This place is a BLAST! They don't serve food but I'm sure you can bring food in . Love the fire pit in the back . Nice touch . Bartenders are awesome and on point. read more

Love the environment ! Has nice outside patio with lights , a beautiful seating area around a fire place

I remember back when the Tiki was a cool place to hang out and listen to a mostly decent DJ's setlist and dance with affordable drinks. Those days are long since past. This place isn't even retro hip anymore, it's just plain gross. Thank goodness it's so dark inside, you almost can't see how badly it needs a facelift. Mid Century is in and somehow this period original building is still a dim and dank den where most of the original charm has been pulled out. I love this place, but it needs some TLC. Also, way too many straight couples taking up dance floor space, which is already at a premium. read more

Terrible parking. Ghetto hotel right behind the bar. Definitely do not leave your car here overnight. Decent inside. Nice indoor fire pit and fenced outdoor seating area. We were here celebrating a friends birthday. It's a gay bar. Although I'm straight, birthday girl isn't, so here we are lol. The drinks here are SUPER expensive. I mean good lord, I know you have to make a living and stay operational but when your top shelf vodka is Tito's for $10 we have a problem. Anywhere else that's like $4.50 and nowhere near top shelf. They don't even have Ketel One which anywhere else is like $5.50. What in the world?? I mean is Tito's really your high end top shelf? Wow! The bar tenders, all of them, are rude. We were here on Friday January 10th from like 9-11pm. There was 1 guy and 2 girls. No customer service skills at all. Can you believe they even charged us for a single shot of get this, Bloody Mary mix, so we could have a red beer. Words can not fairly express my level of unhappiness with this bar. We are here tonight for a friend. We not likely be back though. Drinks prices are nearly criminal. read more

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If you are looking for an LGB place this bar is for you. This is a decent bar and prices were fair.

My girlfriends and I stopped in for a girls night on a Monday. The bar is decorated beautifully and it seems like a great place to drink and dance. However our experience was not great. We came in and sat at the bar. The bartender took my card to start a tab, made us our first round (four kamikazes) and the second we finished our shots she told us we needed to pay and get out. I ended up closing out on my card and we all left. It wasn't like we were there late or were intoxicated. So the reason for this bartenders behavior was beyond me. Not sure what was going on but I won't be going there for girls night again any time soon. read more

DJ says he will take requests but doesn't. Plays the same sort of boring genre the entire time. If you say you'll play a song, play it. There are few places in Modesto I'm willing to go out to for dancing, this is off the list for me. Bartenders are nice and quick though! read more

I always come to this bar when I'm in town. Always really great music and I tend to run into someone I know. Modesto isn't so big! The drinks are a great price, the bartenders are always very friendly and helpful and know how to handle a large crowd. Sometimes the crowd is a little ghetto, but I wouldn't place the fault on Tiki. That's just Modesto. But overall, always a good time! Wish it was a little bigger because it's always packed! read more

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Oh boy this place is fun! The bartenders were great! Very funny and helped me find some new amazing drinks (that I can't remember cuz I drank them all) so I'll have to go back and find them again, ask for a surprise drink! There was this lady who was the only one out dancing, and apparently is always there- but gives it a fun and upbeat feeling knowing you can go dance when ever! Everyone who was here was also very nice. Usually I'll go somewhere and everyone pretty much keeps to themselves, but it's very lively and relaxed read more

Not the same crowd as when I was a customer in the late 1970's and early 1980's. Friendly people but not my style of clientele. I was unaware of the social change. read more

Great drinks and great bartenders. Crowd is fun and easy going. Always a good time!!!

they're doing a good job of keeping the Tiki fun alive at this old joint. this part of Modesto is sketchy, so it can seems a bit daunting with the door security with metal detector wand, but it's all good vibes, even from the security gal. inside there was laughter and good music, a pretty lively scene for after midnight on a sunday night, but not too obnoxious to relax with a Mai Tai. as a traveler just passing through after a long solo drive, it was nice to find a bunch of happy people having fun. the drinks are pretty good - the Mai Tai could be a bit stronger, but it did come in a pint glass - which was welcome because i was thirsty! the Jungle Bird was tasty and strong - recommended! read more

Be careful going to this bar. They give the name Tiki a really bad reputation since every Tiki has an outstanding reputation except this one. Do not tip the bartenders because they are corrupted. They put RAPE DRUG in your drinks especially to the females. My friend really got sick had to go to the ER. read more

So this Halloween I came to the front door where they check Ids and literally was one of the first to get my id checked and I was with a group of my friends all starting off our night great until the bouncer at the front (Looks Mexican, not to tall and rude as can be) starts to check my id and looking at it funny, then puts it in the lights and ask the other security guards if it looks fake and no matter what they say he decides it is. And I was shocked and didn't understand how that can be! It had everything he said it didn't and didn't even wanna give it back to me. Man, I was furious because I needed my Id, so I called the police and they arrived around 30 minutes later thank god because it was HALLOWEEN. And they ran it and confirmed it was real but this "Bouncer" insisted it was fake to a POLICE OFFICER and wanted to still keep it. At least they police gave it back to me but the bouncer didn't let me in when my friends and I were there the night before and he checked my id!!! And he said I was banned from there? How am I banned if I did nothing wrong? I been here many many times and now im banned?! Horrible BOUNCER not the first complaint about him either they need to retrain him on how to check ids when kids under 21 get in with them anyways. P.s: One of the other bouncers( He's a white fella with a beard) came up to me while I was waiting for the police and apologized because he has seen me there many times and waited with me. I respected him for doing that so thank you for having one bouncer like him at Tikis. read more

