I recently attended a Linx Mix & Mingle event. This event was thoughtfully planned, provided…read moreexcellent food and drinks and included many upscale and interesting people to meet. Amy (the owner) promptly welcomed me and followed up with an introduction to one of the guests. With all the clients she works with, I was very surprised she knew who I was as we have never met in person. The time Amy takes to genuinely connect with her guests is impressive. I have been in contact with Amy over the past few months as I am in her database. Amy has made herself available via email and text and her responses are always prompt and gracious. I enjoyed meeting new people and look forward to attending future events. Thank you Amy!

Im only in the general dating pool. Something does not feel right. I was told I was a potential for…read moretwo specific "vip" men over a year and a half, but then nothing. No set up to one person. I was even told we have so many great people in our database, so don't worry if you don't match as a free member. But in 1.5 years not one intro and no follow up after supposedly introducing me privately (through my profile) to 2 men that I was supposedly a fit for? I've never been invited to a mixer or anything like that. I'm not exactly a loser, so it's just not making sense. Total waste of time, and if what some of these reviewers are saying is accurate, makes sense. Very unprofessional and seems to be about image and fluff. Some prompt emails and excitement, only then to assume the guy didn't like my profile, and no follow up. I'm starting to think it's all a sham.

Shannon is a really remarkable person who is not only very helpful, but also very insightful in a…read morevariety of ways. She's very responsive, informative and I couldn't imagine anyone better at their job. Shannon has a wonderful personality, a great sense of humor and is a delight to have as a resource in the process of meeting someone great.

Claire with Shannon's Circle is a pleasure to work with. She's warm and intuitive and it's clear…read moreshe really gets to know all her clients well. I had great confidence in her choices and matches for me. Dates were thoughtfully set up and always delightful. It felt reassuring to have someone with her professional experience and shared life perspective on my side!

Yasmine was my and my friend's matchmaker years ago before she started this firm. She did tell us…read moreshe was moving on to start this. She never picked a bad date. I was helping an acquaintance find a matchmaker and found this! What a perfect name!!!! What I learned from each match she made is how much more and many opportunities to love someone there were. Ironically, my friend and I wound up picking each other's husband. I hope we did you proud! :)

** Two different judges have ordered Yasmine to repay a combined $17,500 in the past 3 months**…read more I have previously posted about my experience with Yasmine, but the information was becoming stale and less-relevant, so I removed that post in favor of this more concise statement regarding the same experience. Today was my long-awaited court date with Yasmine to compel her to pay the refund required by our contract, and I won. The judge ordered her to pay me $9,000. To make the backstory as brief as possible, Yasmine and I contracted in July 2022 for 5-6 matches in 14 months. I initially liked her and do think she has some good matchmaking skills but had the sense that she was overscheduled. She provided 2 matches in the remainder of 2022, but throughout all of 2023, the matches she offered were often well outside of our agreed-upon parameters, had grainy/distant/sunglasses-only photos, and in at least two instances were actual catfish. Her communication also dropped off with various excuses such as "emailing the wrong Erika," falling ill, or having "lost her voice" and unable to talk on the phone. Even still this was not a big problem. I was patient with her, mostly because she had already collected a substantial fee from me, but I was also busy myself. However, when 2024 came around, I reached out to her multiple times for simple updates with no answer. Then when an entire month went by with no word from Yasmine, I decided she was either too busy or simply not interested in working with me and asked for a refund, and she agreed. All still not a problem! We had cordial negotiations to start, but things deteriorated rapidly when we could not agree on the refund amount so at that point I figured the best option was to let a judge decide. And that he did to the tune of $9,000 in favor of myself. I am happy for the folks who have had good luck with Yasmine recently. I'd like to think the experience with me inspired her to improve on her self-admitted lacking communication skills. However, to anyone considering hiring Yasmine today, I suggest you consider the following: Although required, her business is not registered in the city of San Francisco or the State of California. This means that there is no official mailing address on file to accept service of process. If for whatever reason you and she are not a good fit, ask yourself: how will you get your refund if there is nowhere to serve court papers? She lost to me today, and this review is about my experience only, but there are *public* court documents available with similar stories - in particular one in Nov 2025 where Yasmine was ordered to pay $8500. That's $17,500 that the courts have ordered Yasmine to repay clients in the span of 3 months. Let's not forget 5 stars for the San Mateo and San Francisco County Superior Courts!

I am still working with Soniyah and it's been over 5 years now. However now I was able to bring the…read morelove of my life into the work with me. It was all due to the work I did with Soniyah that I was able to open my heart enough for this person to come into my life. Now he and I have been together for over 2 years and love doing the work together. We have grown as a couple and can see loved ones be inspired by our love and the way we show up for each other. It's a beautiful thing to get to work with Soniyah through this process. She meets us right where we are and gives us tools to help us keep growing as individuals and as partners. I brought my boyfriend into the work pretty much as soon as we met (even when everything was a dream) and now we can keep that dream going, years in. If you want to grow in yourself and be open for your love to find you, look NO FURTHER than Finding Bliss!!! Seriously! My boyfriend and I wish every person in the world had a "Soniyah" in their lives!

