The owner was very helpful and attentive. Appreciated the help as I was shopping for regular bras for the first time In 6 years after finishing my nursing journey. Highly recommend for anyone who needs a bit of TLC while shopping. read more

Customer service from the owner has been lacking every time I have gone. Sandra who works there is delightful, kind and patient, though. Breast cancer patients deserve kinder consideration. I kept giving it a chance as my prosthetic was covered here, but the owner has been rude across every interaction. Prices are very high. read more

This is the best store I have been to ever. Linda knows how to fit and what to do for figure problems and big bust. I moved away and other stores whether specialty or not suck. I cannot wait to visit Thousand Oaks again so I can get some new bras. I give her 10 stars! Ann Telling read more

Getting a properly and PROFESSIONALLY fit bra is life-changing! Thank you, Linda, for the great customer care and for helping me to find the perfect fit for my latest wardrobe of bras. Will be sure to come back when I'm in the area. So important to support small, women-owned businesses too! read more

A Private Affair - Outside - Lingerie Near Me - Thousand Oaks, California

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I am updating my review of A Private Affair in Thousand Oaks, and I still give it a 5-star rating; it's fantastic! The owner, Linda Brafford, truly goes out of her way to enhance the experience. She is charming and really takes the time to ensure you find the perfect fit. I have never left the store feeling unsatisfied. I would never order a prosthesis or bras anywhere else. The store is delightful, featuring a wonderful collection of bras and swimsuits. The prices are reasonable for the beautiful products you receive. If Linda doesn't have a product in stock, she will gladly order it for you. She is a lovely and competent human being. Linda's assistant, Diane, is also very helpful and friendly. I would never consider shopping anywhere else; I even followed Linda when she was in the Valley. I highly recommend A Private Affair because I don't think you will find a better store anywhere else. read more

Always the best customer service! Been coming here for years. The owner is always helpful and I always leave happy. read more

I definitely recommend this place. I found that I had been wearing the wrong size bra all this time. Purchased some great bras(that fit) and the prices were great. The service was perfect. The selection were numerous. read more

I did not have a terrible experience, but it wasn't good either. I was reffered to see Linda, Linda specifically as she has worked with my referral friend for decades. She always had great things to say about Linda, and her service and why it was worth it to drive out to see her. I planned this trip more than a week in advance because it's rather out of the way for me. When I arrived, there was another woman there. She had long dark hair. She was doing some office work and seemed perturbed we came in to shop which was perplexing to me from the jump. She asked what we were there for. I responded with the obvious, as it seems to be all they sell there- a fitting & a bra. She got up with an annoyed sounding "oookay..." and this made me immedietly uncomfortable. She didn't sound confident or like she knew what she was doing. Not like the way my referral had described Linda's positive, knowledgable, and excited demeanor. So I asked her if she was who was normally there. I thought, oh maybe Linda isn't here and this woman is new. That was the clear vibe given off. When she said "Oh, that's Linda" I responded "Oh! That's who I'm here to see". She replied "So... did you want me to go get her," and I looked at my friend like, what? I replied "Yes, that's who I was reffered to see. My refferee's name is..." and she just stared at me before going to get Linda. Mind, this store is small. I can hear what she says to Linda. In a patronising tone, she says "There's a young woman here. She's *asking* for *you*." I look at my friend again and ask, "Are they being weird?" My friend responds yes, this is rude. It's very clear neither of them wanted to help me. But, I need the bras and I don't want to buy from someone who doesn't know what they're doing. Linda does come out, and does a fantastic job- but only after she makes a, frankly, snide comment about how the other woman (I'm sorry, I really can't remember her name!) is perfectly qualified and could have helped me, instead. She also seemed to not recognize the name I provided as a refferal, which is understandable as she's been in business for years, but the "Um, okay..." response was uncalled for, in my opinion. I shop, try on the several great options she brings me, find what I need as quickly as possible, and go to check out. Once we began trying things on, the attitude did ease up and there were no more weird comments. Linda is great at what she does and she did help me find exactly what I was looking for and taught me about the life of bras, and again, once she seemingly finished being irritated that I requested her, was very nice. This is exactly why I wanted to work with her. All in all, I do reccomend coming here. They're quality products and she is very knowledgable. Perhaps I just caught them on a bad day. But, my friend said that the one with the long hair was shaking her head and rolling her eyes while I was trying on items. Presumably, because I had requested to work with Linda. Listen, I worked in customer service for years. There are numerous reasons someone would want to work with a specific person. People could have trauma issues, all sorts of things. In my case, I was reffered to Linda by name. So naturally, I was looking to work with her. As a retail employee, I'd never be offended that someone wanted my expertise and I'd never show it if I was annoyed. Personally, I'm not sure if I'll shop here again. It really made me feel uncomfortable. And, it's a high price point to have an invalidating shopping experience. If I do come back, it will ONLY be with my referree. I'd be interested to see if the experience changes. read more

