It's been about 5 months since my father passed away. The grief is still there, but what Jasmine gave me and my family really helped us find closure in the face of his sudden passing.
My dad had already chosen Spokane Cremation and Funeral and pre-paid for several services because of the money for value. (I'm also really glad that he had done that so we as the children didn't have to do the reserach, etc. I'm definitely going to do this for myself now that I know how it alleviates the pressure on my family whenever I pass.) But he hadn't arranged any memorial service. He also didn't expect to pass away while out of town.
Jasmine and Bill did great helping us (who live on the other side of the country) arrange for his body to be transported, arrange meetings when we got into town to make arrangements for a memorial service, etc.
The only thing that could have been better is the presentation of his body. His skin color was... not life-like. And his suit was a little baggy on him. It would have been nice if they could have chosen a different foundation color and fitted the suit to the body a bit more. But that's the only thing that disapointed me.
Jasmine walked us through everything patiently and kindly. Somehow, even in such a devastating moment, she was a shining light. She encouraged us in our endeavor to create a memorial that was unique, creative, and meaningful to us. They let us decorate the space, move furniture around, and she even helped us do all of that and load our car afterwards. She had great ideas to add and was so easy to work with.
They were also very careful about privacy. When one of our memorial attendees called to ask about it, they clearly stated that they were not allowed to give any information or confirm whose service was going on. While that might be annoying to some people, I really appreciate it.
To be fair, this is the first time I've dealt with anything like this. But I have organied a lot of events in my life, and this was a great experience.
We were not pressured to buy anything like a nicer urn or jewelry. They were on time for all of our appointments, etc. The building is simple and the parking may be a little limited for some families (though plenty for us). But I just can't imagine a better experience, and in these moments, that's what counts.
Thank you, Jasmine, for being such a wonderful person and consumate professional. read more