Just moved into this area and was seriously looking for a nice place, close to home to dance and enjoy some adult beverages :) ... A friend told me about the Tiki so off we went.... Although it's a rather small place, its unbelievably quaint and cozy and the fire-pit adds such great ambiance as well as character to it.. The music was bumpin and the drinks are really affordable and as stated by others, nice and strong.. Is there even a thing as "too strong" as far as an adult beverage goes??? NEVER!!! lol.. Although I'm straight, I prefer to club in gay establishments because the people there are so friendly and open and the Tiki didn't disappoint.. The outside area is also rather spacious and covered as well for patrons such as myself who enjoy the use of tobacco... I LOVE THIS PLACE and am heading back tomorrow night for round 2!!! :) read more

So I go to any place anywhere that I can find that says "Tiki" on it. Mostly because I love the vintage 1960s tiki subculture. I love the mai tais, tiki mugs, bamboo, Witco fountains, bongos, hula girls, Don Ho, all that stuff. We were in Modesto for a film festival and passed the Tiki Cocktail Lounge, so I made our group stop for a quick mai tai. I've been to a lot of tiki joints over the years. And I've been to a handful of gay clubs. But I've never been to a gay tiki joint. This place was definitely that. Inside it was pretty dim. It wasn't terribly packed, but the crowd that was there was pretty rowdy. They were also very friendly. It was loud, and the music at that particular moment was like a club-house type of thing. We all ordered mai tais. And I'm pretty sure it was all rum with a splash of pineapple juice on top. I love my booze, I think it was probably the only time I wasn't able to finish my drink. There were some free condoms on our table. I took a couple. read more

Pros: Music is awesome DJ is awesome I came here with a group of my former high school friends for drinks and dancing... I'd come here again for the music mixes. If you are in Modesto, looking for dancing and enjoying bay area style music, this is the place to be. Cons: Its a little small place, has outside court yard... its not bad read more

This is my first time here in a few months and theres a new bartender that effen sucks. Dont know her name and after today dont care. She looks 12 and has horrible service. Ive had to ask for my own refils the entire night. Wtf?? Im sure she gets paid minumum wage. Dont u want tips Beezie?! I guess not. Its a Sunday and its hella dead. Its not like shes ubber busy and forgot. She just down right blows. Go work ar forever 21 or something. Worst service Ive ever had here. Should I throw my empty glass at ur face to get a freaggin refill??? On top of that shes being a freakin music Nazi and skipping thru the songs she doesnt like (Which customers have paid for). Nobody comes to a gay bar to listen to ur pathetic personal playlist that consists of rap and panic at the disco. Ide be lying if I said I would never come back because the location is just a few doors down from my gf's house. This was just a very disapointing night. This place can be really fun depending in what night of the week it is and who the bartender is. Sucks that there is no consistency... Reason # 679 Why Modesto blows... read more

The more I come, the more I love this place! I broke out of my shell last night and sang the popular 90s diddy Semi-Charmed Life by Third Eye Blind. I am not able to hit the high notes but thank goodness for my back-up singer and friend, I was able to complete it. Now I need to figure out what I am going to sing for the next karaoke night. Oh and I need to be able to hold the microphone without shaking and sing from the heart, yeah I have issues! read more

Reminds me of a local watering hole...but for the gays and the theme is Hawaii. The drinks are strong, the atmosphere is very friendly, it feels comfortable and safe. The location itself is a little odd (the main strip in Modesto, surrounded by dealerships, two-bit motels and no other bar near by). A good place to just chill with friends afterwork. The few times a year that I'm there, I always make a point to stop by. read more

When I come home to visit my friends and family, you can count on me going to the Tiki at least 1 night. I love this bar!!!! Drink prices are OK, and Gus makes the stiffest drinks on McHenry. I'm so thankful for this place, we finally have a place to go get a drink where we're actually integrated with the rest of the city, and not out in the fringes. Very safe, quaint interior, friendly staff, good, attentive service, and usually a good mix of people, with a patio that faces McHenry for you smokers. If they don't have it, just tell Gus and usually next time you come in he'll have it. read more

As a gender fluid person I was worried about finding the right place to grab a drink and chill when I moved to Modesto. I've been to the Tiki Lounge twice now; staff and patrons have both been great. Outdoor area is super chill. I like. read more

This bar is pretty gay. They definitely specialize in tropical drinks tho. The two for one drinks are a great deal because I love double fisting. The karaoke was great. They really rocked some karaoke. The free condoms an free magazines were a lil odd. There were quite some characters there. The lighting was real cool . I met a couple really cool people at this place read more

