4 1/2 years ago, I was a hope-to-die heroin and crack addict living at my mom's house. I stole, I lied, I hurt people that cared about me, I crossed lines I never thought I would cross, I was miserable and self-pitying and unable to maintain a job, let alone manage my life in any kind of coherent way. I finally got arrested and went to jail. It had zero effect on me; after I got out, I went right back to it. Eventually I came to a crossroads and was given the option of homelessness or a ride up to Recovery Ranch. I had zero desire to get sober, but I figured the Ranch was probably the better option.
Long story short, I spent around two years at Recovery Ranch--graduated at 8 1/2 months, worked at the Ranch in management and several of the businesses (and got to start a business there) for about 14 months. After that, I lived and worked at the Santa Barbara Grad House for two years, going to school and working on my own. In those 2 years at the Ranch and 2 years at the Grad House, I got sober and I got a beautiful life.
This is by no means an easy program. If you want something comfortable and clinical this is not the place for you (or, more likely, it's the perfect place for you). That's what I would have preferred when I first got sober but I am so grateful that is not what I got.
The Ranch is a program of accountability; it's about facing who you are and being held accountable to putting serious, consistent action every day into not just getting sober, but becoming a solid, responsible, capable gentleman. It's about giving back to the new brother in the house and helping him do the same. There were many, many times I wanted to give up: the accountability was intense, the work was hard, and living with a bunch of guys in sobriety was too much. In reality, these are the challenges that helped me grow from an immature, dependent kid into a passionate, capable adult who put recovery first.
This is easily the greatest accomplishment of my life (and plenty of other graduates of the Ranch) and, no doubt, created the foundation not just for my sobriety, but for a full, beautiful life. Today, I live with my girlfriend and our dog in a beautiful home, teach English at a local school, attend AA meetings regularly, play music with my band, and keep in touch with the brothers at the Ranch. It's a beautiful life, but there is no way I would have this quality of life without all of the vital things I learned and practiced day in and day out at Recovery Ranch. There is no perfect solution for alcoholism and drug addiction, but the commitment, brotherhood, passion, and accountability at the Ranch might just be the thing you need. It was for me. read more