Theres 2 ways of looking at this, one, as a bar owner, for many many yrs, and i had tons of weddings, not one single complaint, in my book, dont care if your flippn the bill or not, you just dont crowd in front of people, you just dont, very rude, if i was bartending, if she was drunk, I wouldnt have served her at all, its our backs we r saveing, and the businesses, you might not know the liquor laws, we can lose our licenses and fine big time for serving a person who had too much, we watch out for things, like this, 2, if it was ok with all people standing in line, to let the mother go ahead, by all means, let her, bartender serve her, if any of my bartenders, staff, r rude to anyone i mean any one that comes into my bars, hell will break loose,,,with you wanting the bar to b open for a couple more hours and your getting 2 different amounts, sumtn sounds very fishy there to me, with all the trouble u had and it is your wedding day, they should of let you have the bar opened for 2 more hrs, free of charge, wedding gift to you, and you brought them business...Its better to give than to receive... read more