I completed Dr. Wendy's Renaissance course and it was definitely a life changing experience for me. I had been working with her for 3 months individually and decided to attend her 5 day intensive course. I was at a crossroads in my life so to speak and Dr. Wendy, along with my fellow Renny's, helped me through it and along the way helped me realize that I was enough and deserved more and better. I highly recommend working with Dr. Wendy and if you are lucky enough to attend her Renaissance work shop I highly recommend it as well. read more

UNBELIEVABLY off-base. First time I met with her was with my sister, via web conference. Reason we were meeting was to resolve long-standing family issues. I'm the family scapegoat, purpose of family therapy - address elephant in the room. Why rules which applied to everyone else, did not apply to me. My (narcissist/golden child) sister insisted on meeting with her first, before we met together, the 3 of us. Unaware of what was said in that first meeting, was still hopeful Dr. Hill could help to bring awareness to my family about this toxic family dynamic, so that we could move on harmoniously, as a family. While family scapegoating abuse (FSA) is increasingly more common & gaining awareness, it's not fully understood by mainstream therapists. In this situation, counseling can do more harm than good. Especially for the person who's been systemically abused since childhood, not only by the mentally ill/narcissist parent who targeted her, but rest of the family who learned (consciously/subsconsciously) to treat her as the family trash can. That said, during our FIRST session, Dr. Hill said to me, "you DO know you are an alcoholic, right?" I was shocked. I am NOT an alcoholic. Not even CLOSE! And who the hell is SHE to tell ME I am an alcoholic? She didn't even KNOW me. I LITERALLY just met her. No words to describe how offensive this was. Even my sister agreed how bizarre and completely inappropriate this "diagnosis" was. It was just WRONG. I'll be filing a complaint with CA Board of Psychology. This person should NOT have a license. Talk about "doing more harm than good." FYI - not a wonder her therapist license was revoked (aka "voluntarily surrendered") for "unprofessional conduct" in 2007. So how is she still practicing? A loophole law, aka starting a "non-profit" as "ordained minister" several years later. Just exposing the obvious, so that others can make an informed decision. Proceed with caution. *IMPORTANT & RELEVANT- Maria M.'s review - posted only MINUTES after mine? Previously only 33 reviews. Ever posted. IMMEDIATELY after I post mine, Maria M. decides to post her review? What a strange "coincidence?" Again, encouraging everyone to decide for themselves what's going on here. But ... what are the odds? read more

Wendy Hill, Ph.D. - "voluntarily surrendered" her license to practice therapy, several years starting non-profit to charge $250/hr as "ordained minister." - Counseling & Mental Health Near Me - Encinitas, California

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Dr. Wendy has been my Therapist for just over 3 years for a variety of topics. She has always been an Inspiring and compassionate Woman. With Dr. Wendy's teachings, guidance and her insightful programs; I have learned how to lean into whatever I need to resolve on my own with the set of tools she has taught me. Her lessons will carry me thru the rest of my life. I love that I can still call her when I get stuck and she prompts me to work thru it on my own with her by my side. Thank you Dr Wendy, you have positively changed my life. read more

I had the privilege of meeting with Dr. Hill and was blown away. She is very intuitive and gets straight to business. I love her no BS approach which helped keep my stories and excuses in check and stay on track. This may sound odd but I felt like she could see right through me. It was a strange combination of discomfort from feeling exposed and relief from being seen. I look forward to the day I meet with her again and get started on the work to be done. read more

Wendy is the best, actually on the contrary of the review I just saw from Kim In, the part I loved the most about Wendy is how smart, sweet but firm she always got me out of my own denials and stubbornness I had in reach my high potential. Thank you Wendy I am eternally grateful. read more

I have worked with Dr. Hill for four sessions now. The transformations that have already occurred in my life as a result are more than I could have ever dreamed of. She has helped me identify root problems in my childhood and empowered me to address and overcome the problems so that I live a fulfilled, peaceful life. I have learned so much about myself and appreciate her direct questions and compassionate support to help free me from myself! If you are feeling READY to change and release whatever negativity or trauma you may have unconsciously been holding onto--then give yourself the gift of beginning your healing journey with Dr. Hill. read more

