I saw Dr Schur for 1.5 years. I had selected him because I felt he did not care about money, and cared about helping me combat my depression. I also liked that he cared about my holistic health--exercise, diet, physical health.
However, if you're considering him as a therapist, know that he recognizes himself only as a psychoanalyst. He is unequipped to provide specific support for those feeling depression and anxiety. Do your research on psychoanalysis; it's based on Freud, and most of the time Freudians blame mental distress on the unresolved "sexual" relationship to the opposite sex parent, and lack of identification with the same sex (e.g. Oedipus complex). This method of course isolates those who had a single parent, parents of the same sex, or more than 2 parents, and insinuates that the only way to become a mentally sound adult is to have 2 opposite sex parents raise you to be like the same sex as you. Thus, this method also isolates queer, non-binary, and trans people.
Though I gleaned some insights as to where my anger and depression came from, my experience with Dr. S looking back was mostly negative. He was manipulative, insisting that ONLY HE could help me. He even went as far as to suggest I was sexually attracted to my father (per Freud), and since he was a representation of my father (in his mind), that I came to be attracted to him. That he was "the father who knows best." I found this incredibly uncomfortable and dangerous.
I was open to the psychoanalytic process, but I eventually found it to be unbearable when I heard the same suggestions from him over and over. He cared mostly about my dreams, and because sometimes I dreamt about children, and I am conflicted about having children, that that must be my ultimate wish and the "cure" for my depression. It was incredibly frustrating to me that his focus was to get me to a point where I could have a child. It seemed like he was so committed to "finishing the work" that he was looking past how I was really DOING--I was in agony. He would continue to insist that my frustration with this, was just me being "defensive against the wish" and "in collusion to avoid the wish" in the relationship I am in.
This was my experience. I'm sure others have had positive experiences, but I felt I needed to share this, especially for women who are trying to resolve depression and figure out if they should have a child, this method seemed hopeless. read more