Evan and the team kept our guests on the dance floor all night long! And guests young and "old" have been raving about it since. We also just loved Evan's energy. He got us so excited for the wedding at every meeting we had! read more

My husband and I got married in April 2023 and we hired Posh DJs for reception services including 4 hours of DJ music, dancing with clouds, spotlights, cold sparklers, and a traditional photo booth. We had a wonderful reception! JP was our DJ and he was personable, responsive to our emails and texts, and knowledgeable in answering our many questions! The music selection website was also easy to use and connect to our Spotify playlist. JP was easy to get along with and he was even kind enough to have a Tide-To-Go pen on hand and cleaned my wedding dress when I spilled chocolate sauce on it! The dancing with the clouds was amazing and elevated our first dance to look straight out of a fairy tale, and the sparklers shot out at the perfect moment of our lift. The traditional photo booth was more cramped than we expected, so if we knew the small size we may have opted for a different type of photo booth, but it seemed to not bother our guests and was a good size for fitting 4 people. We also love the photo booth souvenir book that Posh DJs prepared for us that was really clean and well-organized. JP did play all our must-play songs and songs from our "play if possible" list, and also did play the requested instrumental music during dinner. On the day of the wedding, we were worried that our guests wouldn't dance during reception so we let him know that we were okay if he played some songs off our list to get the crowd going. Later, we weren't sure if we should have given that direction since the first dance set had too many songs that we DIDN'T know. (My husband and I are not familiar with older songs, so we didn't recognize any of those songs in the first dance set). However, JP checked in with us after the first dance set and we asked him if he could play more songs from our playlist and we were happier with our second and third dance sets. We had discussed with JP during our final call that we wanted to do a napkin game to "raffle" off the centerpieces to our guests, but on the day before the wedding we had squeezed in last minute sparklers (we didn't think it was possible to light them since it was pouring rain, but we ended up being able to when the venue told us we could have sparklers on a covered patio), so in all the commotion we had forgotten about the napkin game and most of the centerpieces were left at the venue, which I wish we could have distributed to our guests. But overall, I am happy with Posh DJs and JP and thank you for contributing to our magical wedding! read more

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We had the absolute pleasure of having DJ Toro from Posh DJs at our wedding on June 7, 2025 and we can't recommend him highly enough! He was an incredible DJ to work with from the very beginning, professional, friendly, and completely in tune with what we were looking for :) One of the highlights of the night was how effortlessly he blended three different languages into the music (English, Portuguese, and Spanish). It was important to us to incorporate our cultures and music tastes throughout the reception, and DJ Toro nailed it. Most of the music we picked out in advance was played, and he mixed them in so smoothly that the dance floor was always packed! Sp many of our guests complimented the music and mentioned how they'd never seen a dance floor so packed at a wedding. One of the things my husband and I were most excited for on our wedding day was the dancing portion of the night, and I am so glad we went with Posh DJs for this! We also added on their premium uplighting package which gave it that club feel. Highly recommend budgeting for this when planning a wedding if you really want it to feel like a huge party. It was so awesome!!! My husband and I highly highly recommend working with DJ Toro and Posh DJs!! read more

As soon as we set our wedding date, POSH DJs was our first call. We were immediately connected with DJ ALX (Alex), and it was clear we were working with the best of the best who KNOWS how to throw a party! DJ ALX was an amazing collaborator from day 1. He helped us mix our first song, spent time getting to know our families' vibes & what we wanted for our wedding reception, and (most importantly) kept our guests on their feet the ENTIRE night! Our wedding had guests of many ages, backgrounds, and cultures. Alex's mixes kept the dance COMPLETELY packed, and he kept playing hit after hit after hit! We could not be happier to have partnered with POSH & Alex on our wedding day! read more

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We hired POSH to DJ our wedding and they were fantastic. Duran was our DJ and he was awesome to work with! He put on a great party as well. We received tons of feedback from attendees about how great the music was and how much fun everyone had. Highly recommend Duran and POSH. read more