Dr. Wendy Hill came highly recommended to me via a lifelong friend who had gone through a few 1-on-1 sessions and attended her Renaissance workshop. Since my friend was already employed in the mental well-being industry, I took his recommendation seriously when he mentioned how good she is. I first met Dr. Hill via Zoom in a group setting during her free Tuesday workshops on "How to Be Happy." I didn't know what to expect. My background, which I will spare the details in a public review, included years of CBT and some programs, but never hypnotherapy, so I was comfortable with the idea of being introduced to a group of like-minded individuals who appreciate the support of a group. Further, I was unemployed at the time and pursuing a new calling career-wise. In other words, I was already committed to pursuing help. I was not disappointed in what I found in a group setting and was encouraged by the strength in vulnerability shared in that setting, which immediately put me at ease. Dr. Hill moderates the group and asks you to challenge yourself by finding your inner child and inner spirit. Since the Zoom groups, I have enjoyed many more remote (due to COVID, but also because I live across the country from her) one-on-one regression therapy sessions dating back to the earliest memories. I cannot tell you how critical these sessions' timing had been to compliment work I had already started through programs and career counseling. The level of focus she empowers or lends me to uncover early childhood wreckage is second to none. I trusted Dr. Hill before our first session and kept an open mind to her healing energy. Finally, I have experienced Dr. Hill's Renaissance workshop via Zoom. It was a very successful and critical 5-day small group workshop focused on finding, rescuing, and healing the inner child without outside interference (no phones, tv, communication with others). Without letting the steam out, it is recommended you do this only if you are genuinely committed to helping yourself and ready to face a small group of people who want the same thing you do - joy and happiness. read more

Wendy has a real gift for what she does. I've only had three sessions with her but have already had more breakthroughs than in all my therapy I've had in my entire life. She's kind, compassionate and intuitive. Definitely looking forward to more sessions and I'm so glad I found her!! read more

I met Dr. Wendy on a photoshoot and I told her I had been interested in helping others and self-exploration. I had told her about my issues and surprisingly we explored my inner-child. I had no idea I would have the opportunity to work with her in this aspect. I was able to explore my inner-child and figure out why I was feeling the way I was. Going back to high impact moments as a child opened my eyes to why I was feeling worthless and feeling anxiety. Now I have the awareness and knowledge to tap into my inner child and be forgiving, understanding, more compassionate and happy. read more

Please please seek out an actual qualified licensed mental health professional! THIS IS NOT IT! I had a session with Wendy Hill yesterday and cannot shake how wrong the whole thing was. I went online looking for a therapist specializing in childhood trauma and came across her site. It wasn't until after the session that I looked deeper and saw that she is not a mental health professional, rather she found some loophole in California to provide "psychotherapy" by having an ordained minister license. Starting off her demeanor seemed a bit cold and blunt, but I went with it. We did an hour session where I opened up and went into details about childhood trauma and at the end did an inner child regression. This is always an emotional powerful thing and brought up many feelings. After this, she asked how I felt and at some point it seemed that she did not like my response (I was quiet, tearful and pensive after having felt a lot of emotions). She firmly stated that I was being UNGRATEFUL. She said she was doing something for me that other therapists wouldn't do which was meeting my inner child and that I should show her gratitude. Absolutely shocking and extremely unethical! She then asked me if I trusted her, knowing full well all of my childhood trauma. I responded that I was hoping and wanting for this work to be helpful for me but that I did not yet fully know her work or trust her, that trust comes with time. She did not like this response and seemed to get angry. She said this would not work if I didn't trust her and to let her know right now or we could stop. This is not how therapy works! No therapist should ever put their egos before a patient or be emotionally manipulative. But again- she is not a therapist! After having opened up about very intimate things with this person only to feel like she was playing some game made me feel extremely sick. Anyone who preys on the vulnerable and uses these manipulation tactics and a person's own childhood wounds to manipulate them is not ok. Please seek out help from a professional and do not put yourself in harm's way by going to her. I leave this review in hopes of saving someone else seeking real help from only feeling worse and being caused further damage. There is real help out there for you- this is not it. read more

Dr. Wendy is a highly skilled hypnotherapist. I had several sessions before I embarked on the Inner Child Healing Workshop: The Renaissance Experience I feel extremely fortunate that I was able to participate. This was an amazing, life changing process for me. I was able to change my negative beliefs about myself into a loving, nurturing, compassionate internal dialogue in this 5 day intensive workshop. I feel absolutely great and will continue using Dr. Wendy's techniques in order to continue to find joy in every day. It was a bit pricey, but I am worth it. I'd recommend it to everyone that wants to heal their souls from their childhood trauma. read more

