After our day care closed unexpectedly, we placed our son at Sonshine Preschool. From day 1 we had a HORRIBLE experience. Every day when we picked him up, we were told to sign a behavior report with no real explanation and attitude from the Assistant Director. When we started to ask questions, we were told that our 3-year-old, was threatening the safety of the other children and teachers. We pushed a little further to get a better understanding of what was going on, and he was throwing toys and taking off his shoes and throwing them when he was upset. On numerous occasions we were asked to come and pick him up because his behavior was unacceptable. Upon arrival, I found my son sitting alone at a table in the corner eating his lunch, while all the other children sat together at the other two tables. I was extremely upset that he was being left out and had a feeling that this was part of the reason that he was acting out.
It was then that the school asked us for a parent teacher conference, which we agreed to. We spoke with the director and pastor and offered techniques that we thought might help with his "behavioral issues", because he was not exhibiting this behavior at home. As parents we were concerned that maybe he wasn't getting the attention that he needed while in their care. It was during this conference that they referred us to a child psychologist. We were reluctant, but we agreed, because we wanted him to excel at the preschool. We were also told that this is a pre-school and not a childcare facility.
We reached out to the child psychologist as soon as we the parent teacher conference ended, but before we had a chance to speak with her, the school called us to ask that our son not return to their facility. The next day, the psychologist reached out to us, and we explained some of the behaviors that were causing concern. She expressed that it sounds like this is typical behavior for this age group and that she would have preferred to observe the behaviors and work with the school and teachers to give them strategies to help.
We were made to believe that our son is a bad kid, which is not the case. We reached out to another child psychologist in town to get a second opinion and were told that this behavior is very typical for this age and that she could tell after 5 minutes that our son was not a bad kid.
I don't think that this school is equipped to handle kids and do not understand the needs of small children. Yes, it is a preschool, but their expectations of 3-year old's is unrealistic. I hope that they realize that these are young children and that they are still learning how to express themselves and their feelings. Bottom line this preschool was not a great fit for our son and our family. We are extremely disappointed in the care that our son received. read more