From the first meeting I had with Evan, I knew he was going to be our DJ. I did a LOT of research about DJs because music was my number one priority for my wedding. Evan was the first DJ we talked to, and after our meeting I cancelled all my meetings with other prospective DJs. From the jump, Evan was attentive and invested in our day. I told him I wanted a "millennial club vibe" for our wedding, and I ended up with maybe 8 songs on my "must play" list, but otherwise I asked him to just do his thing. I'm very type A so it was hard for me to put my trust in someone else with such an important component of my wedding day, but it was the best decision I could have made. We had two meetings prior to my wedding; the initial meeting where Evan laid out exactly what we should expect from him with regards to the planning process, and the second meeting right before our wedding where he played all the music we chose for our various dances, etc. I had a few questions and requests in the interim between meetings and Evan was exceptional with communication. On the day of my wedding, Evan took command of the room from start to finish. At certain points in the night, EVERY SINGLE GUEST was on the dance floor, even the ones who don't really like to party. He played every song I asked for, worked the sparklers and CO2 cannons like a boss, knocked it out of the park with helping us coordinate our t-shirt toss, and made me cry at the end of the night (in the best way possible) by ending the night with the song I walked down the aisle to. Every guest I spoke to told me it was the best wedding they'd ever been to and that our DJ absolutely blew it out of the park. I ended up sharing his info with about a dozen guests who requested it. In addition to Evan being absolutely phenomenal, we ended up adding on one of Posh's sax players, Art. HE WAS INCREDIBLE. I was in shock all night over his talent, as were my guests. Not only did he play the best live sax I've ever heard, but he was also an amazing hype man, getting out on the dance floor with us between performances. I truly cannot say enough good things about Evan, Art and their team. My expectations were very high but they didn't just exceed them - they absolutely obliterated them. I told my fiancé the next day if I could have only had one vendor for my wedding it would've been Evan hands-down. Thank you guys so much for making our wedding the most amazing party of our lives. If anyone is on the fence about a DJ, you absolutely cannot go wrong with Posh - they will blow you away without a doubt. read more

***** 6 years ago 08/27 and its the BEST WEDDING EVER! that's what our guests keep telling us, Amazing DJ company! amazing DJ Evan! we knew that were in good hands, Evan is so professional and amazing he did an awesome job, he know exactly what we wanted. we've had so many people guests complimenting how good the D J was, to the planning, the music The Mc-ing to the cocktail music and reception, everyone loved the music! all of our guests dance all night. sore feet and exhausted body are good sign of our guests including me and my husband having a good time. Unforgettable D] and unforgettable experience! from the beginning to an end! Evan and his team made our wedding event Spectacular!! don't just have a wedding, have a posh wedding have posh entertainment! have Evan! read more

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What an amazing experience we had . Cesar is the most professional , endearing man . His team is a class act . From the detail to the expertise start to finish we are thrilled . The entire staff is warm and welcoming . Location is easy right off the pathway . They will even do zoom meetings if you chose . Communication is great between everyone . Our wedding will be amazing . I have the utmost confidence in them . Beyond grateful . read more

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My man you def pressure into making a decision. Whomever tried to pitch the idea of booking your business walked out of the room so I could talk to my fiancé and expected us to make a decision in 5 mins. Do better. read more

We used them for a Photo Booth for a large backyard graduation party. What a blast! They set up the booth well before the party started and the attendant was there the whole time. Plus they made copies of all the photo strips and put in an album for us. What a nice touch! read more

Posh did my wedding and they did a fantastic job. It has been almost 2 years and people still rave about how great my dj was. They have set the bar for me in terms of what a wedding should be like and every one I've been to since has fallen short. I would definitely recommend them to anyone looking for a dj. read more

On 8-4-2018 we had the most spectular wedding . We wanted to say thank you to dj lil cee and posh entertainment for making this day so amazing I am so tough but I never cried so much in my life. We were so happy w the music. The special effects. People cannot stop talking about it. When we first started looking for our wedding we had a list of things we were looking for. Posh was able to do it all and then some. Also as a gay couple we didn't know how dealing with vendors would be. Never once did it seem awkward or off. These guys are amazing . They made us feel confortable from day one. I also wanted to have a crazy Venetian mascarade after party and these guys made it happen. Please thank your team for us and remember that you are not just a DJ or vendor to us. Your someone that stands for freedom and is something we all need to fight for today. We take it for granted Love Guido and chad read more

