I thought I was the last person who would NEED, or WANT a life coach. I had a great paying Tech job, the support of family and friends, and my own company that I managed on the side; from the outside looking in, one would think I had it all. Late last year, I pulled my work mentor aside and just completely broke down. I felt so stuck and stagnant with my career, was turning 30 in 3 months and felt like there had to be more to life than running this rat race that I was clearly losing. That was when he gently suggested I speak to someone he knew who could help: Emily, a life coach. Me? Get a life coach? I've got the best of friends to speak to about my problems, my mom is the strongest person I know who gives me advice even when I don't ask for it. Thanks bro, but maybe next time.
Life after that conversation was full of highs and lows. I would occasionally think about reaching out to Emily, but was too busy figuring shit out on my own. Until one day, I had a conversation with a colleague who was a former NFL pro football player and asked if he REALLY needed a manager since his sales team was without one for months. He responded with, "I absolutely need a manager. Every pro athlete has a coach and the best athletes never play their sport without their coach beside them. They see things we can't, they point out the most minute detail that greatly improves your performance." If Olympic athletes, Beyonce and even Oprah realized they needed some sort of coach or mentor, I figured, I could too. So, I put my ego aside and reached out to Emily just to hear what she had to say. It has been one of the best decisions I've made thus far in my life.
From the very first coaching session to the last, Emily challenged me to focus on areas of my life I avoided, she gave me tough love when I needed it, and encouraging words when I REALLY needed it. We discovered my passions together, shined a light on unhealthy tendencies after failures or break ups, and most importantly, TAUGHT me how to use my strengths to my advantage in all aspects of my life. My confidence for being able to live the life I wanted to live sky rocketed and I wasted no time in making shit happen. Right before our last couple of sessions, I left the Tech world to focus on my company, my happiness, and to enjoy this crazy adventure that is now my life. Emily didn't tell me to quit my job, or go travel around Europe to develop my business - I did that on my own accord. What she did do was give me the tools I needed to feel confident with who I was as a person, and confident about the decisions I needed to make in order to realize the change I wanted.
Emily is, and will always be apart of my wonder tribe, and I hope she becomes apart of yours as well. read more