" After each individual shout out, everyone in the audience claps and cheers the person for getting up and declaring their breakthrough (there's that word again).
Huh? WTF is that all about? (I find out the reason at the end, and about a week later)
A few more peeps in the audience do the same thing, and they end this part of the presentation. After this, they separate everyone in the audience - I get separated from my friend, and they send smaller groups into seminar rooms.
This is when it gets interesting, or hilarious, depending on your perspective. At this point I had pretty much figured out what this was all about, but I endured, and stuck it out.
A "leader" (leader meaning someone who completed the course and is a senior speaker) will get up to the front and describe their own experiences and experiences of others, and how this course changed them. So far so good. It was a lady speaking and she described how one little boy she knew/helped along because he was always being "bullied". Shunned upon nowadays, but I digress. This little boy was always being picked upon by another boy who would slap him on the back and would never call him by his name every morning. Basically being mean to him. The little boy hated this and told her. She helps him out by changing his thought process into: "He isn't really mean, that's just the way he says hello to me." To which someone in the audience gets up claps and says, "That is brilliant!!!" Brilliant, meaning problem solved. He is no longer tormented by the other boy. OMG! (R U kidding me????) My preconceived notion of this course and schemas are now in full flight. This course was all about thought process change. Which may or may not be a bad thing, depending on circumstance.
Then she goes into another example. This one is about how one camp counselor thought this other little boy was such an idiot. He would do stupid and idiotic things. He would be selfish by sailing alone and not with anyone else, they would have to wait for him at lunch, etc, etc.
I raise my hand to ask a question (BIG mistake, BTW.) So I say to her, "This little boy that was such a so called "jerk", everything he did was "jerk" behavior, wasn't it?"
Speaker: "Yes, to the counselor everything he did was selfish"
Me: "So everything he did was interpreted to be "jerk" behavior regardless of whether he did something nice or not?"
Speaker: "Yes"
Me: "So this counselor, because this boy was a jerk in her mind, anything and everything he did was associated with being a jerk, because of her preconceived notion of him being a jerk, and in doing so it was a self fulfilling prophecy?"
Speaker: "Yes, exactly!! You're pretty good at this!" She's looking more intently at me now.
Me: "Oh, well,........ this is nothing new to me. Sounds like a bit of pop psychology to me." (This was my mistake)
Speaker: "No, this is NOT PSYCHOLOGY!" shaking her head adamantly.
I silence myself now. Other peeps, who have taken this course, in the room ZERO IN on me like flies homing in on fresh dog poop!
At the end of this little session, the vultures DESCEND on me like fresh kill. They start to try to convince me that my thinking is wrong and how I could benefit from this course. I brush all of them off.
Cult because they all try to tell you to change your thinking into theirs.
Pyramid because they recruit past participants (who are not paid) to recruit others to take the course. You become a drone.
They call me a week later to take the course, I politely declined.