What fucking bar doesn't do a michelada? This one! I can't believe it. I'm super disappointed in service and quality of drinks. It's gone downhill. read more

You have to come here if your in modesto. This place is janky and fun all in one. Make sure chris is your bartender, try to avoid the bartender with the long hair he will water down your drink. Music selection is banging and the price is a bargain. Its nice to come to place with such diversity in a town thats not so open. I highly recommend the tiki, its janky, fun, staff is great and drinks are strong af. read more

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Been going here for years. Very casual any day of the week. My favorite local gay bar read more

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This is an alright place. Went in for a drink on a Thursday night and it was packed for a bachelorette party. Wasn't overly crowded but took awhile to get my drink. Seems like they were friends of the bartenders and some regulars. Both bartenders made eye contact with me but seemed to be busier helping their friends. I waited about 10-15 minutes and had to move a few times to be noticed before I was asked what I wanted to drink. Music was a bit too loud where you couldn't even hear the person next to you. I dug the environment and will try this place out again on another day and update. read more

Little hole in the wall place. Kind of fun to have a drink. Even though not alot of people come here, they should try once. Just a vibe here. read more

I LOVE the Tiki! The drinks are inexpensive, and the atmosphere is the best. The crowd is eclectic but always on the friendly side. In my opinion, this is THE gay bar of Modesto. The only downside is that place is small, as is the parking lot. read more

This is THE best bar in town! Me and my friends always have a great time here. Drinks are great, staff is so nice and the crowd is always electric! I turned 21 a few months ago and tiki has by far been the most have I've had! We were just there this last weekend! If your looking for a fun place to drink and dance with your friends go to TIKI! read more

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We waited 45 minutes to get in they said we didn't pay for a drink and I offered to pay and they still wanted to kick us out don't come here. read more

Stopped by the Tiki Cocktail Lounge while on a campaign trip. The place is a slice of life, tiki themed decorations, medium size interior with a patio in e front and back. I had the 2 for 1 well drink special, the bartender Kat was great - very friendly and welcoming. A good place to stop by when in the Central Valley! read more

I love this place! The staff is so kewl, the drinks so strong, but can we add just a little more mix so it has the correct flavor? I have been a customer for a long time, and love it! The best gay bar around! I still cannot believe they added a stripper pole! But drag queens.... I love ya, but please be sure to not let the balls fly out when on the pole! lol Be sure to check this place out! read more

Amber was making me and my friend's drinks and they were so good. I didn't know what to get and was really conflicted and she made something on the whim and it was mind blowing, definitely would go again!! read more

We arrived in Modesto from Dallas late- 8 pm. This bar sits surrounded by a motel (Tiki Motel). We thought about staying at the motel, then walking over to bar- lol- my husband goes to the motel window, presents his Texas ID, and the motel manager says, "you don't wanna stay here or any motel on McHenry. There's lots of drugs, we do family relocation, and the police are here all the time." He suggested places out on Hwy 99- which we did find! Thank you! After in our hotel we went back to the bar. We had been traveling all day and needed a few drinks before calling it a night. We parked out back. Parking is tiny. Based upon our prior research- this is the "best gay bar" in Modesto. It looked kinda "dive bar"- but we do "dive bar well" First in you are "hard carded" for ID- then metal detector run over you. That's wild! Only in REALLY BAD dive bars have we ever seen this. We took a seat at the bar. The chairs/stools are something right outta "Pier one imports" - the padding's on the bar edges terribly worn out. The seating in back is red and worn- inside is TINY! This place is small! We had a few drinks and crowd began to pickup. Most seemed like your typical "Jr college rural" crowd. The bar is definitely "dive bar quality". If this is "the best in Modesto"- I'm terrified at what the other looks like. There were some local street "urchins" from the tiki hotel wandering around- so I guess the metal detector makes sense. This is a rough part of town it seems- based upon our observations and what we were told. Drinks were on par with most bars we been to read more

Cool and super friendly place. Although just visiting family nearby (not regulars) my partner and I danced and drank and was warmly welcomed I to this crowd. See you again on our next visit. read more

Amber is the best bartender ever! She's always so friendly and makes the best drinks! This is one of my favorite bars In Modesto!

The Tiki is a friendly nice place to come and get away with family and friends. I love the Karaoke and the DJ music they play. This Karaoke host has the most Karaoke and DJ songs I have ever seen. And the equipment is a Godsend to sing on. You can always count on getting your money's worth when you drink, the drinks are by far the best & strongest drinks in town. The bartenders are cool guys and gals, always friendly and respectable. The very best Karaoke and dance music in town - Every Tuesday & Thursday Nights. read more

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I love this place. I'd love more gay bars in Modesto. The bartenders are nice and pour stiff drinks, the music is great, and people are so happy and friendly here. One of my fav places read more

We went on a Sunday night and it was a ghost town but it didn't stop us from having a good time. The bartender kept us in conversation and I also made a new acquaintance. Very friendly staff. read more