Brandon was absolutely incredible, from laying out the foundation to playing music to the crowd's mood, he hit the nail on the head. Our venue was a little more hands on and gave directions for the cake cutting/bouquet/garter toss, which was probably frustrating to him ( we were at the point in the night where we had no clue what was going on lol) but he handled it like a champ. Our friends and family have been raving about how much fun they had and how they never stopped dancing. We also had a photo booth option, which was definitely money well spent. Our guests enjoyed it (our nephew a little too much photobombing everyone) and we were presented with a lovely album at the end of the night from everyone. read more

There are no words my future brides and grooms, NONE. My entire body is killing me from the epicness that was our wedding but it all hurts so good (haha)! POSH. Is. Amazing. Their entire team. Is. AMAZING. My family cannot (and will not) shut up about our wedding. Every single moment was perfect and they ROCKED the house. We will forever appreciate how perfect Posh Entertainment made the day we've all been waiting 15 years for. They made my dreams come true beyond the measure I've always imagined them to be at (not only did I get their DJs but their string trio played for us at our church to our favorite songs) who the hell gets to say such a thing about their wedding day? People who freakin book these guys do. A gazillion thank you's to Lil Cee and his crew from my husband and I. Our ONE regret of the night was not taking a photo with you guys. We loved every single member of our team , we loved how we had some sort of personal relationship with you all where it felt more like a party amongst friends rather than one amongst clients with their vendors. We are so blessed to have found you guys. It was all an EXTREMELY professional and incredibly fun experience from the moment we first walked into your office to the day of our wedding. No stress, no BS, just nothing but EPICNESS. Thank you! POSH ALL DAY, EVERY SINGLE MO'FO DAY !!! read more

Ever meet someone who is truly the best in their work field. In my profession, I have encountered a few and let me tell you they are not humble. For our wedding, we chose to meet with a DJ from Posh after attending another wedding they did and we were matched up with Austin John. Even over our FaceTime meeting, I recognized the character traits I saw in some of the pioneers in my work field. He expertly showed us photos of his DJ booth set up at our venue, played us sound bytes, showed us the equipment room, explained all ancillary services and made note of our music preferences with references to other similar artists in a 30 min conversation. Their planning website is easy to follow and comprehensive. Be aware that it can be overwhelming and will spark many discussions about music preferences. But hey, if you can't work out your music as a couple, you probably shouldn't be getting married. It also safe guards against those embarrassing mishaps seen at weddings. I admit that I wasn't sure if Austin John understood my music preferences and where I was coming from during our follow up discussions. I internally questioned my own coolness in his presence; was I worthy of such a DJ? Thing is Austin John is a great guy who is easy to connect with on a personal level. Our song choices are very personal with their own back story and he respects that. We had music for the ceremony, cocktail hour and reception. I am someone who has always had a running soundtrack to my life in my head and my husband is a movie nerd so the music at the ceremony was important. The timing of the music was perfect. Just before we were to be pronounced I faintly hear the intro of the song we chose and hear the volume rise with applause as we kissed. Now, this may have been all in my head but I am pretty sure this is the work of Posh entertainment. Austin checked in with us frequently during the reception asking my husband how he was doing. He rarely asked me but I was always on the dance floor or in the photobooth. I'm an easy read and I'm sure he could tell it was going well for me. He also served to calm the nerves of our maid of honor and best man before their speeches. My moh and I only found out the next day that he gave her time to practice her speech in the bathroom whilst only telling me that we would get started after she used the restroom. It is those moments for which we are most thankful. read more

I have been fortunate enough to have Posh Entertainment on two occasions -- my friend's wedding and my own wedding. They are the complete package and incredibly professional. At my friend's wedding we had DJ ZML, who we heard has retired from doing weddings, but we were lucky enough to have DJ Austin John (who actually did DJ ZML's wedding). From the start, DJ Austin was incredible and all of his suggestions were to have a better experience, rather than adding on extras we didn't need. He knew our location and even had videos of the layout AT the venue, which he was able to show us on our initial consultation. He seemlessly handled the music at our ceremony, cocktail hour, and our reception -- the latter of which we requested Michael Jackson, old school hip hop, and the occasional Motown, along with incredible dance mixes that got everyone going. We also opted for the photo booth, which was definitely a big hit. They provided two 75 inch HD screens that would project those pictures (there's even an option for Instagram live streaming) and put together the slide show for us. At the end of the night, we also got a guest book signed by our guests, accompanied by their photo booth pictures, which was a nice touch. The best thing about DJ Austin is that he really understood the flow of the wedding and he made sure that everyone has a good time. He would regularly come see me (and other staff at he venue, I'm sure) during the event to tell me what was coming up and also to check that we were having a good time. Before the event, he made sure he got the exact versions of the songs we wanted (even finding a better version for one of them), and made sure all the details were right, down to the pronunciations of our names. You really can't ask for a better experience. They make sure the event is customized for you, and we (and looking at the other stellar reviews from others, it's no surprise) had an awesome time at our wedding from start to finish. read more

