My parents have lived at Seabrook (an Erickson Community) almost 20 years. My father served on the…read moreErickson Regional Board as a Seabrook resident for a number of years. This past week, my 101-year-old father was dying. The full-time aide called me to let me know. My mother called security. Security moved him from the bed to the floor and started CPR. The aide called me back and Security said that they were doing CPR. I said "NO!" My father has a Do Not Resuscitate Order, posted exactly where the Seabrook process says to post it. Many hours had been spent to make sure that the forms were completed, signed by the doctor and put into the correct place. Security had failed to even look for the form, violating their own process. When I arrived, two local police officers were there. The police were waiting for the go-ahead to release the body and the scene. The bedroom door was shut. My mother had been told that we should not go into the room before the transport that we had arranged came for his body. This indicated that they did not think anyone should go to say their last goodbyes. The transport took several hours to arrive, and my 98-year-old mother needed something from her bedroom. I went in and quickly understood the compassionate warning. To perform CPR, Security had moved my father from his bed to the floor. CPR is violent, especially on such an elderly person. He was left, just like that. It was shocking to me, his only son. I have been a firefighter. At my first fire, I saw a lump with a blanket over it. I asked what it was. The response? The family dog, covered out of respect for the feelings of the family. My father was not even covered by the bedsheet right next to him. I am reeling with the callousness. The lack of professionalism. The total disregard of the process Seabrook (an Erickson Community) has created themselves. The only consolation is that my father was no doubt already gone when they started CPR on his small and frail body; if not, CPR would surely have killed him. This experience - which should have been peaceful - has traumatized myself, my 98-year-old mother, my two sisters and the rest of the family. This should not have happened, not to my father and not to anyone. But I challenge you to search for my father, Allan Ostar, online. He was a very distinguished individual. A veteran of WWII, a member of the 42nd Rainbow Division, a liberator of Dachau Concentration Camp. His valor was recognized then with the Bronze Star and later, he was inducted into the French Legion of Honor. He went on to a multi-decade career promoting public higher education as the founding president of the American Association of State Colleges and Universities. He provided visionary and practical guidance. One example is the Servicemembers Opportunity Colleges, which operated from 1972 until 1997. AASCU worked with colleges across the country to build a program that allowed our servicemen and women to earn college credits at any of the participating colleges and graduate from the one where they take the last course. You might possibly know of one or more veterans who have benefitted. He was given an award from the Secretary of Defense for this achievement. Erickson and Seabrook should be deeply ashamed. There is no excuse for this. Simply none.

Seabrook suggested a mover/packer to move our relative. The mover was coincidentally a realtor…read more Our relative is being seen by a memory doctor and forgets things; she is financially illiterate. The mover/realtor convinced our relative to sign a real estate contract to sell her property without notifying our family; Seabrook has our Durable Power of Attorney and did not let us know about this entire transaction. Our relative claimed to us she had NOT signed a contract to sell her home with this mover/realtor. We had previously interviewed & selected a realtor, but our relative forgot this arrangement. Our relative is now STUCK with a realtor with ZERO vetting. BE CAREFUL accepting mover/realtors recommended by Seabrook. They become the senior's "new best friend" and get them to sign a real estate contract.

Nicole Klinzing( Nicki) is the activities director for Atria Tinton Falls. Her interactions with…read moreour aunt is wonderful. She has a wonderful way of engaging the residents in games, conversations and crafting. She organized a night time Bingo with proceeds benefiting Breast Cancer Awareness with prizes. My husband and I were impressed with the number of residents who participated. she has great insight and passion in her field. We do not often give reviews, however her exceptional work deserves acknowledgement and appreciation. Joel W. and Vicky S.

Atria in Tinton Falls is Beautiful. Extremely clean. The staff is friendly and very accommodating…read more I would highly recommend.

The staff should be ashamed to not help the patients when they need assistance. I was there many…read moretimes watching people ask for help and staff walking away telling them it wasn't there responsibility. Disgusting staff.

My husband did cardiac rehab here when it was owned by Meridian. It was very nice then. It's gone…read moredownhill since, by all appearances. I suppose there are worse places; this is the only nursing home I've ever been in and I hope it's the last. On the positive side:It's clean and doesn't smell bad. The food is decent. The staff is a mixed bag. Some people are friendly, bright and competent. Others are going through the motions. One night I needed to be changed, and while an aide changed me, all she did was point and grunt whenever it was time for me to turn over. When I turned over at the wrong time. When I thanked her, she grunted something and left. Weird. I would not recommend this place for the easily cowed. Some people who handle us are gentle and respectful; some are not. I have yet to get the same meds every day in the same dosages. If I question this they say that they go by the computer(I guess some tech at Jersey Shore misread something on my meds list). Thankfully there are wonderful professionals here for whom the patients are not the lowest people on the totem pole. The psych ANP finally changed what was on the computer and tonight I hopefully will receive the right dosage without having to argue my case yet again to a new nurse. We'll see. I will update this if I don't get thrown out in the meantime. But seriously, they need more staffing and more development of the staff. Another thing: there is a complete lack of transparency in the organization. If you are trying to contact a person responsible for something or simply complain, good luck! All I can see are vents like these on Yelp and Caring.com. Later.

Outstanding is the service my Dad and family received from The Willows Home For Senior Citizens In…read moreMontclair. My dad had a very active lifestyle. He worked until 78. Involved in the school industry. We never thought of placing our Dad in a retirement facility due to all the negative connotations. It was a true blessing when needed to find a home, we came across The Willows. It is a small retirement home for adults which is what we were looking for so our dad can be given the much needed personal attention. My siblings and I graciously Thank Mrs. Pinto and Ms. Chin for their thoughtfulness, care and attention. This home is not the typical institution like facility. It is a beautiful B&B style home with a very caring staff and no foul odors. It is a private facility with exceptional amenities all inclusive in the monthly rate. I highly recommend anyone needing a home for their love ones to take a tour of The Willows. It is truly a rare gem of a retirement home that caters to your needs.

