Beware parents! Don't let the beautiful exterior of St. Vincent Ferrer fool you. What may seem as a safe, controlled environment for your child to have a good quality education is not the case here. Especially when it involves your child being bullied.
You will be paying a great deal of money to send your child to a private school so make sure that you interview the principal and faculty in regards to how something that's so common in schools such as bullying, is handled. I will let you know from my first hand experience at SVF how bullying is handled here; it's not. Especially when you're a minority. My child, a minority, as well as another child, a minority, has transferred out of St. Vincent Ferrer in the same week! Not to mention, they are both in 8th grade so its quite uncommon and unprecedented. I do not know the exact reason for the transfer of the other student but from my understanding and from what I've heard, this child was bullied by students and the teachers did not like him/her.
I'm writing this review so that parents who are considering St. Vincent Ferrer school, are advised that this type of unjust treatment may very well happen to your child. I do not wish this type of treatment on anyone. Children's lives, education, self esteem, trust are at stake when bullying goes on without consequence to the aggressor.
My child has been at St. Vincent Ferrer since kindergarten. I felt it necessary to transfer her after she's been continually bullied by the same female classmate for atleast two years. The previous principal was caring and compassionate about the situation and didn't allow bullying at this school. She took the proper steps to effectively handle the situation. The new principal here at SVF has showed zero regard or humanity in regards to how my child was being bullied. It's merely swept under the rug. Everyone turns a blind eye to it. The faculty will tell you that they will "monitor" bullying type behavior. So your child has to endure as much torment and isolation possible until and only until, the principal or SVF faculty "catch" the bully in the act.
So after this "bully" got the whole class to go against my child and torment her, the new principal who just started here last year 2011/12, called two students to his office and told them to tell the class to "chill out". This is how the bullying my child endured for so many years was handled. Not a conference with the parents or students involved, not even a warning to the bully or parents. Just a "chill out". Very unprofessional and cold in a way.
My review solely focuses on how bullying was handled in my case. I cannot speak for any other parent/student. This is what happened to my child. It is a fact, not just an accusation. No one wants to have to transfer their child in their 8th grade year unless they feel as though their child is unsafe. This was the case for my child. Not to mention, before even finalizing where my child was transferring, the principal made an announcement to the class that my child has "already transferred". But she hadn't transferred, not yet. No child should ever feel this type of disregard, isolation, distrust; not only from bullies but from the school, principal and faculty in which they trust.
Me and my family have had a negative experience at SVF. Bullying is a major epidemic and kids are committing suicide because of it. Is that not enough to handle the situation effectively enough to ensure that bullying another student doesn't go unwarranted.
Bullies will also bully so long as their actions have no repercussion or action against them. This was the case. The bully gets away with everything she has done to my child unscaved and my child is effected for the rest of her life. All because this situation wasn't handled and emotionlessly disregarded.
Bullying is NOT a rite of passage; it is a crime. Within adults, it's harassment, stalking, etc. but with kids, "they're just being kids"? Maybe for the aggressor; not so much for the victim. If you want your child in a "Zero Tolerance" type of school where the principal and the faculty take bullying seriously, please reconsider enrolling your child in this school. It will save you and your child a lot of heartache and hurt. Do your homework. Talk to other parents. This is just my situation but it may not be the same for you. But it's definitely not a chance I'd be willing to take! For the record, I have talked with other parents who have also transferred their child out of this school due to bullying in the past two years. Sometimes you have to make a lot of noise to be heard- so I'm speaking.... My daughter was silenced due to excessive torment and bullying; No child should ever have to feel this way, especially in a school where their focus should be on their education and future... read more