Worst therapy experience ever. I was looking for therapist to help with my anxiety and panic attacks and got to her by some therapist referral website online. I spoke to her over the phone and she was quick to ask how I make income. I told her I wasn't working so she then stated that her sessions were about $400 for two hours which is what she said is the time needed per session. She also said she does not accept insurance and she would not be able to help me. She went on to tell me that she was the best in her industry and had learned from some master teacher. That I would only need a couple of sessions and would be free of this. I told her how I wished I could afford her but unfortunately it was bad timing. She then Asked if I would be interested in working with one of her students that were in training, this would be for free and she would be monitoring the whole time. She said that they were well trained and It would pretty much be the same as if she was working with me. She said she couldn't guarantee it but she would ask them and get back to me. I was so excited and desperately looking to get rid of this once and for all. Days later she called and told me that they were very busy and if I would be willing to participate in a group sessions with other people where she would be leading it, for a fee every week. I once again told her I couldn't afford it. Days later again I got a call from her telling me she spoke with one of her students and they were willing to work with me. I once again was very excited, finally spoke to her student named Pat, and after basically giving him a summary of my whole life we set up an appointment for a first session which would be a two hour "intake" appointment Where he took lots of notes on on me life and major events. This brought up a lot of trauma. Then I scheduled a session with him for the first induction. It was very intense and emotional as I had to recall past experiences and talk to my inner child. I thought it was pretty therapeutic but not sure how this was going to help and was looking forward to the next session to deal with my anxiety and panic. On the day of my session I was having a lot of anxiety and I let Pat know. He seemed to start panicking and was pushing for me to get on a three way call With Wendy. Him not knowing what to say or do really made my anxiety worse. He was unable to locate Wendy and I had to work through that on my own. I didn't hear from him for days and when I finally did it was a call to let me know that he didn't feel comfortable working with me as he was unprepared to work with people with anxiety. I was in complete shock and could not believe that someone would offer to work with me knowing that my condition was anxiety, just to tell me later that they were not prepared to work with this issue. Both he and Wendy knew that I was struggling with this and how intense it was. I was basically used as an experiment and once they realized that he wasn't ready, they pulled the plug. I had to spend three phone calls for two hours each sharing my entire life and so much trauma from my past that I hadn't shared with anyone just to be caused more pain. I guess the saying is true nothing is free in this life. It makes my stomach sick to know that there are human beings like these that play with peoples lives and emotions. Especially during such a hard time as this. I am so grateful for my faith in God which gives me the strength to keep going. I will be looking into this legally. She should not have a Dr. degree. After reading these reviews I should have known better. She is a pawn and is only interested in making money. Not in truly helping people. STAY AWAY FROM HER. YOU WILL ADD MORE PAIN. read more

I had my first appt with Wendy yesterday and I was really impressed with her and her knowledge sincerity and loving energy. You could tell she really cares. Also, she has the cutest dog! I had ordered her book through her website and she emailed me to tell me she was mailing it out and told me to feel free to call her with any questions. I received the book and absolutely related and loved it! We emailed back and worth and then spoke on the phone. I found her fees to be comparable to other therapists and her sessions are much longer. I went to one person in Scripps Ranch who was $100 for 45 minutes and she wasn't close to as good as Wendy. In my experience, therapy is just plain expensive. But, if I could afford it, I would definitely go to Wendy on a regular basis. She definitely knows her stuff and I felt completely comfortable telling her everything. She has a loving energy and I got a lot of just our one visit. I plan to do the processes outlined in her book and set appts here and there to go over certain things with her. You should check out her website, read her daily blogs and you will see what I mean! read more

Calm. Gentle. Kind. Understanding. Helpful. Being an introvert off the chart, I was scared to go to a counselor in the first place. But I was also tired of feeling ugly, always being the underdog/geek, remaining isolated from groups of people who were laughing together, and generally never speaking up about anything to anybody. Not a way to live! And since life is not a dress rehearsal, it was time to do something about it! The first day I found Dr. Hill to be kind, gentle, calm, and understanding. I was not ready for helpful yet. The jury was still out on that--deliberating with my wait and see attitude. After a few visits I found some things to be helpful. But some things I didn't want to hear! I was 100% certain my feelings of inferiority started in the fourth grade when the boys called me "Cootie Bug" and ran away from me in the hallway in their pretend terror. Or when the teacher made everybody who didn't get their arithmetic done (in my case, only when she forbid us to take it home to finish) to STAND UP in front of the whole class as she made notes in her gradebook indicating an automatic "F" for that day. So Dr. Hill took me back to a younger time in my life to the first indication of those same feelings. Oops, the belief system in my brain started to crumble! I wasn't having it! Not what I wanted to hear! But "hear" I did; and that was the beginning of my tearing down the story I had told myself for decades. It was uphill from there for the relief from feelings of not being good enough for anything, especially talking to men--my worst phobia! I began to learn that Dr. Hill's gentle probing into my belief system, was worth the denial that always seemed to come up when revaluating my inferiority complex. Thank goodness I stayed with it! Coming out on the other side made a change in my life which has been retained to this day! Men no longer terrify me: Sometimes they even treat me as if I were a normal, (even sometimes attractive) human being! Calm, gentle, kind, understanding, and helpful! read more

I feel compelled to update my review. It has been quite a few years since I saw Wendy, and at the time, I felt like it helped. However, over time, I have realized that she should not be in practice. She is NOT licensed to provide psychotherapy and therefore there is no licensing board overseeing her practice. The problem I see with her is that she thinks she can treat everything and that is just not the case for any therapist. There was alcoholism in my marriage and while she was able to get my husband to stop drinking, he eventually started again and his alcoholism progressed because she did not guide us into recovery--and she treated both my husband and myself with is a huge conflict of interest. She also did not address my co-dependence, which of course became worse. She does not refer out to appropriate providers and kind of lives in her own bubble. She does not get consultation as a therapist to check herself. She has boundary issues and she became angry at me when I set boundaries with her. She charges a lot of money which would be better spent on a licensed therapist. read more

