I have such mixed feelings leaving this review. We gave public school another try by coming here for their honors classes and programs, which are excellent. We left because of violence.
Pros:
(In the few weeks that we were here this is what we observed)
-Compared to other schools that my kids have attended, this campus is like a country club. Newer equipment, tons of resources, lots of programs. They even offer the kids (all of the kids) free breakfast and lunch.
-Teachers are fantastic. Very interesting, caring, challenge the kids. Extra bonus points for having the coolest librarian on the planet!
-Their band program is great!! The band teacher is awesome.
-Office staff was super nice.
-Access to cool programs such as STEM classes hosted by CSU San Marcos. We loved that the district sent out fliers for opportunities.
-Boys & Girls Club on campus.
-Sports programs.
-On paper this school is a dream come true.
Cons:
-Violent bullies who ruin it for everyone. They have so much available to them but don't appreciate it. It takes them only a few minutes to cause mayhem but for the person on the receiving end of it, it takes forever and a mountain of work to stop it, if you can get anyone to listen/do something. :(
-Supervisors who didn't follow through when they took a complaint.
-After school sports cuts kids (except for track/field). They are more interested in winning than being inclusive. Middle school is the time to learn and try out sports. A lot of other schools don't even offer these programs! When I was growing up and if we had someone on a sports team that was struggling, we'd give them a hand up and help them train. That's team building and the definition of teamwork! But that doesn't happen here. If your kid hasn't had access to sports at a past school or isn't some sort of talented sports genius, they (coach) tell you to find another sport. And by the time that you are cut, all of the other clubs/sports are full and you missed the sign up window, which means that you are out of luck. That's messed up.
Maybe if they got the bullies into sports to direct their excess energy and gave them a hand up in teaching teamwork, there wouldn't be such a huge problem with this school? They only know how to tear other people down, not build them up.
Context of the bullying scenario:
One kid decided he wasn't a fan of my son and turned around and recruited other kids (pack mentality) to punch, slap, pull on his backpack until it ripped, steal his stuff, etc. My son complained (or had me complain) but those complaints didn't go anywhere. So now's he's labelled a narc and even more kids (had never met before) are doing things to him. Not feeling listened to at the lower levels of direct supervision, he didn't feel like bothering the administration because that involves taking more time to start an investigation, etc, etc, etc. which means he's still at risk if not more risk of being attacked, and he's outnumbered. The situation started escalating to the point where none of those perks of being there was worth watching my son slowly start to fracture inside and wonder what was going to happen to him next. I wasn't going to wait around for a tragedy, so I implemented my own no tolerance policy and pulled him out of there.
There are a ton of laws on the books that are supposed to deal with situations like this. I get that schools don't want to suspend kids because it makes them look bad and maybe it's not the best for the kid (but there are alternative study programs if they really can't control themselves). I get that middle school is a giant hormone explosion. They really need to roll up their sleeves and engage the kids who are making trouble to something that turns that negative energy into positive results. It's a missed opportunity for all of those involved. read more