My older son attended Camp Marston for years...first as a younger child through a program called Operation Purple designed for military families, to make camp accessible to as many military dependent children as possible, and then later through the graciousness of a private donor, who paid for weeks of camp for him, including his final two weeks once he'd aged out of Camp Marston's regular overnight camp and joined the Mountaineers program - they go on hikes and camp further in the wilderness. After that last experience, which was fun but incredibly physically demanding, he decided that he didn't find the same level of fun and recreation as he did when he was younger and would play games like Ga Ga, engage in Color Wars, do archery, shoot B.B. guns, canoeing, and other activities...the hiking and lack of more physical "fun" resulted in him deciding not to return to camp the following year...although he kept his YMCA rag and candles from the years of campfire ceremonies he took part in.
Those were good years for him which built a solid foundation of positive self esteem and created memories that would last a lifetime. One of his assistant Camp Leaders was also autistic, which gave him a positive role model to look up to (back then, there was far more emphasis placed upon what Autistics could not do rather than what they could do. It is good to see that society in general has begun to change this erroneous thinking and eliminate those hurtful and just plain wrong stigmas and stereotypes.)
At the time, it was very important that my son had an older autistic camp leader to look up to, who showed him that autistic people can do things just like everyone else can, including being leaders! He spent many years at YMCA Camp Marston, and even spent some time at Raintree with the horses, which he thoroughly enjoyed!
I was president of the Autism Society San Diego when the YMCA Camp Marston approached our organization, wanting to start a family camp for autistic individuals and their families...much less structured than regular camp, but with all of the same amenities (rock climbing, archery, candlemaking, paintball slingshots, Ga Ga (a Dodegeball-like game held in an octagon shaped pit), red tailed falcon/hawk/other birds of prey demonstrations, catch and release fishing, gold panning, and caneoing, among other activities). I brought my older son with me (who was then almost an adult, and had been volunteering with the Autism Society San Diego for the past 7 years that I'd served on their Board of Directors), and he was reunited with one of his favorite staff members, Simon, but also flooded with memories of how much fun he'd had during his camp experience. During the tour, he got to serve as the unofficial "model" for all activities they showed our executive team. YMCA Camp Marston would be responsible for handling the cost of the camp and offering scholarships to anyone who applied and met financial qualifying criteria, while the camp itself would be open to any families of autistic children who had paid their annual $40 membership dues, along with the full cost of the camp - a number set by the YMCA that was not only reasonable for most families to be able to afford, but also eliminated the need for the Autism Society to have to do much other than provide some volunteers at the camp and ensure that any applicants to the camp were paid members of the Autism Society San Diego.
While I've since moved on to other endeavors within the autistic community, the Camp Marston YMCA staff have continued to hold the camp biannually, with the promotional support and volunteers provided by the Autism Society San Diego. We have been to 3 out of the past 4 Family camps, and we have made new friends (each family gets a very spacious 6 bed cabin room all to themselves, with a shared common area containing couches, games, and a wood burning stove - the bathroom in each four-Room cabin is also a common area, with 2 sinks, a shower (with a seat, making it ADA accessible), and a few toilet stalls). We have had so much fun that the extremely low cost of the camp is completely worth the cost.
We will continue to pay our Autism Society San Diego membership simply because it opens us up to programs like this that may be hosted by another nonprofit (Camp Marston YMCA in this case) as well as day camp programs within their own organization. One day, it would be nice to see more programs like this available throughout the county to all Autistics, regardless of organization affiliation, but this is a good start as a model for how to execute these camping adventures and make them accessible and inclusive to all neurotypes - autistic, family members, support staff, and friends!
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