I wish zero stars was an option. I was beyond mortified leaving this apt. I started my apt with a woman named Ron/Rahn (I can't remember) and she pulled dresses for me and was mindful of my budget and had asked me on maybe 2-3 dresses she pulled if it was ok it was a little over. All was good until I went to try dresses on. Randomly another consultant came out of no where, frantic ranting about what a busy day they had. I don't know her name- Can't remember if she even introduced herself because she went straight into nonstop talking. She was middle aged, had a fake eye I think. Let's call her Karen for the sake of me explaining. Karen followed myself and the other consultant into a large room to change. I was instructed to put my clothes on a chair and while Karen got my first dress ready to put on. First off- neither consultant asked if it was okay if they were present while I was changing. Not a big deal though- whatever I'm wearing full undergarments so I didn't care but still. Then getting in and out of every dress Karen was rough not only with the dresses (ripping them on and off the hangers, stepping on them, man handling them) she was rough with me as well. Throwing me in and out of dresses as fast as possible, clipping me in right, pinning me quickly (I ended up leaving and found a sewing pin left in my hair that's how rushed she was), and she scratched my back at some point(I can't even remember it was a blur). Meanwhile both consultants are hounding me about dresses ive tried on, where I tried in, how much were they, when they said they can get me the dress, if I liked any, etc. Also- the MOST DISTURBING PART of my changing room experience was Karen somehow unbuckling my bra without me noticing (since she was so rough with me with other dresses) and then trying to take my ENTIRE bra off from underneath the dress saying I can take it off to get the feel of the backless dress so i can picture it properly. to which I promptly told her no, that my bra will remain on my body. HOW DARE YOU TAKE SOMEONES UNDERGARMENTS OFF WITHOUT THEYRE CONSENT! At this point I blacked out and was barely coherent. Then after being man handled in the changing room and interrogated, I'm thrown in front of my party of friends/family and asked a million times what I think of the dresses, my party crying over the dress, and me checked the fuck out because I'm so damn uncomfortable that I couldn't have anywhere near a bridal moment. My party also had no idea what was going on every time I went to the changing room. Also, On the first dress and most dresses after They put a veil and forced me to hold this god awful plastic fake flower bouquet despite my numerous protests. (Given corona you would think they would eliminate any unnecessary touching of items) While were speaking of Corona- Karen was very vocal about her political views, spoke about Murphy and his plans like they were best friends and repeatedly told me I can take off my mask because "it's just us here" which I refused several times. At this point the other consultant was taking a back seat and not really into the apt besides telling me I should buy whatever dress I was wearing. In the end I only liked two dresses which I couldn't decide between. I asked if they wrote down in their system which ones the were. Karen said "oh you took pics you just bring those pics in and I'll remember which ones"... no offense but I don't trust that so I reasked and she said "fine I'll take a pic of this dresses number and put it in your chart for later, you liked this one better anyways" like oh okay guess you're making the decision for me so I can't figure out what the other dress was. I didn't care at this point.
You may ask why did I even stay to the end if I was so uncomfortable. Well I'll tell you that I was maybe in and out of the dressing room actually trying dresses in for 40-45 min. All of it happened so fast, I was trying to please my party and trying to just find my dress. I didn't realize how disturbing it all was until I left in tears explaining the events to my party. read more