Wish I could have given zero stars, or 1/2 star...
Where do I start with this review? Lets start with a saying I heard a cousin say, if you're going to die, don't go with 'Dignity', which just so happens to be the name of the parent company of Hildebrand-Darton-Russ Funeral Home. If you do need a funeral, you are better off having a family member dig a hole in the ground and then say a few words. You know that your remaining family members will be kindly (and fairly) treated, unlike at this place. When my father recently passed, I must say his 2nd wife and her family were fairly treated, but we, his own flesh and blood, were treated with disdain, and spoken to in a curt manner, especially by one of the funeral directors, Jessica. Never a more vile excuse for a person, especially in such a business, ever existed! If you get her, run screaming for the hills. She is a Hodag in human form. We, his children, were not allowed to assist in his funeral planning, writing his obituary, nor given the privilege of sitting in the front pews at the church, where I might add - there is more than 1 section. One daughter was even 5th row back! Lets just hope Jessica reads lips because I sure wasn't mouthing "FaceBook" to her, but the f and b sure were there. Also, at other funerals I have had to attend, the recently departed had a smile or grin on their face, or at least looked at peace with things. Our father was made to look as if in life he was a grumpy old man, which could not have been further from the truth. Our father always had a joke on his lips, a grin on his face and a larger than life smile in his heart that those around him could feel. Thanks for making him looking like a miserable grouch
Another bone of contention was we prearranged with the church staff to donate the floral arrangements to the parish that we had bought for our father's funeral (since Jessica forbade us from any involvement in the funeral); despicable Jessie wouldn't hear of it. She even tried to stop our nieces from taking a flower from said arrangements (something to remember their grandfather by) and she tried to stop them. A flower, really you cantankerous old biddy? And to deny a church of the flowers promised to them by the purchaser? I think you could teach Scrooge a thing or two.
This funeral home needs to realize that they are not the only company to provide this necessary service to the community. More importantly, in today's day and electronic age people's displeasure with less than spectacular customer service, word will get out. We are not just a number or an invoice bottom line; we are loved ones of the deceased who must be treated as such. Do your job and do it with the so-called "compassion" your web site states you offer! If you can't do your job, and do it well, get out of the business because there are other people more competent than yourself more willing to take your communities dollar for services rendered (and for a job better done). read more