Today was my first visit to A Private Affair. I have been to many shops that carry mastectomy prosthetics and bras. Every other shop made me feel uncomfortable and odd. Linda at A Private Affair was welcoming, warm, understanding and gracious. We chatted and laughed all the while she was measuring and helping me make decisions. I have to say it was a pleasure working with Linda. She is so knowledgeable and efficient and pleasant. I live in Woodland Hills and it was worth the drive to go to A Private Affair. I will be back! read more

My daughter is plus sized and could not find a quality bra or any bra out there. We decided to try this shop and left so happy!! Linda is a wonderful small business owner. She took the utmost care in fitting Allie. She actually sewed one of the bras to make a minor adjustment. We will go back for sure! I'm a DDD and she has a great selection of bathing suits with bra tops. When my mom had mastectomies she also went to A Private Affair and was helped in multiple ways. So I had it in my head that's what they did only. With the lack of customer service you get in department stores this was such a refreshing experience! read more

This store is amazing. I have been dealing with breast cancer and the people who work here where very compassionate in helping me find a new bra, prosthesis, and a swim suit after my mastectomy. They work with insurance companies. I highly recommend you check them out. read more

A few weeks ago, I took my beautiful mother in Law to be fitted for new bras and get her some new prosthetic inserts. From the get-go, Linda was amazing. Her patience, advice, knowledge really made us feel at ease and grateful to have someone guide us. Kimberly was also amazing when we returned to pick up some items. I recommend Linda, Kimberly and A Private Affair to everyone. You will not be disappointed! Thank you Linda and Kimberly - for EVERYTHING read more

WOW, I was in dire need of finding a bra that fit, didn't look frumpy, and could provide the support I so badly needed. I did a Yelp search and found A Private Affair, called, made an appointment, and SO GLAD I DID. Red carpet service and Linda is so knowledgeable and patient. When I put on "the bra", she had me look in the mirror with my top back on and I cried. I couldn't believe the difference in the feel and look of the right bra. If you need a proper fitting bra, look no further. Also, the vast selection in this shop was incredible. She had bathing suits too, I am just not there yet. I love supporting a local small business. Linda is a wonderful lady, so happy I found her. By the way, I am a breast cancer survivor and was hesitant to be "seen", within moments, the hesitation slipped away because Linda could not have treated me better. Thank you! read more

I found this delightful shop while looking for bras that fit properly. When I walked in the door it felt like home. Linda and Kimberly are tremendous. This selection of bras is beyond compare. The customer service is off the hook. They are friendly kind and patient. Not to mention extremely funny ladies. You will not find a better selection anywhere. So often off the rack bras are never the right size. Kimberly will take you to another place and you'll realize that the bra you have been wearing all your life is the wrong size. I can't tell you how much my posture has improved, my cup size fits properly , and the bras are beautiful! The prices are reasonable and if they don't have it In stock, they can get it . Did I mention custom alterations on the spot? I lost 12lbs and my bra size went from 38J to 34I. Kimberly made all of the adjustments immediately Stop in and do yourself a favor and get the bra that properly fits you. You will have discovered, new friends,a home away from home and the most amazing bras you'll ever own. read more

My wife and I brought our 12 year old daughter into the store for her first"real" bra and the owner of the shop was fantastic. She sized her and had her in two perfect bras in no time. While she took care of our daughter, she also sized my wife and before we were done she had three bras and a beautiful corset. Top notch service and a fantastic selection. Check Facebook for coupons or better yet, get on their email list for savings. Will definitely bring my wife and daughter back. read more

I love this place! I wish I had found this store as a teenager! Come in and get fitted for the proper size! Such a comfortable environment for girls to be able to shop! I am now a lifelong customer! read more

Talk about someone being wonderful at there job. Linda is amazing. It is not always comfortable to go and buy a bra let alone be fitted. Linda makes you feel so at ease. She help fit me for a bra and picked several great bras for me. I highly recommend this place. My daughter turned me on to this place and I thank her for it.They also have a huge selection of bathing suits. read more

The only place my wife and I will buy our bras! They were so helpful after she had her first child fitting her into maternity bras and honestly we will not buy bras anywhere else. It's private and quiet and feels like grandmas house in and odd and comforting way. Customers for life! read more

