I had the worst experience today ever with a medical doctor/facility.
I have never left a negative review in my life, but after today's experience, I feel I must.
I work for a company that switched insurances on me a few times in the past 2 years, and unfortunately for me my insurance switched back to St Marys, in which I needed to find a new doctor. I decided to find a new doctor because my doctor I had with St Marys previously wasn't a great match for me, I Certainly didn't expect a second round.
Personally I need a Doctor Who is kind, compassionate and caring I hope this isn't a trend with St Marys..? Dr Marie McCormack with United healthcare Renown was / is the best doctor I've ever had in my lifetime!
I Went in for my first appointment Today. After over 45 minutes of waiting past my appointment time, I was escorted by the doctors assistant to the examination room, and this started my very unexpected hurtful mind blowing experience I am sharing today.
Pretty much the first words out of her assistance mouth was rude, unkind / angry defensive like, and with no compassion said to me.. you are a transfer from one of St Mary's doctors to us and that I need you to know this is very unethical, in which I replied what do you mean. She went on to say they don't allow/ do transfers, again said this Is highly unethical, and said that the doctor I had a year or so ago, I should've gone back to.. this is not how St Marys works.
I then I said I'm sorry I take offense to What you are saying and that a patient should have a right to choose who they want to see as a primary care physician and it was not my intention to offend anyone.. I then explained I had United healthcare prior with a different doctor before choosing another doctor with St Marys Etc. Oh my goodness it went on from there I was offended, hurt and Felt like everybody was angry at me and quite confused!! I wanted to get up and walk and out I should have, but I thought I'll give the doctor a shot.
The doctor came in..she wasn't much kinder in fact as our conversation went on she also said it is not ethical and asked me why I'm switching doctors.. I gave her my explanation and it just didn't go too well At all!!
I was completely blown away, in fact more angry at myself that I allowed it!! What I should've said to them both...I'm not unethical but the way I'm being treated is! !! I left that office in tears and again angry at myself that I didn't speak up More. I did tell the doctor I felt your assistant was very unkind and rude to me, and I feel you don't even want me here..in which the doctor said well now that I know why you switch doctors..I'll go ahead and have you as a patient but proceeded to say I'm not taking transfers/ new patients so we were just confused... how welcoming.
The time I spent with the doctor it was obvious she was upset with me too so that made it very uncomfortable. I felt uncared for, no bedside manner or kindness and I felt like everybody was angry with me. At some point I started to think and got the impression they thought I was shopping doctors? at one point In my conversation, the doctor told me we don't prescribe pain meds, I guess it's because one of my many medical issues I deal with on a daily basis is chronic pain, however, I don't take pain meds and have elected not to. Needless to say very hard day today and for me disappointing and sad.
My feelings were hurt pretty badly, I was miss treated by a professional organization that I was so looking forward to meeting, and was blamed and looked upon with anger and disrespect.. and I have never experienced anything like this Before!
This is hard for me because I love people very much and always give the benefit of the doubt, even if things don't start off well but today was a huge challenge for me!
At one point I told the doctor that her assistant was a rude and unkind to me, and I was very offended / confused... No apology just a lot of words of why it was done.
If you want a doctor with the capability of compassion/kindness/ caring I did not find it with this office!
Now that I'm being told I'm an ethical because I'm switching doctors after over a year of not having St Marys coverage, and because I didn't go back to my original doctor... I don't know what to do, Because I do have a few medical issues that requires care, so I'm calling the supervisor contact I was given by a very compassionate phone agent I spoke with today to figure out what this, as they said unethical gal should do in finding a doctor with St Marys without being Title or scorned as a Dr. Jumper unbelievable.
I am a Christian woman I struggled with doing a reviewer, after a horrible day at work Afterwards, emotionally drained and feeling horrible about myself because they felt that way about me...I felt I should..I think that's the reason I stayed because I wanted to give the doctor a chance...worst visit/experience.. I've ever had and I'm pushing 60. read more