It was an absolute pleasure working with Andrew from posh!!! He had never DJ'd an Indian wedding before so we were apprehensive at first but boy did he prove us wrong! He did optimal research and gathered all the popular Indian songs- in our final meeting with him, my husband and I were thoroughly impressed with all of the songs he gathered! Further, he and his assistant, Brandon, were great; very responsive and on top of everything! We kept the party rocking and Andrew really knew how to mix the songs together well between the Indian and American music!!! We got the dancing on the clouds and everyone loved it!! Plus we got the screens wherein anything hash tagged with our hashtag on Instagram would show up on the screens throughout the wedding- it was very cool! Also, posh has the easiest website that helps you and your DJ communicate with the songs you want to be played at the reception, it was seamless and we loved every minute of it!! read more

So helpful, friendly, and fun! I trust them fully with everything related to my wedding. They have so much experience that they think of things I never would. They answered all my questions (there were many). The minute I checked out their website and emailed with Lil Cee and Mikey B, I knew they were my TOP choice. THANKS, POSH!!! read more

When Mariola and I began our wedding planning journey, our priorities were food, food, and music. What can we say, we LOVE to eat! This was before we decided not to have just a wedding... (wait for it)... But a POSH WEDDING! DJ ZML CRUSHED IT! The dance floor was packed as he gave us a steady dose of hits from the 90's and early 00's. When I think of my awkward middle school years, a part of me dies inside. However, for one night, I felt like the coolest "kid" in the world, as I had my beautiful bride, best buddies, and a unified dance floor filled with all ages. Food was an afterthought because the party was in full-effect from the jump. There was even a brief, fleeting moment when I felt bad for DJ ZML - he played a song that was supposed to be background music as we transitioned into the first course salad. What happened? A group of millennials stormed the dance floor, singing and dancing at the top of their lungs. A victim of his own talents and success, DJ ZML earned the adulation of our guests and us by feeding off that energy and playing straight through to the end of the reception. We could not have asked for a better reception, and my wife and I were so happy to hear from all of our guests how much fun they had at our wedding and how they hoped their wedding could be as fun as ours. We selfishly took much of the praise for our own, but we know in our hearts that a large part of it is owed to Posh DJ's. Thank you Posh DJ's for giving us a Posh Wedding that we (and our guests) will always remember. Jason and Mariola 10.22.2016 PS: Shoutout to DJ ZML for helping Mariola cross something off her bucket list... that was her very first crowd-surfing experience! read more

Nick Netta (Lil Nicky) and DJ Lexx made sure our guests danced all night! They played great music and were very professional. Thank you for all you did to make our wedding so memorable and fun! read more

Make POSH Entertainment part of your wedding and you WILL NOT regret it! Besides their flexible pricing model and great pre-wedding service, these guys really know how to throw a party and get the crowd moving. I have never seen my family party and have so much fun in my entire life. I was expecting the music to be way too fist-pumping and poppy but I learned that they are super flexible and know how to adapt to each crowd while pleasing both the new generation and older folks. I loved Mikey B. He was our DJ and is the company owner. Besides being a really stand up guy, he is probably the best DJ in NJ. His timing is perfect, knowledge on music/weddings is deep, and he loves what he does. He is the Derek Jeter of DJ's. He can do this in his sleep! In particular, I loved how he was able to coordinate a special surprise that I had planned for my wife. I'm beyond pleased with our selection and would be happy to utilize POSH and recommend them to everyone. Totally worth every penny! read more

POSH DJ's are hands down the best DJ company I have ever worked with. Being in the event industry for 15 plus years, finding a DJ was a touch decision. From the beginning to the end they made every minute of it fun and exciting. They process was easy and service was 5 stars! A special thanks for Lil Cee for making our wedding on 10.8.16 on of the best days of our lives. They made the party and attendees spoke about our wedding for weeks!!!! Thank you POSH for making our wedding night the best party of our lives. Sincerely, John and Michelle 10.8.16 read more

