My wife and I strongly caution you against hiring Meg Herzer. We do not usually take the time to write Yelp reviews, despite using the site often. But after our experience working with Meg, we felt implored to warn people to stay far, far away from her. For the love of God, do not hire her. We wouldn't wish our wedding planning experience with Meg on our worst enemy.
Meg did not listen to anything we wanted for our wedding. Time after time, call after call, she consistently tried to talk us into HER vision for our wedding. She had no interest in helping us achieve what we wanted. When we would push her for more vendor recommendations, for better communication, for reminders on payment deadlines, for facilitating our booked vendors, for more accountability for her ineptitude, she would throw the blame back on us. She gaslit us time and time again, rather than admit she dropped the ball on many occasions. She then tried to tell us we didn't pay for the package that would require her to do her job for us...
Three weeks before our wedding, we couldn't get in touch with Meg. We tried calling her, emailing her, but she was MIA. When she finally did get back to us, she revealed she was having a baby next week! We had no idea when we hired her that she was even pregnant. And now she was telling us she would be out of commission for a while... TO BE WITH HER BABY. THAT WE HAD NO IDEA EXISTED.
We're not faulting Meg for being a mother. Far from it. That's an amazing thing. We're faulting her for agreeing to plan our wedding when she knew the birth of her child would coincide with our most intense wedding planning phase! AND for not telling us about it! It was gross negligence on her part, and it was downright ridiculous to put us (and herself) in that compromised position.
All of those negatives aside, we hoped beyond hope that Meg would rally on our wedding day. She owed us that, at the very least. That was a foolish dream. Meg was, again, MIA on our big day. She was at the venue, but didn't communicate with us, our families, or wedding party at all throughout the day. Her assistants were equally inept, dismissive, and rude to our families and guests. I had to wrangle my entire family for the photographers to get the photos we wanted, since Meg and her assistants were nowhere to be found. I had to tell Meg to gather all of our wedding party to tell them how to walk in for the ceremony, 30 minutes before we were set to start!
Meg did not remove any stress from the wedding planning process. In fact, she did just the opposite. She added to our stress exponentially. We had to manage her and do her job for her, while being gaslit that we were the ones in the wrong. In spite of how awful Meg was, my wife and I had an amazing wedding. It was due to our own hard work, prep, and planning.
Hiring Meg was the worst decision we made about our wedding. We were initially fooled, since she had experience at our venue, but we quickly realized that working with her was going to be an uphill battle. We just didn't realize it would be Mt. Everest.
Please do not hire Meg Herzer and her company, Events by M and M, for your wedding. You deserve so much better for your special day! read more