A disclaimer about me: I'm not a huge fan of weddings. Even when it was time to plan my own, my dream wedding would have consisted of going to City Hall and signing some paperwork.
Having said that, a few years ago, I promised my grandmother that if I were to ever get married, I would return to Italy (my birthplace), to do it, so that she and the rest of my family could be there to celebrate. Unfortunately, she passed away last year, but after getting engaged, I knew that the wedding would have to be in Italy in her honor and memory.
Fast-forward to around a year ago this month. I started my search for a wedding dress. I looked around online to get some ideas of what was out there. I didn't really have anything too specific in mind because I knew that what you saw in magazines & online would look totally different after you went to try the same dresses on.
One weekend, my parents came down to visit me from Boston, so I made a few different appts. at various dress shops in and around the city. When we arrived at shop #1 and saw the dark windows, you could imagine my bewilderment. It was CLOSED, even though I had an appt. I had no idea what was going on. I didn't want to waste a whole day since my parents travelled specifically to go dress shopping. I quick yelped 'wedding dress shops' and The Wedding Factor came up. I called to see if there was any way we could check it out not having an appt. at all. The woman on the phone was very friendly and said to stop in.
I had never heard of The Wedding Factor, and when I tried to picture the area (mostly residential), I had no idea there was a wedding dress shop there.
When we arrived, I was a little nervous about it because it was small. My image of a wedding dress shop had always been a big showroom with racks filled with gowns. I was skeptical walking in and seeing one small rack of dresses. The shop itself was very well decorated and clean; like a high-end boutique. The woman who helped us, Kathy, was very welcoming. Before starting, she let us know that her shop only carried one designer, Berta (from Israel), and that because it's very specific, it may not be for everyone. I had never heard of Berta and for a split second, I thought, ok, well this is probably going to be a bust. Since we walked there from Center City, I just decided to make the best of it, and even if I didn't find anything, it might be a fun time.
After asking some questions about myself, and what I liked, Kathy started to pull some dresses from the rack. At first glance, I didn't think I would like any of them. Some had long sleeves and others didn't seem like styles I would like. Well, on with the first one, a dramatic, beaded long-sleeve gown. When I came out from behind the curtain, none of us could believe our eyes. The dress was GORGEOUS. It fit relatively well and looked fabulous. Berta's sample sizes are on the smaller side, better suiting my small frame so there was no need to pull, bunch and clip the fabric onto my body. I could see how the dress was supposed to look without using my imagination.
Another great thing about these dresses is that they are all very unique. I had never seen anything like them in magazines or on any other bride. I tried on about 6 dresses, one more beautiful than the other (which is hard to say because all of them were truly beautiful in their own way). Kathy was there the whole time, helping me in and out of each dress, pairing them with veils, and accessories. She let us take all the pictures we wanted and even took some herself. She managed to make me feel excited, special and beautiful for the 2-3 hours we spent there. I pretty much knew that the 3rd dress I tried on was the one, but I couldn't help trying on the others.
The dresses are on the higher end of the price spectrum, which makes sense because of the quality of the fabrics, hand-beading, intricate designs and detail.
Before making a final decision, I still wanted to go to my next appt. the next day just to keep my options open. After a pretty meh morning in a large showroom with a barrage of dresses, terrible service (on top of NOT being allowed to take photos), and lack-luster gowns that had to get pulled and clipped to fit, I was 110% positive that the Berta gown was the one.
The next day we went back to see Kathy and also got to meet Stacey, (Kathy's sister & partner) who is just as friendly and helpful as Kathy, and the rest is history.
My wedding was at the end of Aug in Rome and I'm still getting compliments on my dress everyday and how it's the most beautiful dress anyone has ever seen. So thank you Kathy and Stacey for having made the whole wedding dress process fun and having helped me feel beautiful on my big day! I also want to thank the first wedding dress shop for being unexpectedly closed because had it been open, I probably would never have known about The Wedding Factor. Do I believe in fate? Yes, I do!
I highly recommend paying Kathy & Stacey a visit. You will NOT regret it! read more