We had DJ Lil Cee at our wedding & he really outdid himself! By the end of the night, all the guests at my wedding were chanting "ONE MORE SONG! ONE MORE SONG!" Lil Cee listened to everything we wanted, from the types of songs, when to play them, and he made sure the dance floor was always packed. The photobooth, the CO2 blasters, the mini montage, and smoke for our first dance were all perfect. POSH DJs did such an exceptional job that I had multiple guests asking who was your DJ?!?! LIL CEE FROM 103.5, you the best! read more

POSH DJs is bar far the BEST ENTERTAINMENT around for weddings or any event you may need them for. Don't look anywhere else you're wasting your time if you do. DJ Lil Cee was our MC for our 11/14/19 wedding @ The Park Chateau. From start to finish he had everyone on the dance floor!! Everyone who attended our wedding can't stop talking about how amazing our wedding & the party were. We wish we could go back to the night & continue celebrating, we can't wait for the next wedding we attend & see POSH DJs there its a guaranteed AWESOME PARTY!! read more

The team at POSH Entertainment truly wants to create the most memorable and fabulous wedding night the bride is able to dream up. Sean Tylor is a tremendous dj! The owner Michael Bedkowski genuinely wanted to create an amazing experience for us, our cherished friends and loved family. The team here is beyond patient, so helpful and extremely responsive. Also, the string quartette is unbelievable!! You gotta go with POSH Entertainment for your event!! read more

Posh Entrainment made our wedding reception a night to remember. Mikey B. was absolutely amazing, from our entrance announcements, to MCing throughout the night. Our guests had a wonderful time. I truly felt at ease working with Posh. They were responsive with my questions, had an online database where my husband and I noted our requests and requirements, and they provided a state of the art sound system and light features that created a gorgeous yet fun atmosphere. Mikey B. took the time to work with our venue's coordinator to confirm all set ups for the day. He was a huge relief for us, knowing we did not need to worry about any of the details. Posh uses great professionalism and we couldn't be more pleased with their services. read more

We used POSH Entertainment for our April 9, 2017 wedding. Sean was our DJ and made the planning process so easy. First, my husband and I recently moved to North Carolina, so all our planning was long distance. Sean was very accommodating and we did our planning through text, email, and FaceTime. Secondly, we had to postpone our wedding just three weeks before our original date due to a death in the immediate family; Sean, and Caesar, one of the owners, were so understanding. When we rescheduled a few months later we picked up right where we left off with planning, and they made a point to double and triple check wording with family introductions because of the sensitivity of the situation. Most guests at our wedding were older and didn't dance a lot, but they made a point of telling us how much fun the music was anyway. It was loud enough to dance and have a good time, but not so loud that you couldn't have a conversation with someone. There was a great mix of music genres from all decades, so our guests even had a great time just watching everyone else dance. Between the understanding and flexibility with the last-minute emergency, the ease of long distance planning, and the wedding day itself, we can't say enough about POSH. read more

I was SO nervous about my wedding because it was much bigger than I expected (about 180) & my guests were all so different in terms of their interests and personalities. Brandon did an AMAZINC job keeping energy up & throwing the best party I've ever been to. All of our guests had wonderful things to say about the DJ specifically. The music was super fun, not at all cheesy, & EVERYBODY was dancing. This DJ company is worth its weight in gold. I would recommend them to anybody. Special thank you's also to Danny & Cesar for working with us. Amazing. ***Edit: I forgot to mention Brandon & Posh did our ceremony also- a last minute decision Bc the organist from the venue had to cancel. Awesome job for the ceremony as well- so glad you could help us with that as well! read more

Literally look no further. POSH is the way to go. I had multiple people tell me that when they looked around our venue, not one person was sitting because everyone was on the dance floor. Evan and everyone at POSH were SO easy to work with. POSH made our first dance as husband and wife so unforgettable with awesome effects like fake snow and fog, as if we were dancing on a cloud. Do your self a favor and book POSH DJs for your next event, you won't regret it ;) read more

