Rushed, deaf to my concerns and angry once he realized I wasn't there for a simple 'hear the heartbeat' appointment. The most important note: he didn't use any lubricant for my pelvic exam. There was nothing on the paper gown when I wiped myself off. It was then I realized why I was in so much pain during the exam was so painful. This happened 5 years ago and it's as fresh as yesterday. read more