Writing this is long overdue! Finding Bliss is a love-centric experience, not just coaching, but a…read moreliving embodied experience. Soniyah is a fierce guide through the ups, downs, insides and outs of LOVE. If you want to align with (your) love, you know that it is incredible, and sometimes easy, sometimes wild and chaotic. Soniyah's presence has been impactful through many of these aspects, but especially supportive when love has been gloriously messy. It's her true gift, and a gift to receive her care. Thank you for how you trust love and guide people to more depth, intimacy & alignment with love. Not the path for the faint of heart, but for those who want more heart! I love sending people to you, and especially love hearing them share how they've grown as a result of working with you!! Thank you for saying 'YES' to showing up in this way Soniyah!! ~

Working with Xiaoli Mei is a masterclass in cultural intelligence, emotional depth, and genuine…read morehuman connection. Her approach to matchmaking isn't transactional--it's transformational. What impressed me most is how she weaves together psychology, personal coaching, and cultural nuance to help clients not just find love, but understand what love truly means for them. Xiaoli brings a rare combination of empathy, structure, and vision to her work. She listens deeply, coaches with care, and never loses sight of the individual behind the profile. Watching her guide clients toward meaningful, values-aligned relationships--especially across cultures--has been both inspiring and refreshing. In a world of shortcuts, she chooses substance every time.

I had a great experience with elite Asian matchmaker. I got burned out by online dating with…read moreendless conversations that lead to wasted time. I engaged with Xiaoli and immediately knew there was a difference. It's matchmaking! No swiping or scrolling. Xiaoli listened to my needs and make introductions and setup first dates. All I need to do is to say yes to the people I want to meet and go on the actual dates with them in 1-2 weeks time frame after I said yes. It's refreshing experience. I haven't found my true love yet but the people I met are great people with quality. If you are a busy professional like me and have no time to go on dating sites or events where you can meet quality people, then this is the perfect service for you.

I attended a business networking event they helped organize for the Little Tokyo small business…read morecommunity. Cassindy really made the event a huge success by setting the tone and laying the foundation. It was clear she cares about our community, helping business owners meet and thrive, and she definitely displayed her unique ability to put a large group at ease ready to open up and share with one another.

I teamed up with Cassindy to help my dad find a good match, and it was a successful experience…read more Their people skills are seriously on point - she is good at finding and connecting with people.She totally went above and beyond, surprising me with how much she cared about the outcome. She tapped into her own network to help my dad up with potential partners from the older crowd since shwer clients in his age range. She let me share ideas and gave thoughtful advice.What really stood out was how she kept checking in to make sure my dad was good with the whole process. That's the kind of matchmaker you want - someone who's been around the block, cares about people, and is like a warm auntie you can bounce ideas off of and share your experiences with. Cassindy's the real deal!

Thanks to Julia's coaching program, I took consistent and meaningful action to improve my dating…read morelife. I did online dating, attended social events, and completed Julia's assignments, guided approach exercises, and role-plays. Julia provided thoughtful and insightful feedback on my written reflections and took the time to answer my questions during and between coaching sessions, which helped me stay focused and accountable throughout the program. Julia helped me identify and work through mental and emotional blocks that had been limiting my dating life for a long time. As a result, I became more comfortable connecting with new people and significantly less afraid of rejection. She also gave me practical guidance on inviting someone on a date and helped me shift toward enjoying the process of getting to know someone, rather than being overly focused on outcomes. Throughout the program, Julia was professional, attentive, and an excellent listener. She tailored her guidance to my specific challenges and shared profound, counter-intuitive ideas that initially required reflection, but ultimately helped me understand dating and relating in a much more grounded and empowering way. Overall, Julia's coaching helped me manage my thoughts and emotions more effectively so I could take difficult but necessary actions. I gained confidence, clarity, and a healthier perspective on dating and relationships, and I would strongly recommend her coaching program to anyone serious about building an authentic, sustainable dating and social life.

For years, I wanted to get better at approaching women, but my progress had stalled. I was…read moreinitially unsure about working with a female coach, but after trying Julia's workshops, I realized her method was exactly what I needed. Julia addressed the root of my obstacle--namely my self-talk before and after each approach--and systematically helped me rewrite those unhelpful beliefs. Some of her reflection home exercises didn't do much for me, but her in-field coaching sessions were a game-changer. Every challenge felt tailored to me, pushing me just enough that I gained confidence without feeling overwhelmed. Before Julia's program, I rarely approached the most attractive women or groups; now, not only do I approach more often, but I've discovered new ways to enjoy the process. I also appreciated how holistic her coaching was--she even challenged my assumptions around partner selection and time management. Meeting people through real-life interactions now feels more fun than relying on dating apps. Overall, I highly recommend Julia's workshops and coaching program

Select Date Society is the best of the best in terms of matchmaking companies. I cannot recommend…read morethem highly enough. I ended up in a relationship outside of SDS, but having SDS in my back pocket as an insurance policy of sorts has been very reassuring. If you're looking to get into a serious relationship, look no further. This is the place to go. No more swiping!

From the owner: Select Date Society is a private, highly selective world-class matchmaking firm representing HNW…read morerelationship-minded singles. We work with a limited number of clients at any given time, ensuring a level of discretion, access, and personalized attention that is rarely found in modern dating. Our approach is neither transactional nor algorithm-driven. It is intentional, refined, and deeply personal. Co-Founders Sandra Myers and Amber Lee bring more than five decades of combined experience, earning a reputation as trusted advisors to ultra-high-net-worth individuals seeking meaningful, lasting partnerships. Every client is carefully vetted and privately represented. Our global network is cultivated with precision, allowing us to introduce exceptional individuals aligned in values, lifestyle, and long-term vision. Select Date Society is designed for those who expect the same level of excellence in their personal lives as they do in their professional world. Applications are accepted on a selective basis. If you are ready to pursue a relationship of substance and significance, we welcome your inquiry.