Dr hill has been exceptional in every way . My experience with her is one of great positive strides toward healing and growth. I feel my life changing and my personal well being is much improved. I recommend Dr Hill to anyone who has issues with anything holding them back or problems in relationships as well as problems handling life in a well balanced and healthy manner. Thank you so much Dr Hill. John G Concord, CA. read more

I started working with Dr. Wendy just after Covid-19 started. I was hesitant about the cost but I was ready to invest in myself and make transformative change in my life. I did work individually and also went through the renaissance workshop several months ago and I highly recommend it. I have been through several week long meditation retreats which I found very helpful and I appreciated how this workshop invites you to look inward to find the answers. For me it was facing things I thought were long forgotten in my past and were not impacting me as an adult. I was wrong and by working with Dr. Wendy I have been able to make the changes I have wanted in my personal life and career, even during a pandemic. She genuinely cares about her clients and it has been a pleasure working with her. I could not recommend her more! read more

Working with Dr. Wendy has been a highly beneficial experience. Her care and support are excellent. I came to Dr. Wendy with a deeply sensitive and bothersome issue after already doing much introspective work myself, and she was able to guide me to a place in my childhood I don't think I would have ever stumbled upon solo. It is important to have another human involved in healing ourselves, and Dr. Wendy is a great person to have in your corner. The most powerful breakthrough I received was gaining my power back over my energy. For most of my life, some of my energy (mainly anger) has had control over me. I've been afraid of others' anger as well as my own. Dr. Wendy was able to direct me to the source of that trauma, which allowed me to process what I experienced as an innocent child. She also helped me discover a healthy relationship with my emotions and supported me in acknowledging how I authentically felt in various circumstances from my past. Working with Dr. Wendy allowed me to break a vicious trauma-bonding cycle that (I now realize) I had been stuck in my entire life. As a healer myself, I highly recommend working with Dr. Wendy Hill :) read more

Starting with the positive, Dr Hill provided me opportunity for deep regressive therapy. It was intense and I feel beneficial. Now for drawbacks, she spent a lot of our time pushing me to join her workshop and got angry when I declined. She pushed me repeatedly over many sessions to refer a family member and got angry when I declined. She charged me $400 for 2 hours which when making positive progress I could justify but between all the upselling, acting put out if there was background noise (during COVID when others are home and we're all trying to balance work and family life she is definitely not empathetic) or if all her video recordings were not heard at her pace she acted upset, if she cannot hear you/if you are crying she gets really annoyed, and finally her name calling: she said I was an angry person who others could see through and therefore were repulsed by, she said I played victim (when I was actually expressing regret over mistreating someone else), she said I had to accept her explanation above any others because she is the professional and must be respected at all times. I've never been treated so harshly and felt that I was caring for her feelings and not the other way around. I spoke to a close friend who is an actual licensed psychologist who said this is highly unethical and she could jeopardize her license...but she doesn't have one. I feel if someone is suicidal or emotionally unbalanced, Wendy Hill could push you over the edge. While I did gain insight, it came at a great cost. read more

I am posting this review for Wendy Hill over six years after I completed her "Renaissance" program. The experience I had with her occassionally pops in my mind because it was traumatic for me. I saw that she is still practicing so I've decided to share some of my negative experience with her in hoping that it could inform others of her practice before they give her their hard earned money. I decided to start seeing Wendy for therapy sessions to help me with my inner child work. After several individual sessions she sold me on an expensive weekend "Renaissance" intensive therapy workshop with a few of her other clients. At the time of my expensive workshop, it was held at her office and we stayed at a basic hotel. You can read all about her workshop but I wanted to relay my own personal experience with it. I gave my ALL in her workshop. I tapped into my deep emotions, I sobbed in front of the other attendees and let myself be vulnerable enough to let her cradle me like a baby. I let my guard be completely down and was very receptive to her and the group. I had already been in therapy for ten years and never let myself be that vulnerable with a therapist or other strangers. After I "graduated" from the program. I was told I could attend support group meetings with fellow graduates. Well I had another individual therapy session with Wendy after the workshop and during the session I was talking about emotional neglect from my mother and she said I should cut her out of my life. I said I dont want to do that even though I had deep issues with her at the time. I than asked her "how she got along with her parents?" She seemed offended and didnt answer which I understood because as a therapist she didnt have to. However, she made me feel uncomfortable for even questioning her own relationship with them. Later that week after my session I got an email from Wendy saying that I wasnt allowed to be part of the support group anymore. I think it was because I offended her. I was kicked to the curb! I felt gutted and used. I opened myself up to this "healer" and she stomped on my heart. Luckily, this experience still helped me start an amazing self healing journey for me from childhood trauma. However it wasnt because Wendy did a great job. It was because I used this betrayal from her to self empower myself and question the motives of such "spiritual healers" much closer in the future. On another note, I ran into one of the other workshop attendees a few years later and he told he began having negative experiences with her as well months later. read more

