Our son stayed at Sunset for almost a year from 2-3, and we eventually transferred him to a Pre-K5 private school. It's not only because he was 3 and needed to be taken seriously in learning, but also because his temper and behaviors changed during the time in Sunset.
Having been an educator for more than 15 years, I have a realistic expectation for preschools. I am not looking for the best school with the best pedagogy because there's no such thing, instead, a good-enough one where our 2-year old son could play, learn, rejoice and even cry.
Sunset was close to us and clean. Also the Montessori style, I used to believe, fit our son who is very independent and curious about everything. We tried parent-and-me program for one day at Sunset and my son was at school the next Monday which was a bless.
The teacher-student rate at Sunset was around 1:15. Our son was assigned with Ms. Mirna who was the most caring teacher there because she was the only teacher who was willing to spend time to discuss my son's learning. However, based on my experience, the whole school lacked incentive and training support for managing kids who challenge teachers. Almost everyday I received report from teachers saying they had to put our son in a dark room for 5 minutes because he didn't listen, or they asked him to be the last to wash hands because he didn't listen. Gradually, I noticed my son became angrier and even said "mommy, I am gonna put YOU in the dark room for FIVE minutes because you didn't listen." At that point, I started to worried about emotions and confidence.
Our son's new school teacher has a different view about managing children's behaviors. When I asked her (who has 25-year experience of teaching young children) how my son's performance was in class, what she said really touched and also surprised me, "when I saw your son the first time, I knew exactly what kind of kid he is. Because my son was like that when he was a little. Your son is creative, smart and independent. I love his brain and thinking. He is also pretty humous." I was happy but still not sure about if he behaved well in class; however, what amazed me the most was that she firmly assured me that she doesn't believe in punishment and then she explained the reasons and also how she guides kids in class with love.
Now our son has been in the new school for 3 months. He is speaking English and French, and most importantly, he is happier.
In my opinion, Montessori style doesn't fit all kids and I did see kids thrive in this method; however, comparing with a well-structured school with continuous curriculum, the resources for a kid to learn and develop in Montessori schools are very limited such as the space, book capacities, class varieties etc. Regarding Sunset, I hope the administrative team can set a higher goal to transform it to be a more education-oriented instead of keeping it as a over-rated glorious daycare that generates money every month.
Several extra things to point out
1. The owner Ilona asked me to pay for our son's tuition fee to her personal account one time which for me is an unprofessional thing to do.
2. As soon as I informed Sunset that our son would transfer to a different school, Ms. Christy closed my access to class photos right away even though my son still had three days to finish at Sunset. (Eventually, she did the right thing-recovered my account)
3. Younger kids may be negatively influenced by older kids at school, which is a problem of Montessori method because kids are mixed with ages and learn in the same room. We reached out to Sunset one time about an issue: our 2 year-son went home one day saying "I have a gun and I am gonna kill you." Sunset started to explain to kids what guns are for and who are allowed to have them. read more