On October 3rd, while minding my black business and, again, personal shopping. I left one aisle to turn and go down another when a white guy walking down the main aisle had some type of malfunction. I didn't know what was going on to make him run into the side of my cart.
I ignored it and continued on my path, headphones in my ears, world tuned out, grabbing the things the customer wanted in the aisle. I grabbed the last item I needed out of the aisle and headed to the next, making great timing when someone ran their cart into the front of mine, hard enough for me to stop my shopping, getting my attention. I realized that the white guy had gone down another aisle, rushed to the end to turn the corner, came up the aisle, and crashed into my cart. He laughs and says something I don't quite catch because I have my earphones in and ain't paying him no mind.
I take one out, and he is talking bull about bumping my cart. I am confused and don't have the time or patience for nonsense, so I try to move around him, and he blocks me from leaving the aisle.
I am all of 5'3, 130 pounds, and he is 6'3, somewhere in the two hundreds. I encouraged him to leave me alone and go about his day, and he refused. I decided to pull out my phone and acted as if I was recording him. He then begins to threaten me and tell me that he'd whop my little ass. I laughed and called him a "b" as I passed him, to which he responded by following me to the next aisle, and instead of walking down, he began yelling.
He claims I hit him and was asking if anyone saw it.
I put my beats back in when I heard someone say yes, and he asked them to call the police. I turned my music up and continued shopping. Stalking me, he was waiting at the end of each aisle; at some point, he pulled out his phone to record me shopping.
I noticed he had a little white lady with him, who I later learned was a supervisor at the Milbrae Safeway. She stands beside him with a phone to her ear, calling the police, I assume, while he holds his phone on me.
I needed to go to produce. I managed to lose both Karen and Kevin.
Several other customers who witnessed the bull asked why the white man was harassing me. I had no idea and didn't care to find out. I just wanted to finish my job.
I finished shopping and headed for the self-check register. As I am walking to self-checkout, this man is walking around, searching for me at the other end of the store until he finds me to continue to harass me.
When I got there, the police arrived, and I was stopped and made to explain what was going on.
While explaining, Karen, who called the police, asked the officers if they could have me move so other customers could shop.
I say no.
She tells the officers that the customers are feeling uncomfortable.
I explained that racism feels uncomfortable like I did the entire time I was shopping, and she and her friend were harassing me. I called her a Karen, and she explained that she does not get involved in customer disputes.
I politely cursed her out because she was the one who called the police. The man had a phone; he could have called himself. However, she stepped in and did not stop him from harassing me. She assisted him and called the police.
Unhappy with being called Karen, she explains that I am the racist one for calling her racist.
Upset with my choice of language, she walked off. This gives the black lady running the self-checkout an opportunity to speak with the officers. She explained to the officers that I was always there. Making sure Karen wasn't around, she explained that I don't bother anyone and am in and out of the store, usually not speaking to anyone because I have earphones in.
The officers nodded and apologized to me.
After getting permission from the officers, the self-checkout lady grabbed my items and began ringing them up for me.
I asked the officers to escort me to my car so I didn't see this man and do something that would get me put in jail.
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