Ok, I feel like after my father living at this facility for just under two years, and having had to move him into a different assisted living facility per the Bristals executives Directors request, I feel like I can now make an honest assessment.
The Bristal at White Plains is good. Here is the thing: if you are going to put a family member in ANY assisted living residence, remember, you only get out of it what not only your loved one puts in, but what YOU put in. I (along with my wife who is my absolute partner in this and quite honestly more vocal and pro-active than even me) constantly found his room to be unkempt, with crumbs and other forms of debris on the floor and stacks of his laundry washed and folded, but just dropped off and sitting on a chair waiting for someone to put it away. Note that my dad suffers from a neuro motor syndrome that has virtually robbed him of his ability to move. The day he moved in, I sat there as the head of housekeeping promised him "5 star service". I think it was more like 3 stars, similar to my rating of the Bristal as a whole. Most of the aides we interfaced with were lovely, caring and compassionate. There were a few who were not as effusive, but they still went about doing their job efficiently.
Unfortunately, the humanity at the middle and upper management level eroded significantly during dads stay there. A couple of higher ranking staff, who were just wonderful people, Faraz Kayani and Suzanne Reuter, were promoted and moved to other Bristal facilities. Their replacements, while I am sure were very highly qualified on paper, lacked, in my opinion, certain other characteristics that should be required when working at a facility such as this. What also bothered me deeply was that when Suzanne, who was transferred much more recently, exited to the new Bristal (Armonk) there was no announcement about it to the residents or the family of the residents. Suzanne was a beloved figure by everyone who lived there, including my dad. Many people were upset that one day she was just not there any more. Also, as a child of a resident who was in constant communication with Suzanne, her unannounced departure was a massive gut punch. This lack of caring, not to mention basic business savvy, is a real shortcoming. When I confronted ownership, I was told that a few things were happening and an email would be sent out to cover all of them, including Suzannes leaving. This was NEVER done.
The facility itself presents well. Nicely manicured campus, though on the inside the carpeting all over needs to be replaced. The rooms are nice, as is the dining room, library, and movie theater. it's a good place, and the pricing is in line with the location, level of care and overall facilities. go on the tour, and decide for yourself, but remember, you need to put in the work if you want your loved ones stay there to be a good one. set your expectations at medium to medium-high, and be prepared to be involved, and proactive. read more