Wendy is simply the BEST!!!!! I have been going to Theraspist on an off and No one hit the spot as Wendy did!!!! She is wonderful in everyway. I am very strong and smart so it took someone extremely espiritual and super smart to convencie me that it will work!! I highly recomment Wendy to the "normal crow" to all of us serching for that inner healing and inner peace :-) Wendy will teach you how to truly trust yourself and will give you life lasting tools to continue your own healing!! Her workshop has been the best experience of my life so far!!! I think Wendy is an angel and you will know it from minute one! I highly recommend Wendy to all ages, especially the younger crown as she will teach the essence of who you are and will put you right on track to happiness!!! Thank you Wendy for all that you do for me and others!!! read more

I found Wendy to be a expensive, pushy and rude. She charges $320 for a two hour appointment. My appointment did not last the full two hours. She encouraged me to book another two hour session. I wasted $320 and two hours of my time. Please screen Wendy fully before you book an appointment. Subsequently I have found a therapist through my EAP at work who I am very happy with and she's fully covered by insurance. read more

First, Ms Hill is very adept at hypnosis, and at taking a person a back to core issues that are causing present time obstacles. She is well spoken and bright. She takes self pay patients only, and she makes a point to alert you to the fact that she only hand selects a few clients and turns many away. I was initially impressed, thinking it showed integrity to care more about doing quality work than taking a quantity of patients just for money. I was not impressed with the heavy pressure later to read and purchase her book, and other strong arm tactics to extract more money through longer sessions. Also she spent quite a bit of time spent talking about herself and her accomplishements. She made a strong point about her boundaries and how under NO circumstances could you change an appointment without being fully charged, without adequate notice (that is standard practice by the way.) This does not apply of course if SHE cancels or postpones an appointment with little (a few hours) notice! I reluctantly write this review only because after some time passed since this incident that I met ANOTHER past client of hers who had the identical experience! I felt it would not be responsible to other potential clients to remain silent. That said, she is skilled and adept at hypnosis, as I said. And perhaps it was a couple of unusual experiences and not typical behavior at all. read more

After trying multiple therapies over the last 10 years I finally found the woman who would change my life! Wendy is a compassionate, extremely knowledgeable therapist and will take you where no other therapist will take you. You will truly be awakened and find out the real you, learn tools to help yourself in your everyday life and live the life you have always imagined! read more

Stay away!! This lady is a fraud and will charge you more than what it says on her website! Not only that, her place is a complete dump! She'll charge you $250 to sit in a room that smells like mold, mildew, and has stains all over the furniture. Next, she has a dirty, smelly dog in her office. Not only that, she is deaf so she'll tell you to yell so she can hear you. This lady should not be authorized to give therapy. She's charging an astronomical amount, provides a dirty environment, and can't hear you so beware!!! read more

Dr. Wendy Hill is a therapist unlike any I've ever encountered. The treatment I received was nothing short of life-changing. In less than two months, Dr. Hill elicited insight and behavior change that will be with me forever. As a licensed clinician myself, I can say without reservation that Dr. Hill is in a league of her own. I will recommend her to every client, friend, and colleague who needs more than traditional therapy. I especially recommend her service to anyone who has experienced childhood trauma, combat trauma, or been exposed to vicarious trauma in their profession. If you are willing to put in the work, the results will far exceed your expectations. Without question, this is the greatest investment I've ever made. read more

Without disclosing personal details, I can say Dr Wendy has been a terrific help to me. At first I was hesitant but I decided to give it a try. This was my first teal try at any type of therapy. Just like anything you try, you're exposed to new ideas and ways of thinking of certain things. After my 3rd visit things started to click for me and make sense. She suggested different perspectives that never crossed my mind which turned out to really help my situation. read more

Wendy Hill is my first therapist and I want to say that I have been very fortunate to find her. She is a great person who cares and understands many points of view. She helped me to take better care of myself every day, live with more self-awareness, more choices, and more vitality; essentially healthy and joyful. I recently attended her Renaissance Workshop and it was a truly transforming experience for me. The methods and tools she uses in a group setting were very effective for me. I have made it a point to use the therapy tools she has given to me on a daily basis. I am very grateful for all the personal help she has provided me and feel confident that she has the abilities and knowledge to help many others in their therapy. I highly recommend her to anyone who requires therapy for a variety of reasons. I do not think you will be disappointed. read more

