As a whole, Hermitage delivered a bad experience that made a difficult time harder. My hunch is…read morethat our experience would have been different had we 1) spent more and 2) been able to pay the entire cost upfront. There was good and bad, and the memorial was nice when we finally got there (a month after passing), but the communication was terrible. Constant phone tag, missed timelines, and sloppy delivery on commitments, in the midst of being pitched every upsell opportunity or add-on. Did they not call you back when they said they would? Well, you have to call, leave a message, and wait for another callback. I was not asked if I wanted the $200 booklet package or the $300 one, and noticed that the $300 one was already applied (I did want that one, but they didn't know that, and I guess they assumed I didn't know about the $200 option). The first time we met, a "complimentary" orb made of our loved one's ashes was mentioned, but was never talked about again and wasn't listed in the final item list. They either took few notes or didn't share them, so I constantly had to re-explain everything. Get a CRM or something guys, come on. Our loved one's non-embalmed, pre-cremation visitation, which was delayed until a week after her passing, was punctuated by the sound of laughing employees, cutting up about something right outside of the door. If it wasn't due to our spend, it was due to incompetence, and neither is acceptable. What we requested was exactly what our loved one wanted, plus *extras* we chose to add. Our family was provided with a list of providers who would have completed her wishes without problem, but we chose this business because we have had many dealings with them in the past, and hoped a corporate experience would make things easier for us.
This place, and any with "Dignity" branding, is part of a corporation called SCI. They buy up independent locations and keep their names, and according to a watchdog study a few years ago (as reported on by CBS), have a large portion of the market while charging more on average than their competitors. SCI, and the industry as a whole, thrives off of two things: pre-paying for services and upselling. More folks are opting for cremation over burial, which gives them less upsell opportunities. They make up for this by offering catering, decoration services, or monogrammed pocketknives. My point? If my experience is anything to go by, you're paying more for subpar treatment from people who are more interested in maximizing revenue than honoring their commitments in a timely manner.
Protip: Their prices are not listed on their site, but they are legally obligated to provide them over the phone. You do not have to go with the first option you research.
If you're spending $15k or more, are paying upfront, and need them to do everything for you, maybe you'll have a better experience. If you're relying on life insurance, are on a limited budget, and can do (or get family to do) some of the legwork (ordering flowers, making a tribute video, getting booklets printed), then look elsewhere.