I think I need to live here! I loved the location, the apartments and the services provided! Now,…read morelet me check my finances!

I cannot say enough about how AMAZING this place is! My grandfather spent the last few days of his…read morelife here and they took the best care of him. They got to know him: music he liked, stories he told, hobbies of his, and more. They took the time to know his family: our names, relations, where we were from, and so on. We would spend hours in his room and they would bring us trays of food directly to us- sandwiches, cookies, coffee/tea.. anything we needed! They took such great care of my grandfather and us, giving us one less thing to worry about in a tough time. When my grandfather passed, there was a sweet nurse next to him. He talked about how gentle and kind she was, and she was able to be right next to him as he passed away. It gives our family great comfort to know that he was in good hands before we could be there. Every single person we interacted with was so unbelievably kind. If you are nervous about leaving a family member here, I can tell you that, from my experience, they will be taken great care of.

Friends that live in Senior Citizens Communities aren't dead yet! Some go out for a drink at my…read morelocal hangout next door! They keep up even at 100 years old. I should be that lucky!! Don't stereotype humans because of their age. Get to know some. You may be surprised what you learn and how much fun you can have!! This community is costly but offers all the services on premises that someone needs to live a full and happy life. It's right in my neighborhood. :-) Adopt a Senior!

So grateful that my mom is at this lovely, lively place. The apartment is light-filled and…read morecomfortable, the staff is great and caring, and the food is better than other reviewers have said. I appreciate Carnegie East and the activities--from Classical music appreciation to Shakespeare to Friday Happy Hour--keep my mom engaged and happy.

Our mom moved into the Delaney about six months ago. I can't adequately describe how wonderful the…read moreexperience was for our mother and our family. The staff is caring and simply tremendous and worthy of calling out by name Seari, Mathew, and Jackie in particular. The dining staff goes the extra mile with a varied daily menu. I got to spend a lot of time as mom was at end of life...I met some amazing residents who genuinely cared for my mother. The culture of The Delaney is what helps make it unique. The building is brand new with a definite pride of ownership. As you can read I appreciate the Team Delaney and highly recommend it for your loved ones Steve Bashe

From the owner: The Delaney at Bridgewater, in Bridgewater, New Jersey, offers a vibrant senior living experience…read morewith Independent Living, Assisted Living, and Memory Care, all within one campus, allowing residents to age in place as their needs change. Nestled on 38 wooded acres just off I-287 and Route 22, residents enjoy both a peaceful, residential setting and proximity to Central New Jersey's upscale shopping, dining, and entertainment. Guided by LifeStyle Promises®, the community emphasizes comfort, choice, and connection, empowering residents to shape their lifestyle and enjoy meaningful daily moments. Services include bi-weekly housekeeping, 24/7 staff support and emergency systems, apartment and grounds maintenance, local transportation, chef-prepared meals, a Health and Wellness Navigation program, most utilities, and a pet-friendly environment. Amenities feature restaurant-style dining, a full-service salon and spa, a fitness studio, art studio, access to higher levels of care, a multipurpose room for socializing, and underground parking. Every detail is crafted to create a welcoming environment for a maintenance-free, fulfilling lifestyle.

Heard great things about this place. While I have had no personal contact, it is highly recommended…read moreand highly regarded for excellent service, facilities and activities. If I did have a need I would definitely be in contact.

Incredible place-- my mother is happier here than she has been in years. Wonderful, caring staff…read morewho are authentically dedicated to the residents' wellbeing and dignity. Residents are treated like whole people. Impeccably clean, warm, inviting. This place is all about health and heart. A real gem.

I was in this rehab from May 15 through June 19th after a fall which caused breaks in both legs…read more All of the staff, especially your rehab department, got me back on my feet and home. Amy and Stephanie were outstanding. The only complaint I had was the food which was awful. Highly recommend this rehab. Caring wonderful people!

Horrible and neglectful experience! One additional hour in their care my 93 year old mom would…read morehave died. My mom had COVID pneumonia and was on a ventilator. After a week, she recovered and went to NJ Shore Center. Unfortunately, they are understaffed and don't care when patients could potentially have life threatening issues. My mom was complaining for 21 days her red button help bell was not working. I also complained multiple times. The response we got, my mom is not pushing the button and maybe she needs a psych evaluation. During the 21 days my mom waited up to an hour to get assistance to move her bowels and was in severe pain. She was constantly in wet diapers. I was too trusting and after 21 days, I personally tested the red help bell. Low and behold to their surprise the signal was being routed into another room. They acknowledged, called maintenance and didn't even apologize, heartless. The damage was done and I noticed my mom confused with hands uncontrollably shaking on the 23rd day. I demanded she go to Monmouth medical. They called ambulance and we waited 6 hours. Never again, I should have called 911 myself. As soon as my mom got into the hospital she had a seizure. She had urinary tract infection and went into septic shock. Her blood pressure dangerously low and went into ICU. Once again, she survived and after 7 days went to an acute hospital / rehab - Encompass. My mom went there barely able to stand and within 14 days she was speed walking and healthy. She is now back home and doing well. Miraculous recovery! I can't say enough of the care and the staff at Encompass, they are the BEST. Unfortunately, NJ Shore center was the worst and almost cost my loving and spirited mom her life.