Last month I gave my boyfriend one of the best gifts, I think, a guy could ever hope for from his girlfriend/ wife: professional, classy, beautiful boudoir pictures of myself. And while I initially signed up and stripped down for his benefit, it turns out that it was a really empowering, enlightening experience for me! To this day I still sneak away with the book whenever I need a pick-me-up or boost to remind myself of how hot and sexy I truly am!
My quest for the best boudoir photographer in NYC began here, on Yelp. Ricardo's reviews by far blew everyone else out of the water, and it just took a few minutes scrolling through his website to see why. Every woman he's ever photographed looks HOT! And super sexy. And confident. And classy. One of the main reasons I ultimately went with Ricardo was because I'd seen boudoir pics from other photographers online and they looked pretty cheesy. I didn't want the girl-next-door or 1950s pin-up look (although he could likely do those, too); I wanted the sort of look that I'm sure my boyfriend fantasizes about (within reason! Again, I'm a classy lady). Ricardo absolutely delivered in capturing what I had in mind, even though I was definitely too shy and embarrassed to actually convey that on camera at first. No matter, though, because after a few drinks with Ricardo's awesome assistant Remy (check out my review on her crazy make-up skills, which deserve a shout-out in and of itself!) and his own excellent coaching skills, I was eventually totally eating it up and feeling like a professional super model by the end of the night. Whenever I would get stuck or lose "that look" or shrink away into my little bubble of insecurity, Ricardo was right there coaxing me back out. And when you're that vulnerable and on display and hyper aware of all of your little imperfections, it's great to have a coach treat you like the rock star you really are inside. Ricardo was funny, encouraging, positive, and gave great direction throughout the entire experience, and the book we had printed out really reflects how professional and awesome a photographer he is. I actually teared up when I first skimmed through the book before giving it to my bf. I was so beautiful! I had no idea I could be that hot, and it's this memory that I keep coming back to if ever I feel meh. He also managed to expedite the whole Photoshop/ printing process seeing as how I waited until the last minute to come up with this as a gift idea for the bf lol. And yes, the bf was super stoked about his gift and kept saying how much he'd have liked to show it off to his friends, although he knows he can't ;)
So if you're thinking about doing a boudoir shoot for your bf/husband (or even just for yourself, honestly! What an ego boost!), I couldn't recommend Ricardo highly enough. What I thought was going to be a demoralizing and embarrassing evening actually ended up being one of the best things I've ever done for myself. =] read more