I want to express my sincere gratitude to Linda for taking the time to help me find the correct size bras for an upcoming wedding. She made the entire experience so 'easy' it was actually a very pleasurable afternoon for me. I even found a beautiful bathing suite that fit perfectly and it was on sale as well. I loved the way the bras I went home with felt as soon as I tried them on! Linda is a lovely person and very knowledgeable! This little store is a gem! I highly recommend just stopping in to check it out....... you will not be disappointed! read more

I LOVE THIS BRA SHOP! I have been coming here for about 6 years and I have never been disappointed in terms of service or quality of their bras. If you tell them what you are looking for they magically find you the bra you never thought to be possible. Though they do carry size A-C they specialize in larger bra sizes, breast prostheses, masectomy bras, larger nursing bras, and fittings. Amazingly they even have sexy attractive bras for women with larger breasts that STILL give support AND comfort. They even turned me on to my favorite everyday bra - the Lunaire Versailles and several fantastic sports bras that give AMAZING support (your breasts will not jiggle while you wiggle in these bras..). Linda - thank you for having such a wonderful store that provides an understanding helpful and kind environment! They even keep your bra information on file so they can special order it for you ((swoon)) read more

Another 5 stars for this great establishment. The owner, Linda helped me through the process, starting with the best measurement/fitting I've had at any lingerie or bra shop. I left with four bras, including the best sports bra evah (no more "uniboob!";). I was able to visit the store on a weekday, so there was only one other patron in the store during my time. I definitely won't be returning to any large department stores or a certain, well-known chain store with the initials, "V.S." after checking out A Private Affair. The personal attention makes such a difference - they really know their stuff here! read more

First of all-- this place can be hard to find. I am new in the area, and Thousand Oaks Blvd can be a very busy street. So finding this store was quite a confusing and frustrating trip for me. Tip for other non-locals: It's next to a Ruby's restaurant. Anyways, this place can get busy!! I arrived today, on a Saturday afternoon. There was only one saleslady working. They definitely need to hire help for the weekends! I only waited about 10 minutes to be fitted, so in the meantime I perused the store. There were bras, some undies, lots of shapewear (woohoo Spanx!), also bathing suits and some old-lady pajamas. After I arrived, about 5 more women arrived after me. I was attended to first since I arrived before them, however I was concerned that the saleslady would become rushed and not tend to me. Thankfully this did not occur, as she continued to check in on me and the other ladies. I did have to take my shirt off (but not my bra) for a quick measurement around chest (below the boobies). Her first guesstimate was correct! I was happy to find bra's here at a reasonable price (around $40). In the future, I will come here for more bra's...perhaps on a week night, where I may receive more attention and feel less pressured. Although the SA didn't rush me, I knew other ladies were waiting to try on bra's in my fitting room so I rather rushed myself. Also, beware-- your real bra size may surprise you!! read more

There is something for everyone at this shop. The owner is well connected to local clients. They came in and out the time I spent there. Apparently customers walk around often In bras they are trying on, when I was in the shop. The owner reminds the customer.....now there is a man in the house with us. Great shop for personalized attention. I am still wondering what's in all the cubbies in the back. Hummmmmm read more

My sister in law and I have been coming here for the last 4 years. I can honestly say the bras I bought FOUR years ago from here are still the best ones I have ever had. I still use them to this day. Kinda is so very sweet. she measures you and asks for the type of fitting you're looking for. She brings options, assists with fittings, and answers all your questions patiently. They even have the cutest puppies. :) They also have sizes. Many many sizes. I always struggle to find my size anywhere but here. Definitely recommend it to every women out there. read more

Just want to express my sincere Thanks to Linda for all the help she gave me today. She was so helpful, and seemed to truly care that I got what I needed. The store is neat and clean and had a very inviting atmosphere. read more

I love this shop! The ladies are very knowledgeable and make shopping fun. I found bras that were comfortable, pretty, and affordable. I highly recommend this business! read more

I have been buying all my bras from Linda since she began her business decades ago. I wouldn't go anywhere else. She's probably been my longest business relationship of which I can say nothing but nice things. I had a radical mastectomy in 1972 and have problems with fitting. She carries beautiful mastectomy bras as well as gorgeous regular ones; and I don't know why I didn't think of putting a review on Yelp sooner. Thank you, Linda, for all your years helping me solve a big problem. C.A. read more

