We hired A Monique Affair (AMA) just a few days after getting engaged, on our way home from a trip…read moreto Mexico. As a queer Black/Asian couple, we were concerned with finding the right vendors for our wedding, who we could trust to be genuinely good to us. AMA has an incredible track record of working with queer couples and couples of color, which gave us so much peace of mind. Hiring AMA ended up being one of the smartest decisions we made in this entire process.
From the initial budgeting conversations and all the way through our wedding weekend, Chanda and her team at AMA were helping us at every step, and our lead planner Tim'mya was very involved throughout. AMA found most of our vendors for us, and every vendor they brought us turned out to be excellent. We appreciated that for each vendor, they'd come back with a few thoughtful options that fit our vision and our budget, and we could just pick the one that felt the most right. The whole process felt genuinely collaborative: we'd tell them what we were dreaming up, and they'd find a way to make it happen. We constantly had several different ongoing threads in our planning portal, and we never hesitated to throw a half-formed idea into one of them in the middle of the night. In general, we'd wake up to find Tim'mya already working on it.
Our wedding was a fusion of our two cultures, Chinese and Black American, and we were ambitious about how to present that blend in every detail. One of our non-negotiables was a venue that could do a custom menu drawing from both of our backgrounds and actually do it well, since we placed a huge importance on good food. AMA understood that immediately and helped us find exactly what we wanted. When we couldn't track down dumpling baskets at a price that made sense, Tim'mya went as far as sourcing a supplier from China (tariffs ended up killing the plan, but nevertheless this was above and beyond). Tim'mya never told us that something couldn't be done, and instead helped us think of creative solutions that would fit with our vision, without compromising on quality.
AMA helped us pull off a truly demanding wedding weekend, which included a welcome party, the ceremony and reception, and a farewell brunch across three days, each with its own menu and dress code. AMA brought a full production team that handled all of our decor setup and kept us on track the entire time; our planner was running around nonstop so that we could just enjoy ourselves. It even surprised us how much we loved every single piece of it. After the welcome party alone, we turned to each other and said that if that had been the whole celebration, we'd have walked away happy. Then, the ceremony and reception was where our vision really came to life. A lush greenery installation floated above us during the ceremony, and at the reception our sweetheart table sat beneath a white backdrop cut with our family name, a gold dragon centerpiece in the middle, with wild tropical florals spilling over everything. We wanted to make sure the event was vibrant and colorful, and the details turned out even better than we imagined.
Most of all, AMA gave us the freedom to be present at our own wedding. We highly recommend A Monique Affair for a big event, and we would definitely work with them again! 10/10