No one really wants to place a loved on into assisted living dementia care. Everyone feels that…read morethey can take better care of their loved one than anyone, or anyplace, else. I'm thankful that I placed my wife at Arden Courts in Whippany because she is safer, happier, better cared for and healthier than anything I could have done, on my own.
I had to select a facility, as her mother and I could no longer care for her. In most cases it's not possible for one person to take care of an individual 24x7 with an altered sleep/wake cycle. After experiencing the level of care and concern at Arden Courts, Whippany, first hand, I should have placed Louise sooner.
I chose Arden Courts, Whippany, for a number of specific reasons, but the primary reason came more from intuition on our visit. The staff of Arden Courts, Whippany is extraordinary. If gold medals were awarded to caretakers for being attentive, kind, addressing all the needs of residents, gently directing them as needed, keeping them safe, ensuring that they had the nutrition they need, being well dressed and groomed, and in general treating residents like family, you'd need sunglasses for all the bling. I suspected the care takers were kind an efficient when we made our initial visit, but I underestimated the magnitude of their ability and caring.
On specifics, the facility is on one level. There are no stairs or elevators. The interior design is open and free flowing. The bedrooms are private, and residents and their families are free to decorate as they desire. There is a bathroom in each bedroom, with a sink in both the bathroom and bedroom. There is no leaving the room at night to find a bathroom, and then a return to find your room. The facility is clean and is smells good. All of the staff, not just the cleaning staff, works at constantly maintaining the shine. All of the staff provides assistance to the residents if necessary. No one is left if they need help while a caretaker is called. There are specific areas for lounging, eating and activities. There is a Social Room, which can be made private, where we held my wife's last birthday party with her brothers and sister in attendance.
My wife loves the outdoors and walking. We try to walk outside on a daily basis. Inclement weather is the only impediment. The facility is designed to allow residents to walk through the entire residential area, and the gardens that surround three sides of the facility. During nice weather, the doors to the gardens are not secured, and there are lovely places to sit under trees, in the sun, in the gazebo and on the porch to enjoy the trees, flowers and birds. My wife and I frequently walk outside, even when the weather is less than ideal. It allows us to walk outside without ever leaving.
There are things that are not obvious during a visit. The activities and activities staff are great, there is excellent entertainment from outside on a regular basis, and fun seasonal activities. The food is good. I don't know how, given the dietary constraints of residents, they make it taste so good. There are occasional barbeques, and grilling afternoons during good weather. There have been a number of dinners for residents and their families in the evening to celebrate holidays. The last, for Valentine's Day was a romantic dinner in the Social room, with dancing afterward.
The nursing staff, in association with the medical staff, has done wonders in the care of my wife. The physical condition of all the residents is reported to the nursing staff, who advises the medical staff. A doctor, nurse practitioner, and nutritionist are on premises, on a regular basis. A podiatrist takes care of my wife's feet, a dentist is on call. Everyone works as a gentle, coordinated, attentive team. I would have not been able to provide anything close to the level of medical care Louise receives at Arden Courts, Whippany, if she were in my care.
My wife went into care in May of 2017. Soon after that I saw that Arden Courts, Whippany became her home. She request to go back 'home' when she's at relative's houses and becomes tired. The staff and residents have become family to the both of us. I've kept abreast of other facilities in the area as they are built and open, and nothing comes close to the level of care and concern at Arden Courts, Whippany.