Sweet mother of Mary, I have huge knockers! Erm, ahem, well, sometimes they even shock me in size, but to the lovely ladies at A Private Affair, they've seen it all, and are more than happy to supply me with not only comfortable, proper fitting bras, but sexy, not so straight jackety ones for my robust DDD/E size. They offer a sweet selection of varied brands and sizes, and even lingerie. The staff is kind and understanding, but firm in making sure that you are getting the bra that both supports you properly and makes you look good. Linda, one of the owners, is often on hand to help out. They have sales at least once a season (like 2 for 1!!!), and if you buy a bra you just can't live without and then the manufacturer stops making it, don't worry, they'll even help to adjust and sew your bra to fit you again, or customize it when you buy it for that perfect fit. I am forever indebted. read more

just got back from shopping here. So glad I found this place on yelp. I have gained a bit of weight and mother nature hasnt been the kindest, nor father time. The lady who helped me was wonderful. she must have brought me 20 bras to try on. I couldnt believe the size I am now wearing. I ended up with 3 new bras, and I imagine I will return for a bathing suit as well. Highly recommend. For the same price as the department store, you get individual attention, and someone helps you find the size and style you need. read more

If you are a size D or larger, you must shop here for bras and (more importantly) bathing suits. Got my first suit that actually fits in 20 years!!! read more

This store, A Private Affair, is so wonderful. The personnel are fantastic and extremely helpful and kind. A great assortment of well-made bras. They don't sell cheap junky lingerie. Everything is quality and name brand. Several times, I have overheard the personnel helping a breast cancer patient to find a bra. They were so caring and considerate. I am so glad the store is there for customers like me who don't have the perfect body. WAY TO GO, Private Affair. read more

Linda is amazing, caring, thoughtful, and didn't make me feel uncomfortable. This store has the best selection within a 300 mile radius. I will definitely return and recommend this store to others. read more

I am 24 weeks pregnant and was in desperate need of a good bra (I'm extra busty normally and even more now that I'm pregnant). I went in and the lady was so nice that helped me. I went back a couple days later because the wire of the bra I purchased was bugging me a bit and she sewed small pads in which solved my problem! The woman was so patient with me and understood my wants and needs which I really appreciate. Thank you! I've bought 3 bras there now :) read more

Finally a bra shop that actually HAS customer service and not just customer service...it goes well above and beyond. If you tell Linda (owner) what you are looking for she will find that exact bra and if she doesn't have it she'll order it in. She takes her time and you never feel rushed or uncomfortable. read more

Linda was great when helping me find the bra I needed to wear with my sweetheart, low neckline dress I wore for my wedding. When the first bra I tried didn't work out, she ordered the one I needed right away and I had it in time for the big day! read more

The greatest Lingerie shop ever. I am a Cancer survivor and the big chain stores have teenyboppers who degradingly refer to a person as "Sweetie - Honey - dearie, etc. and you can see the pity on their faces when they know I need a prosthesis. At A Private Affair they have the greatest sales people that are HELPFUL, they don't treat you like a backward 4 year - old because you had a mastectomy. Never again will I shop anywhere but here for my needs!!! I absolutely love this place. read more

Great place to get a bra fitting without spending a million dollars on a new bra. I wear a larger bra size and I can always find my size in this shop. Plus, the people who work here are super sweet. I also got an awesome sports bra here not too long ago. read more

Two friends of mine are dealing with breast cancer. One of them has been driving all the way to Los Angeles to purchase specially made bras to fit and support her perfectly following breast surgery. She had no idea that Linda's shop in T.O. provides these exact bras but with a wider variety and totally personalized service. If she doesn't carry it in stock, she will get it for you. Linda takes the time to personally fit each client and make sure they leave with a product that will improve the quality of their life by giving them back their confidence by helping them look their best. She even stocks designer swim suits in for every shape and sized woman - literally from size AA thru N!!! I have purchased all my Felina bras from her that I used to buy at Nordstrom - the same gorgeous lacy styles, only their actually LESS expensive, and I'm supporting the community instead of another huge corporation. Check out her upcoming swim suit trunk sale, too - March 22nd and 23rd. You won't be sorry! read more

Love this place! Great selection and Kimberly is fabulous! Will definitely be back for every bra in the future! Thank you for your help and thank you for your patience! read more

I was about to give just two stars, but the service really is pretty good. I've been here several times over the last couple of years, usually pregnant or nursing each time. They are great about measuring you and have good selection, although whoo, the prices make my husband sweat. However, each time I've been measured for nursing bras, I end up with super expensive bras with bands too big for what I need, and I can't return them. Now, I know I've already worn the bras, so I understand about the whole no returns or refunds thing, but I wish they wouldn't be so wishy washy about giving me the right band size. Make it tight! I don't mind! I'd rather it be firm and tight than having to hitch it down all the time, which is what I'm doing now. Because of the no returns policy, and the fact that I've busted the budget on just two pairs of bras, I'm going to have to go MacGuyver on these puppies so that they'll fit better. read more