I am an assistant at an adult nursing home. Last week I was there with an 85 year old woman to get an ID to qualify for Medicade. It was requested she have two pieces of mail. Not possible, as she had just moved in. Told to bring two forms of ID...so today I brought a copy of the lease and her birth certificate. This poor woman was turned down again, as the manager said she needed THREE items and told me rudely that he had trained his employees excellently and they did not make mistakes. Keep in mind this woman is 85. Every single person who heard it was simply appalled. This man was condecending, arrogant, and not in the least bit helpful. I can't get an 85 year old a W2 or 1040, and her previous ID had expired two years earlier. I asked why the birth cetificate which matched up with the expired ID didn't count. But you know what really frosts me? I'm 62 and he can be a jerk with me. But he humiliated an 85 year old woman......and did not seem to care. There should be some empathy or helpfullnesss ("sit over here and I'll explain it") but that was above him. Just shut up and get out. She was in tears on the whole ride home. I hope he is proud. I despise people who find it more important to prove they are right, assert their minimal authority, and not try and help an 85 year old woman. He should be so very very proud. He did nothing to help. Just kept telling me and her how wrong we were. Did I MENTION she is 85? He ought to be ashamed. At least that was the feeling of the other 12 people in the building. I don't write letters, but there is no excuse to be such a jerk. And by the way, tell him to stop wearing shirts three sizes too small to show off how buff he is. Cause a great body doesn't hide a horrible person who would bring an 85 year old woman to tears. But hey, at least his ego was soothed that he did that. I'm a mellow guy....but 20 years ago.....You definitely should institute some ELDER ABUSE POLICIES. She's not a person (WITH AN OXYGEN TANK) who could defend herself. But assure this idiot that her tears were real, that he was the reason, and what crushed her most was how she was treated. BY HIM. I'll end with this. I know ithere are rules to get a state ID. But for God's sake, SHE FOUND HER BIRTH CERTIFICATE, her lease, and her first monthly rental receipt with her address at the facilty. As far as I can count, that's THREE things. She deserves an apology....especially after waiting 45 minutes do be belittled by this first class tool. I could go on and on. I'll end with this. SHE IS AN 85 YEAR OLD WOMAN IN A WHEELCHAIR AND OXYGEN TANK. You hire some really classy folks. But at least he has tight shirts, which is clear explanation of his ego. Or maybe he's overcompensating for something. I'd bet the latter. Thanks. 85 YEARS OLD....CRUSHED. Jerk. Finally, this was also directed at me, who he assumed was beneath him and I was some lowpaid idiotic bum. Tell him not to judge a book by a cover and don't make idiotic assumptions. I RETIRED at 55 and volunteer at this asisted living. Why? Because I was a VP of Sales with 300 Reps pulling down $160,000 a year. I guess that doesn't stick up to his 40 grand or so. But ONCE AGAIN....85 years old. Sorry to babbling so long.....but as you can tell, I am furious and he owes this woman an apology. It was just so wrong. This was Danville (Hendricks County) read more