Wendy Hill's music is like dancing on Heaven's Wing. I just finished listening to Wendy's CD from start to finish and I was so touched! I cried most of the way through it. Her voice rings with a very disinct tone, one of powerful gentleness. Her voice is similar during her sessions. She was gentle yet firm when she assisted me to see my truth. I also want to mention that I LOVE her song, "Show me the Way!" When she sings that verse it's like a huge bell goes off in my heart and my own warrior spirit bursts through! I attended her Reniassance Workshop and LOVED it! I found a real truth about myself that I will carry with me forever. I thank God for Wendy Hill :) read more

If you are like me and have a desperate need to change your life, please check out Wendy's daily blog on her website Wendy Hill.com. Her insights are great and can help you through depression and other anxieties. Her workshops can be life-changing. Jack B. 5/6/2012 read more

If you are reading this review, I assume that you are looking for a therapist to help you deal with some things. Well, you've found the best therapist in Dr. Wendy Hill (Dr. Wendy). She will make a huge impact in your life by teaching cognitive and emotional coping skills, helping to overcome trauma, and transforming you into the happy, joyful person you deserve to be. I say these words because I have been a client of Dr. Wendy's for over nine months. At the risk of sounding cliché, I knew from the moment I met her my life would never be the same, and this felt so good. Please bear with me while I explain a little about my journey: While growing up as an only child, showing emotion, especially crying, meant that you were weak. Even if someone close to you died, there were no tears, and that person's life was never spoken about again. All this repressed sadness turned to anger as I grew up. Nine months ago I abruptly quit a lucrative 30 year career by a text message. I snapped, crashed and burned, and for the first time ever, I realized I had a "nervous breakdown." For a week, I didn't eat or bathe. The depression was all encompassing, and deep down inside I know what caused it, but it was too painful to address so I pushed it down, getting angrier at everything and everyone. Over the years, I've have been in and out of therapy. I despised every minute of it. I knew how to manipulate my therapy sessions, telling each therapist what I knew they wanted to hear so I could leave sooner. I would never show any emotions, discuss my real issues, and wasted a lot of time and money. After my spur-of-the-moment job resignation, my husband was beside himself. He had never seen this side of me and was, frankly, terrified that I had become psychotic. He found Dr. Wendy on-line, spoke with her on the phone and attended my first few appointments which I don't remember. Note: Dr. Wendy has two hour appointments vs. the traditional one hour sessions that other therapists have. This was such a plus for me because, in my opinion, one hour is not enough time to feel comfortable enough to share deep feelings. At my third appointment, walking alone into Dr. Wendy's office I was greeted by her calm, elegant, professional appearance and her dog, Willy (who, I believe, is not from this world). It sounds strange to say, but I immediately felt safe, secure and relieved. I sensed a very positive vibe with Dr. Wendy, and since I desperately needed help, I had to bare my soul. Keep in mind that no one, not even my husband, has seen this. I was vulnerable, I cried and cried and then cried some more while Dr. Wendy gently took me back to the trigger points of my early childhood that contributed to my "nervous breakdown." Bringing up unhappy memories was hard and made me relive the uncomfortable, anxious feelings. But, if left buried, Dr. Wendy explained these unaddressed episodes will eventually come to the surface. These sessions would leave me totally wiped out to the point that I had to go home and sleep. But, when I awoke, I felt amazing: free, happy, and proud. Now let me tell you some of the traits Dr. Wendy possesses: Warm, emphatic, non-judgmental, focused - She validates you as a person with whatever challenges bring you to her. White-boarding, for me, was particularly helpful in seeing how my struggles originated and help set some short and long term goals. In your corner - Both you and Dr. Wendy discover where you are, what coping mechanisms would be helpful and what barriers are holding you back. She uses her unique methods to find those answers. You will always get answers! Intelligent and intuitive - Therapy is extremely scary and difficult. Just recently, I had the courage to discuss a very traumatic episode with her. She told me that since the day we met, she knew there was something deeply buried in me, but allowed me to progress at my own pace. As hard as this was, Dr. Wendy was right there, looking at me through her compassionate brown eyes, helping me to navigate this trauma in the most gentle, caring way. In closing, I'd like to express my sincere gratitude for the help Dr. Wendy provides: Dear Dr. Wendy, To say that you are my saving grace seems trite. You are an integral part of my life and mean so much to me it is hard to put into words. You have given me courage to face agonizing pain and have been my cheerleader. I know of no one that can do your job and excel at it like you do. You are a true angel, and I am so thankful that you're on this earth helping people like me. Your passion, grace and empathetic nature exudes through your actions. You care about me not just as a client, but as a person. You held me while I cried, you were tough on me when I needed it, you laughed with me, and you taught me life-changing skills. Simply put, you get me. read more