Simply unbelievable! Our whole wedding was truly magical and DJ Lil Cee performed brilliantly. From providing music for our ceremony, to the cocktail hour and reception, everything was done perfectly and exactly as we had planned. Posh Entertainment has this down to a science and makes the whole process so easy. (which when planning a wedding is priceless). The photo montage was such a hit and put that extra personal touch to the night. We cannot thank DJ Lil Cee, his crew, and Posh Entertainment enough and highly recommend them for your future events! read more

Danny D. with Posh is by far the best wedding DJ around. We've been to weddings where he has worked before and there was no question that we were going to hire him to make our wedding night spectacular. He knows how to start the party and keep it going all night. He plays EXACTLY what you want and listens to your visions/requests in order to create the celebration you want. I would definitely recommend POSH Entertainment for your wedding and request Danny! read more

POSH is the absolute BEST DJ for your party. We've had 2 B'nai Mitzvah's with them and attended many others that they provided the entertainment for. They are so good at reading the crowd, making sure everyone is having a good time and providing a NON STOP dancing event. If you need a DJ for an event POSH is the only one you should consider. read more

They did a great job at my wedding! Everyone loved them! Very good at gauging the crowd and getting them to have fun. I attended a wedding they were playing at and knew I wanted them to do my wedding. The music was everything I loved and everyone was dancing. They are very professional. I was impressed with their responsiveness and loved their online wedding/song site. I'd definitely recommend them to everyone! read more

Sean and team did such a super job at our wedding- we couldn't be happier! First off- the office is so trendy and clean- the whole staff is so welcoming. Sean made it so easy and stress free- going over in detail on what to expect without missing a beat. The day of our wedding - he had such a great sense of feeling the crowd out and adjusting the music accordingly like a true DJ. I would definitely recommend them! read more

POSH Entertainment exceeded our expectations! They went above and beyond to make our wedding the best wedding our guests have attended! DJ Lil Cee knew just what to play to get our guests on the dance floor and to keep them moving all night. Everyone at POSH was awesome and made us feel comfortable and welcomed. We had a same-sex wedding and POSH delivered exactly what we wanted. read more

POSH DJs are the best! They are true professionals. We were getting compliments on them left and right throughout the ceremony. Sean was fantastic and made sure everything went perfectly. He kept checking on us and making sure all is how we want it and letting us know what is coming next. You can sense the high level of professionalism from the first time you walk through their doors. They work with you, can find any songs you want, and also know how to blend music together of different ethnicity well (ours was Arabic music and Jewish music). Their pricing is very reasonable as well, and they can alter any package to fit what you need. I would and already have recommended them to anyone planning a wedding or any other event requiring a DJ. Book them! You will not be disappointed. :) read more

POSH Entertainment was one of the best decisions my husband and I made while planning for our wedding. DJ Andrew Gangi had everyone dancing from the moment we walked in from cocktail hour all the way until the last song of the night. So many people told my husband and I how awesome it was and it was exactly how we envisioned it going down! We also used POSH for their photo booth which we would recommend as well! Thank you so much to DJ Andrew and the whole entire team that made our wedding day so special and one that we will absolutely never forget! read more

THANK YOU POSH! We had DJ Lil Nicky for our wedding & he was fantastic. The POSH team is super helpful & responsive, any questions that I had and anything that I needed accommodated they were happy to help. My wedding was very diverse which required a lot of diverse music. DJ Lil Nicky was excellent at balancing out all the genres and he definitely kept the party going. Thank you so much! read more

Great DJ except one thing. Absolutely awesome music, it was mostly what we requested. Except the interruption during our first dance. It did not ruin it because nothing could but it was unnecessary. He made a comment during it that interrupted our moment together. He said "It's a little too quiet in here, they just got married!" I understand some people may want the noise but I did not. To each his own read more

Posh is the ultimate DJ company. I booked with them because my husband's cousin had them at her wedding and we had so much fun. Andrew was our DJ. We had guests telling us that was the best wedding they have ever gone to, and I know that was thanks to Posh/Andrew. The photobooth is a MUST, my guest were crazy about it and scrolling through the pictures the next day was a trip in and of its own (they give u a usb drive of the digital photos and a photo album with the photobooth strips and which people can sign).. Seriously the DJ can make or break wedding so make sure you get a fantastic DJ!!! I referred them to my friend and sister who are both so glad that I did read more