My son only attended for a few months. The final straw was in the morning dropping my son off. I like to sit and stay for about 10-15 minutes and let him get adjusted to the "crazy" that seemed to always be going on everytime I dropped him off. I brought his breakfast and sat down with him as he ate just observing kids screaming, throwing toys, fighting, and crying. On several occasions I recorded the utter chaos that I had to drop my son off and leave b to handle on his own.
I asked the teacher about how the class was acting and told her "I don't know how you handle all of this". She then began to tell me how she was "over it" and "done with it all and how she was ready to quit!" She complained how teachers wouldn't show up on time making it stressful for her having to juggle two classes and already being understaffed made it very difficult for her. As she continued to "vent" I quickly made the decision to take him out, that day! I didn't want my son to end up on the news in fear that she might seriously hurt a child with type of demeanor she was displaying around the children.
I had this bad feeling in my stomach probably the day he started but ignored it because I thought I was just being over protective or going through my own separation anxiety.
Teachers atleast his teacher and the lady in the front office didn't seem to know much about how to handle children in large groups. When I expressed my concern about it the lady in the front officer said "well ma'am if your unhappy with it then...." insinuating I find some where else to enroll him. Hearing her response my mind was made up. The lack of concern or care in the world she showed me was shocking. So I began the search for a new child care.
I witnessed atleast a few children ages 7-10 years old mixed with my son's 4 years old class on several occasions. Ive stayed later than usual a couple of times just to help keep an eye on the class directly adjacent from his because the teacher was late which put my son's teacher in the predicament of having to stand inbetween classes (the connecting hallway) so she could keep her eye on both classes.
His teacher had her daughter in the same class and I also witnessed the lack of control over her own child. I watched her daughter being real nasty with another child. Bullying him and snatching toys from him. I brought this to the teachers (her mom) attention and she snatched her up with some aggression that realy made me feel uncomfortable and sat her in a chair. The little girl then stuck her tongue out and walked away from "time out". I told her she should make her sit in time out other wise she is just going to think she is allowed to do it. With a response like she just brushed it off her shoulders she replied with "oh she doesn't listen to me".
The whole general physical and emotional attitude I got from his teacher made me feel like all the horrible reports you hear about on the news could very well be her.
I've discussed my concern about the lack of control teachers had over the class rooms, the 7-10 year olds mixed with much younger children, the ratio of children to teachers, and the overall concern i had about everything to the lady in the front office. All of her responses weren't very promising that they would or even could do anything to make me feel better about the situation. I even distinctly remember saying "well ill just have to take my son out of here then" and her response was "I probably should"! read more