I lived my entire life repeating a pattern of self-defeating behaviors failing to realize their role as the source of dissatisfaction with my life and personal relationships. I finally reached an emotional rock-bottom- a point of desiring real change. Through serendipity in seeking a marriage therapist, Dr. Wendy came into my life. Seeing Dr. Wendy as my therapist has been nothing less than transformative. Starting as a child, I have had numerous experiences of ineffective therapy throughout my life. The previous therapists, while being nice people and genuinely wanting to help, lacked the tools and expertise possessed by Dr. Wendy to do the job that I needed them to do. Dr. Wendy used a blend of inner child therapy, hypnosis, talk therapy, and relationship analysis to stimulate my self-realization/discovery of changes that I needed to make in my thinking and actions. My process for change, with Dr. Wendy's guidance, developed through many individual sessions along with a 5-day group workshop that was unbelievably even more impactful than the already fruitful individual sessions. While being direct, yet compassionate, Dr. Wendy never let me off the hook. She led me to go where the other therapists did not- the roots of sadness, shame, anger, and guilt. She made clear that I had to face these difficult, uncomfortable feelings to get to a higher place. As a result of my therapy, I now live a life enriched by a 4th dimension. This dimension consists of an emotional and spiritual realm invisible to me before seeking Dr. Wendy's consultation. I would never have been able to make impactful changes in my life without tapping into this dimension. I am, and will always be a work in progress, but with Dr. Wendy's guidance, I have taken the first steps on the path to true happiness and peace. If you are committed to do the hard work required for healthy suffering (her term) in order to change your life, knowing that the reward will be an escape from a pattern of self-defeating behaviors that keep you in shackles, then Dr. Wendy is the best therapist for you. She best suits the individual ready to work hard and be challenged to improve their life. If you come to her with an open mind and an open heart, you will learn the techniques to experience peace and emotional stability in your life. read more

I'd like to post a letter I sent to Wendy. It's been 4 years since I worked with her and there is still lasting impact from that work. I'll let the letter speak for itself. "Hi Dr. Wendy, I hope life has been treating you well. It's been a couple years, and life has been strange and intense, both good and bad. But this June I graduated from University and on Friday I accepted my first professional job position. It's entry level, but now there are so many opportunities that can come from it, I am on a track that comes with a security I didn't think I could achieve. I live in a nice house owned by my friend, with my roommates, their two dogs, and a dog of my own named Winston. I can walk to the ocean from my house, and I have submitted my first article to an academic journal, with the hopes it will be published. None of these things could of happened without the work we did. I still have struggles with myself and become frustrated when I am not where I feel I should be in life, but the truth is that my life really began about 4 years ago, and for 4 years of real living I'm doing pretty good. As I celebrated on Friday I thought I should send you this message, to thank you and reiterate that you really changed my life. The work in Encinitas and Idyllwild was important in itself, but it also changed my mindset about my own flaws. I use to think people couldn't truly change, and my experience working with you shattered that belief. It's the reason that when I face struggles now, I can still hold up hope that one day I will overcome those too. Thank you." read more

I am ever so grateful that I was led to Dr. Wendy Hill. I found her online through her website. I had an issue I wanted to resolve and I felt that she could help me. After a couple of months of therapy sessions, I signed up for the five-day Renaissance program. This is where I got to the source of my issue. I got to see aspects of myself I had not seen before. I also received tools for managing negativity or enhancing my positive aspects. I became closer to my Inner Child. I am currently in Renaissance follow-up with other graduates of the program. We give each other support and bring our issues/problems forward for feedback and ideas for resolution. Her work is transforming and thorough. She is very adept at getting to the root of things. Best of all--for me--, she comes from a deep,universal, spiritual place. Just yesterday I was reviewing this page and noticed two reviews that were critical of her in a way that was not constructive. Every person perceives through his/her own filter, but anyone reviewing this site will see the glowing 5-star ratings from persons who "stayed the course," were willing to have their blind spots revealed to them, and receive pure, unconditional love from Wendy's proactive counseling. Yes, she can be direct, but rude? Not in my filter! She processed me through my repressed anger and facilitated my transformation. This was no walk in the park for her. There has been no one like her in my life who was so able to get to the root of my dysfunction. As for the money issue, because I was honest with her about my finances, she offered me a more affordable package with a payment plan. I just had to ask for it. Joan L read more

