I honestly don't even know where to begin. The midwives at Barefoot Birth are simply amazing. My wife and I struggled through fertility treatments. Once I finally became pregnant, the reality of a pregnancy gave me extreme anxiety. I truly couldn't believe I was actually pregnant and this continued through the majority of my pregnancy. Unrelated, I've always known I wanted a natural home birth with midwives and a doula; I had reached out to Charlie before we even started fertility treatments, just to get a feel of Barefoot Birth. She was so kind and supportive - our main concern was finding providers who were accepting of our same-sex marriage starting a family.
At only 7 weeks pregnant, we attending the Meet the Midwives event at The Roots and we immediately secured our spot with Barefoot! They made us feel so comfortable, answered all our (millions of...seriously, I had a huge list) questions.
Every home visit was professional and informative but also fun! We really connected with Erica (because we saw her most frequently) and looked forward to seeing her and catching up. Our visits with Charlie and Bennett were great, too! My prenatal care was pretty simple and routine. However, there were one or two instances where I needed to be seen in between regularly scheduled appointments and there was no fuss about it! The team truly wants to make sure Mama and Baby are healthy and will do anything. I also had to call Bennett on the on-call line occasionally and even though sometimes tired from a birth, she was more than accommodating and supportive.
I went past my due date and at 41 weeks had to do post-dates testing at TGH. I thought I was mentally prepared for their protocols. Measure baby, check on me and any contractions, and of course - offer me an induction. I knew I was going to politely decline...and I did! But they did get to me and scared us a little. We immediately called the on-call and talked to Bennett and Erica and they assured us that we were fine, but ultimately, they would support any decision we felt was best for our family. We decided to keep waiting on Baby because I was having contractions on the monitor, even though I felt nothing. And at this point, there was really only small level of risk involved in waiting at least a few more days.
At 41&3, I was due to go back to TGH, but instead I started having contractions! My early and active labor went pretty quickly. Once Bennett, Erica, and my doula, Vanessa, showed up to my house, there was only about an hour before baby arrived! Unbeknownst to me and my wife, baby had his cord wrapped around his neck 3 times! Bennett and Erica knew immediately, looked at each other, said something very calmly - that no one else even paid attention to - they unwrapped the cord once they could. I think this part of my birth sticks out to me the most. I had no clue there was a "problem". My wife saw nothing. There was no immediate panic. They just unwrapped the cord and we moved on. We didn't even know it had happened until they told us AFTER things calmed down and we were settled. In a hospital setting, I can only imagine that this would have been treated as an emergency as so many unwanted and unwelcomed interventions would have been put in place immediately.
I am SO thankful for every ounce of the Barefoot Birth team. I don't have enough words to explain what they mean to me and our family. I was able to stay home and natural - while not everyone can expect a perfect prenatal or birth experience - I can truly say that mine was amazing. I would rely on Barefoot Birth for any further pregnancies, without hesitation.
(Also an important financial side note, our insurance did not want to reimburse us at all for hiring Barefoot Birth. But I did some research on my insurance plan, and I saved money using Barefoot! My deductible for a vaginal hospital birth was higher that the entire amount we paid Barefoot. I also would have owed even more to insurance had I had a Cesarean section or any other complications to deal with.)
Our entire care through Barefoot was amazing. We had childbirth education with Rachel and she was amazing, also! My doula was Vanessa, who at the time hadn't made it official with Barefoot, but by the time my birth came, she was part of their team, too! I have no complaints and would truly recommend the entire team at Barefoot Birth to anyone! read more