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    Rafael James, LCSW

    5.0 (6 reviews)
    Open 8:00 am - 4:00 pm

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    Jennifer L McMains, LMFT LPCC

    Jennifer L McMains, LMFT LPCC

    3.0(6 reviews)
    2.7 km

    Seven years later, my son is thriving. Honor roll, lots of friends, zero behavior problems, makes…read moregreat decisions on his own. Just a kid becoming their own person. The key to that success was diligent unwinding of Jen McMains diagnoses and the after effects it had on my son. To be concise, he believed he was "less than" and not capable of success because of her influence not just on him but his mother. When we entered her care, we were seeking proactive palliative support. What we received were problems which took years to unwind. Recently, I spoke with his mother (we get along great BTW) and him, on separate occasions, about getting some sort of trauma therapy related to this care and his subsequent experience at his school (teachers treated him harshly because they thought he could not reason like a "normal child"). I was on the fence about it but wanted to begin a dialogue. His mother was apprehensive about finding a "good" therapist, and my son was adamantly against it - saying I could be his therapist. I told him we could do better than my homegrown CBT, but I respect his decision and understood his fear of therapists. This is actually the point: it's not simply that this practitioner was inartful and rebuked by subsequent second opinions but my son is now actively against engaging with the profession, in general. A bias that may ending up yielding more harm in the future because of his negative bias towards therapy that could help him but he avoids it because his first experience was soooooo negative and changed his life for the worse for a number of years, according to his own reckoning. McMains is long gone actively from our lives but I still have to contend with the lingering and growing resentment of my son (now a preteen) against his mother for the initiating of an arc of his despair which began with seeing this therapist. It's not fair to mom, but it is a reality. I told his mom this was happening a while ago and they talk, but he's not changing his opinion of her. He sounds like an adult talking about an ex when he talks about his mom - very pragmatic and "over it". There were no winners here. While I was "right", I wish I wasn't. I would trade a decade of my life to have never walked through her door. That's how many stars I give her.

    Genesis 12:3 I…read morewill bless those who bless you, and whoever curses you I will curse; and all peoples on earth will be blessed through you." The above is God's promise to me from 2004. This lives today. Jen, you really blew it! After having appointment for family therapy set, I sent her an email about what I wanted to discuss. Here is her reply. My wife has since been seeing this woman as a therapist, beginning June 2, 2018, and confessed this therapist has been helping her in a campaign against me, using my medical conditions as the target, has since been trying to get me deemed an unfit parent to my five year old, by encouraging my wife to commit ongoing psychological warfare in the attempt to get me to explode. I would not write this damning review if I did not have the documented evidence, such as this along with dated receipts for services for my wife: On May 20, 2018, at 11:37 AM, Jennifer McMains jenmcmains@gmail.com wrote: I won't be party to the kind of manipulation you have planned. I will do individual counseling with your wife if she wishes. On Sun, May 20, 2018 at 10:24 AM, me oh come on please. I am TRYING to get her to HEAR me and I CANNOT do this without a counsellor! I have been trying to five years! Thanks, mj On May 20, 2018, at 12:27 AM, Jennifer Mcmains jenmcmains@gmail.com wrote: I have canceled the first session since it is clear you are not interested in marriage counseling. If your wife should wish to consult for some individual counseling, please have her contact me. Jennifer McMains, LMFT Sent from my iPhone === Your practice is over. ===

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    Lori Underwood Therapy

    Lori Underwood Therapy

    5.0(49 reviews)
    13.7 km

    My fiancé and I started seeing Lori during a really important time in our relationship, and we…read moretruly cannot say enough wonderful things about her. We are getting married in June and could not be happier, and Lori has played such an important role in helping us build a healthier, stronger relationship. I've seen many therapists and couples counselors throughout the years, and Lori is truly the best. Lori is the absolute best. She is compassionate, understanding, and creates such a safe and comfortable environment where we both feel heard and supported. You can tell she genuinely cares about her clients and wants the best for them. Her guidance, patience, and insight have made such a positive impact on our relationship and on us individually as well. We are incredibly grateful for all of her help and would recommend Lori to anyone looking for a caring, knowledgeable, and genuinely dedicated couples counselor. Thank you so much Lori!

    I was referred to Lori for uncouples counseling when my relationship was ending. It was our…read moreintention to resolve our relationship peacefully as well as understand what had happened and how to work through the next steps as we navigated our separation. She met with both of us twice and individually once. We left the relationship with so much grace. I have since started seeing her to work through some of the relationship issues identified during the uncoupling counseling. She has been amazing. Her ability to listen and hear what is being said between the lines is truly a gift. I cannot recommend her enough.

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    Lori Underwood Therapy - New address as of 1/2020 is 2635 Camino Del Rio South Suite 302 San Diego, CA 92108

    New address as of 1/2020 is 2635 Camino Del Rio South Suite 302 San Diego, CA 92108

    Lori Underwood Therapy - 5 Therapy offices in all.

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    Mark Spurlock MFT - Mark has been in the counseling profession for over 20 years. He is often consulted by the media on topics such as Marriage and Family life.

    Mark Spurlock MFT

    4.7(28 reviews)
    7.7 kmKearny Mesa

    We were looking for faith based family counseling in San Diego..... my wife found him and scheduled…read morean appointment. We are so happy to have found Mark. He's got us to focus on the issues, giving step by step instructions to identify our blind spots. We weren't necessarily on the verge of divorce.....but definitely needed help in communicating and understanding each other! I couldn't recommend Mark any more.... We thank God for him!

    I was looking for help to regain perspective and mend my marriage that was in trouble after…read moremultiple counts of infidelity over the years (caused by a significant difference in libido with my partner). Alas, after explaining my situation in detail, we did not receive any useful advice. Mark did not really want to understand the origins of the marital problems nor did he give any suitable advice. He has bad judgement as evidenced by him refusing to get a covid vaccine and still meeting clients in person w/o masks. Also, he feels it's ok to take personal calls while in session. He failed to follow up with us after a few sessions, so it looks like he's not really interested in helping. He actually made the situation worse. We are now both with a new counselor who is listening, understanding and non-judgemental and truly interested in helping to get a good outcome. Don't waste your time with Mark

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    Rafael James, LCSW - c_and_mh - Updated May 2026

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