Dr. Wendy Hill is worth every penny. Therapy is not known to be cheap, it is an investment both financially as well as emotionally. To me, the biggest cost is staying where you are if you are not happy in your life on all levels. Wendy teaches this ability, to achieve such a constant state of happiness and inner peace. Not being happy is also a dis-service to others, it can change the vibe of an entire office or family dynamic, but most of all, not being happy on all levels is a dis-service to yourself. Yes, it may be uncomfortable or a challenge to step out of your comfort zone, but once you do, you will wish you had a long time ago. The other great thing is the more work you do on yourself, the less likely you are to judge others even at all. We begin to trust the process more, that we are all interconnected and here to help one another grow. Most of our judgements come off of our own reflection. I think it's most important to have a therapist you can trust and one who you feel is also invested in you. That is definitely Dr. Wendy from my multiple experiences with her. Many therapists, especially ones who promote their low prices, will take as many clients as possible. Not Dr. Wendy, she will turn down clients to make sure she is giving the clients she has her full dedicated attention. She is also a published author and does retreats in both San Diego and Idyllwild, California. Those I have yet to experience. Someone of her expertise and caliber is worth every penny she charges and more. But what she teaches is actually priceless. She truly loves what she does and it shows. She can actually take a seemingly heavy topic and make it fun to tackle! It has been a great pleasure getting to experience the truly magnificent, life changing Dr. Wendy Hill and I am looking forward to partaking in her upcoming retreat soon in Encinitas, California as well as the retreat in Idyllwild. I also look forward to reading her books, listening to more of her amazing healing music about being all you can be and when "The Call to Adventure" DVD series is ready, I cannot wait to experience it's effect! I know how much heart and soul Dr. Wendy put into it and I'm certain I will love the final product. Thank you to this amazing woman, Dr. Wendy Hill for not just being great at what she does, but also being a living example of going outside of her own comfort zone and commitment to always be growing in her own life. Take a session or book a retreat with Dr. Wendy and you will be truly inspired! PS - I rarely write reviews unless I am really happy, as in the service or product is above and beyond or unless I feel I was wronged and usually if I feel wronged once, I will try to resolve it with the person, before I come to yelp, as we all can have days that are not the best as well as even a simple misunderstanding. My multiple experiences with Dr. Wendy Hill thus far have been nothing short of above and beyond, this is why I felt compelled to share. Thanks and best of luck finding a therapist, hypnotist or healer that is right for you. read more

I found Wendy online. She was the most expensive but I figured that you get what you pay for and I was willing to make an investment for this. Our consult over the phone seemed good so I booked my first appointment. The first session with her is 2 hours. We went through a pretty extensive history about my childhood and family. She sprinkled in some hints about taking her "workshop" here and there (which she also brought up over the phone). She asked how much money I made (I kid you not) and I told her everything. I'm not sure if it was the vulnerable state that I was in or what it was, but everything felt okay to tell her at the time. She came across as very caring, but in an exaggerated way. We did a short hypnosis into some childhood trauma which brought me to tears. It felt strange but it was cathartic. At the end of our session Wendy again brought up coming to her workshop (which costs $3500) and I mentioned to her that I could not afford it and had to borrow money just for this initial session with her. I was okay with paying for once a week sessions but not the workshop. THEN I knew something was wrong... Since I didn't have the money, she asked if I had a credit card, if I would GET a credit card (since I don't have one) or if I could borrow money from my mom or dad since it was their fault anyway why I was in therapy. While that might be true, she insisted upon this issue a lot and I didn't feel right about continuing with her. It was like she literally got into my head and tried to manipulate me for money. A hours later after my emotions were stable again, I felt extremely violated and creeped out. I hope somebody sees this. read more

Although I have not experienced Wendy first hand, I felt compelled to write a review with respect to a few truly unsettling phone calls that took place to possibly initiate services from her. Having experienced excellent therapy in my lifetime (on the East Coast), I believe I have an intuitive and a competent sense when speaking with a potential therapist ... to know when their work is focused upon a genuineness, with a balance of sincere integrity. Wendy displayed some very abrasive and unfocused conversations (a focal point on the charges she required), with the last one whereby she forgot I had canceled our first appointment; only to call and leave a curt voice mail asking "why I wasn't there". It is unfortunate that this caliber of people infiltrate such a truly intimate field of business for their financial gain, but I feel it is important to take advantage of the social media support for one another in such circumstances. I hope this review provides an informative foundation for anyone seeking therapy services. read more

My experience with Wendy Hill was very positive. She helped me identify core beliefs that have been hurting me for years. What she has done for me is nothing else than fantastic. I HIGHLY recommend her. read more

my overall experience with Wendy Hill has been excellent......she is the 3rd and last therapist I will ever need.....I literally came to her at the brink of my despair.....my problems were deep and from 50 years in my past....thru her technique we were able to uncover the huge problem(s), and with Wendy's guidence and continued efforts my life has been changed COMPLETELY for the better....I would highly recommend Wendy Hill.....Don C read more

Dr. Wendy Hill was recommended to me, I really appreciate the time she spent on the phone with me as well as her willingness to accommodate my schedule to fit me in. I went to her office and was instantly welcomed by her warm personality (and sweet puppy). Her calm demeanor and relaxed manner helped me to feel comfortable and at ease instantly. I found her to be very insightful and the perspective that she offered for my situation helped give me great clarity and comfort. She is easy to talk to and I felt like she was able to ascertain the root of the problem early on. I chose her not only because of the recommendation but also, when I looked at her website, I saw that she has years of experience and offered hypnotherapy.... something I had been considering. Having never gone to a therapist before, and uncertain of what to expect, I can definitely say that this experience with Dr. Wendy was extremely helpful and and I hope this helps others who are searching for the right therapist. read more