Im only in the general dating pool. Something does not feel right. I was told I was a potential for…read moretwo specific "vip" men over a year and a half, but then nothing. No set up to one person. I was even told we have so many great people in our database, so don't worry if you don't match as a free member. But in 1.5 years not one intro and no follow up after supposedly introducing me privately (through my profile) to 2 men that I was supposedly a fit for? I've never been invited to a mixer or anything like that. I'm not exactly a loser, so it's just not making sense. Total waste of time, and if what some of these reviewers are saying is accurate, makes sense. Very unprofessional and seems to be about image and fluff. Some prompt emails and excitement, only then to assume the guy didn't like my profile, and no follow up. I'm starting to think it's all a sham.

Amy is an amazing and thoughtful human and well connected match maker. I met Amy years ago and…read moreeven though I am not on the west coast where I could use her, she still helped navigated the waters of match making for me and found an excellent match maker in my region. I whole heartedly recommend Amy and Linx. Her true desire to find the perfect match and love for those seeking it shines through in her work.

Shannon is a really remarkable person who is not only very helpful, but also very insightful in a…read morevariety of ways. She's very responsive, informative and I couldn't imagine anyone better at their job. Shannon has a wonderful personality, a great sense of humor and is a delight to have as a resource in the process of meeting someone great.

I spent my time preparing my part of the work, they sent me a meeting invite fast (probably…read moreautomatically), we met, but my questions were not answered -- they wanted me to schedule another paid meeting. Right after the meeting they sent me a link to an article that "women after 40 are getting anxious about finding a partner" -- clearly a manipulation (and I'm 39). That's not how a top 1% single woman in Bay Area should be treated. I'd expect such services to *pay such women* to talk to them.

Skilled Attraction truly lives up to its name as a hidden gem. I worked primarily with Yasmine,…read morethe head matchmaker, though I know she has assistants utilized for coaching programs and other matchmakers for recruiting. I probably have the most unique story of all of Yasmine's clients. I initially reached out to her as she is a fellow Stanford alum. After a brief call, I signed on to her smaller matchmaking program. It was a mini program that allowed me to explore matchmaking without committing to the time and energy for a more intense program. First: I had a remarkable date with a gentleman Yasmine matched me with immediately. He was fit, funny, and handsome. We opted to do an activity date with mini golf followed by wine and small bites at a romantic venue For our second date we went on a picnic. He did the shopping, the cooking, the plating, and treated me like an absolute queen. It is hard to find men like that in our 50's! While we did not hit it off, I knew that dating men though Yasmine's mini service was helping me shift my priorities to take dating more seriously. A year later I signed on to Yasmine's more intensive program. Almost a month after that, I met this handsome, intelligent and very kind man at a get together. It was just a night out with my friends. Just a random night. Somehow it magically landed me my fiance. Yasmine is the one who encouraged me repeatedly to go out, have fun, do this, do that. She encouraged me gently many times to get out of my comfort zone. Was this a match from Yasmine? No. Would I have met him without Yasmine's service? I doubt it. Having access to her services in all its forms was life changing and I am so grateful to her. Many thanks to Yasmine and her team for making my dreams come true.

From day one, Yasmine, the head matchmaker at Skilled Attraction, treated me like a real person,…read morenot a number in a database or another client. She walked me through a full preparation period: a professional photoshoot (which I desperately needed), image consulting so I'd look my best on the photoshoot and on dates, and a deep conversation about my dealbreakers, values, and what I actually wanted in a partner. She even included extra coaching in my package, which helped me even to this day. Every month she found 3-4 genuinely great women -- the kind of matches I was excited for rather than felt obliged to meet. She personally interviewed each one, and I never felt pressured. On the rare occasion I said "no," she simply restarted the search with only a small penalty in relation to other matchmaker fees. She was also honest from the beginning with me that not everybody would say yes to my profile. That was okay too. What impressed me most was how personal the process felt. Yasmine remembered everything: my quirks, my fears, my preferences, even the things I didn't say out loud. She guided me through each step with kindness and honesty. She also diplomatically shared some of my concerns with my upcoming matches so there was transparency on both sides. I could see she deeply cared about both her client and their date equally enjoying the process. I expected this to take a long time or just be a stepping stone on my journey. But then... she found her. The woman who is now my wife. After so many years of being single, I'm married -- something I didn't think was possible for me anymore. Yasmine changed my life in a way I can never repay. There are two new women in my life now. My wife - and now our beautiful daughter. As such - I am and will always be - very thankful. FIVE STARS? TEN STARS

I am still working with Soniyah and it's been over 5 years now. However now I was able to bring the…read morelove of my life into the work with me. It was all due to the work I did with Soniyah that I was able to open my heart enough for this person to come into my life. Now he and I have been together for over 2 years and love doing the work together. We have grown as a couple and can see loved ones be inspired by our love and the way we show up for each other. It's a beautiful thing to get to work with Soniyah through this process. She meets us right where we are and gives us tools to help us keep growing as individuals and as partners. I brought my boyfriend into the work pretty much as soon as we met (even when everything was a dream) and now we can keep that dream going, years in. If you want to grow in yourself and be open for your love to find you, look NO FURTHER than Finding Bliss!!! Seriously! My boyfriend and I wish every person in the world had a "Soniyah" in their lives!

