Spokane OBGYN waited 6 months to tell me they would no longer see me or sign off on the workplace accommodations forms they'd had since April.
I was diagnosed with endometriosis at 24y by Dr. Spaniol after an elective surgery in October 2025, and was scheduled for a hysterectomy in January 2026. I began my application for leave through Washington State's Family & Medical Leave Act (FMLA). Spokane OBGYN charged me for the application forms and never filled them out, returned them, or even informed me about their status; only after my psychiatrist had agreed to help me, and I was already approved, did Spokane OBGYN finally reach out, and I told them I was already on leave and wanted a refund.
When I returned to work in March 2026, I discussed workplace accommodations with my HR department & forwarded the request form to Spokane OBGYN in April for signature. Weeks passed, and my follow-up messages were ignored. Eventually, I was informed that they didn't know where my request was in the process because it was sent to their FMLA department, even though now I'm only requesting accommodations through my workplace, not applying for FMLA leave a second time. After about 2 months, they finally told me that Dr. Spaniol will not sign the request form because she's not an endometriosis specialist, even though she's my only OBGYN provider and the one who diagnosed me-- essentially, I had been waiting all that time just for them to say they did absolutely nothing. I was referred to schedule with Dr. Newell, and told that I'd be able to get my request form signed by her. Reception said she was booked out until October 5th (it was now July), and I took the appointment because I had no other options. On 10/1, I received a call from the same receptionist; she explained that she wasn't aware of my credit in July, so the appointment would need to be cancelled and I could no longer schedule with them. Immensely confused and heartbroken, I asked, "What does my credit have to do with anything?" and all she said was, "I don't know, I just heard from billing." She asked me if I was on state insurance, and since I'm not, I was not offered any further explanation or options for paying upfront; I also have good coverage with Kaiser through my work, which has been covering my medical costs for almost 2 years. She could provide me with no other information or option for follow-up, so as I was beginning to cry, I tried to end the call as politely as possible, apologizing for hanging up in the middle of things.
It has now been 1 year since I received my endometriosis diagnosis, and I still have no relief in place for my symptoms. While I understand that private practices are not subject to all financial anti-discrimination protections, in the time that I waited to hear from Spokane OBGYN, I could have met with a different provider to sign my forms, like I had to last year, instead of suffering through all of 2026. I run out of PTO early every year since it all goes to medical care & obligations, and I often have to work 9-hour days without breaks when returning from a flare-up to make up my time. Spokane OBGYN's failure to reasonably communicate, especially when they ended up taking no action, has put me through indescribable stress, pain, and hopelessness. I feel abandoned by the providers who cut into my body and gave me the devastating news of my diagnosis. read more