Before I start my review, I have to disclose that I am a mature, professional, open minded person who have already raised a caring, loving and decent family. So, I've seen it all in my long life.
Sage was very educational for me, despite my being there was not for substance abuse issues, but for a mental health hurdle.
My review about the place is four-pronged.
First the bird's-eye view.
The holistic approach in the facility is second to none. They took great care of designing the program with the goal of calming down the shattered psyche of substance abuse prone patients and giving them resources to keep sobriety as a their life purpose.
The staff is highly professional, while caring. The techs go above and beyond their job descriptions. The chefs were a delight to interact with - they accomodate clients nutritional requests, and would even print recipes of the dishes that you really liked.
The yoga instructors made me fall in love with the practice. Their focus is restorative yoga - not the type that requires power poses, overachievers' breathing techniques or Kundalini chasing. Just down to earth, approachable and easy flowing exercise. Thank you Chelsea! You were a Godsend.
The supporting personnel love what they do, and they do it really well. They handle your outside stressors for you with grace and patience.
The aftercare program helps patients for as long as they need. It brings a great sense of community to the patients. They do reach out to patients after their program is completed. Thank you Clint for being a beacon of light on the recovery community. You are an awesome human and very much appreciated.
The facility director, Jessica, tries to help everyone, all the time. And boy, if she facilitates a group session, no one can surpass her in preparedness and focus. I don't know where she finds strength to be so awesome.
Then, here comes the second part of my review: the patients.
No one were there by choice - which sounds obvious. But it didn't justify why some of the patients I met there needed to be the most obnoxious, spoiled, self-aggrandizing and manipulative lot I ever had the displeasure to deal with.
Needless to say, race and/or class are generally the root cause of their unwilleness of doing deep self reflection and confront their borderline psychopathic tendencies to try to walk over and manipulate everyone that crosses their paths.
Because I signed at least a couple of NDAs by joining the program, I'm not going to disclose the grainy details of their personal lives - which would be doing exactly what they do among themselves while in the care of the program.
There were constant gossiping and attempts of character assassination atempts towards "others". That's because some of them carry their privileged upbringing and learned sabotage techniques to treatment (expecting that no one will figure them out ).
They were demanding.
They complained if something was broken.
They whined if any of their stuff was confiscated.
They treated the staff poorly or talk junk about them their backs for entertainment.
They played dirty to get access to certain liberties that other patients don't have.
They picked on people of different ethnicities.
They raised cliques, excluded people for breakfast and then tried to tell everyone how much progress they had accomplished at process sessions... all of that before noon.
Then, at the end of the day, they put up their best faces to convince the group that they were recovered, so they can allow themselves a great night of sleep.
They manipulate their families to get what they want... at every chance they have.
If needed, they flirt with the opposite (and sometimes the same) six to get them to jump on their clique wagons.
If their therapist call them out on their toxic behavior, they try to turn the other patients against the therapist..
You get the gist.
Most of this behavior is done by little princesses whose families threw their hands up in the air and are desperate. Sage was their last resort.
The third part of my review: the clinical staff.
My therapist was great. She was caring and compassionate. She did her best to keep everyone level headed, considering the job circumstances.
Most of the other therapists were average and one was just a burnt-out.
But hey, working on this type of challenging environment is draining to any profession.
In the other hand, the facility prescriber - while a good fit for substance abuse patients, was not optimal for mental health cases like mine.
She didn't give the patients the chance to advocate for themselves (ever) and prescribed me a med that caused my blood pressure to have spikes. Not good.
The fourth aspect of my review: the natural surroundings.
That was the main factor that encouraged me to not check out earlier from the program.
The campus is surrounded by peace, and the equine program is great.
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