Writing this is long overdue! Finding Bliss is a love-centric experience, not just coaching, but a…read moreliving embodied experience. Soniyah is a fierce guide through the ups, downs, insides and outs of LOVE. If you want to align with (your) love, you know that it is incredible, and sometimes easy, sometimes wild and chaotic. Soniyah's presence has been impactful through many of these aspects, but especially supportive when love has been gloriously messy. It's her true gift, and a gift to receive her care. Thank you for how you trust love and guide people to more depth, intimacy & alignment with love. Not the path for the faint of heart, but for those who want more heart! I love sending people to you, and especially love hearing them share how they've grown as a result of working with you!! Thank you for saying 'YES' to showing up in this way Soniyah!! ~

I will talk to a matchmaker this week. They got back to me right away to schedule a phone…read moreconsultation

Working with Xiaoli Mei is a masterclass in cultural intelligence, emotional depth, and genuine…read morehuman connection. Her approach to matchmaking isn't transactional--it's transformational. What impressed me most is how she weaves together psychology, personal coaching, and cultural nuance to help clients not just find love, but understand what love truly means for them. Xiaoli brings a rare combination of empathy, structure, and vision to her work. She listens deeply, coaches with care, and never loses sight of the individual behind the profile. Watching her guide clients toward meaningful, values-aligned relationships--especially across cultures--has been both inspiring and refreshing. In a world of shortcuts, she chooses substance every time.

I attended a business networking event they helped organize for the Little Tokyo small business…read morecommunity. Cassindy really made the event a huge success by setting the tone and laying the foundation. It was clear she cares about our community, helping business owners meet and thrive, and she definitely displayed her unique ability to put a large group at ease ready to open up and share with one another.

I teamed up with Cassindy to help my dad find a good match, and it was a successful experience…read more Their people skills are seriously on point - she is good at finding and connecting with people.She totally went above and beyond, surprising me with how much she cared about the outcome. She tapped into her own network to help my dad up with potential partners from the older crowd since shwer clients in his age range. She let me share ideas and gave thoughtful advice.What really stood out was how she kept checking in to make sure my dad was good with the whole process. That's the kind of matchmaker you want - someone who's been around the block, cares about people, and is like a warm auntie you can bounce ideas off of and share your experiences with. Cassindy's the real deal!

I worked with Julia Malakiman for over three months, and it completely changed my dating life. I'd…read morebeen stuck for close to a decade, avoiding situations that scared me, and Julia helped me overcome my fears to not just do brave things like approaching a woman, but to have it become second nature. We started by picking up some new amazing date outfits, that I still love and use today, updated my dating profile with incredible photos, and then moved in-person sessions to work on the fundamental mental models that would help me grow in the coming weeks. She would share many dating event opportunities for me to try out and we would then discuss what happened, celebrated successes, and identified opportunities for growth. Afterwards she also organized our sessions around in-field exercises of approaching strangers to overcome inner fear and anxieties. After having gone through the program, I often think about how Julia was right about everything she talked about. I would absolutely recommend her for anyone that feels like they struggle talking to or dating women. As for me, I am now in a new stage of dating focusing on how to navigate towards strong and long-lasting relationships, a place I never imagined I would be in such a short time. Everything I learned from the fundamentals Julia taught me I will never forget. I strongly recommend Julia, you will not regret it!

Shoutout to Julia! Her coaching over the last few weeks has been incredible. She taught me exactly…read morehow to tackle my nervousness and stop freezing up around women. My confidence and self-belief have completely soared, hitting a massive turning point around March compared to the year before. That positive energy has honestly spread to every other part of my life, too. If you want a coach who deeply understands how to handle social anxiety and get real results, she is the best.

Select Date Society is the best of the best in terms of matchmaking companies. I cannot recommend…read morethem highly enough. I ended up in a relationship outside of SDS, but having SDS in my back pocket as an insurance policy of sorts has been very reassuring. If you're looking to get into a serious relationship, look no further. This is the place to go. No more swiping!

From the owner: Select Date Society is a private, highly selective world-class matchmaking firm representing HNW…read morerelationship-minded singles. We work with a limited number of clients at any given time, ensuring a level of discretion, access, and personalized attention that is rarely found in modern dating. Our approach is neither transactional nor algorithm-driven. It is intentional, refined, and deeply personal. Co-Founders Sandra Myers and Amber Lee bring more than five decades of combined experience, earning a reputation as trusted advisors to ultra-high-net-worth individuals seeking meaningful, lasting partnerships. Every client is carefully vetted and privately represented. Our global network is cultivated with precision, allowing us to introduce exceptional individuals aligned in values, lifestyle, and long-term vision. Select Date Society is designed for those who expect the same level of excellence in their personal lives as they do in their professional world. Applications are accepted on a selective basis. If you are ready to pursue a relationship of substance and significance, we welcome your inquiry.