It's sad that I have to leave this review, because the food was actually pretty good, but I feel like I need to, because I experienced some borderline (or maybe even overt, I don't even know at this point) MISOGYNY from the server who was working the restaurant today.
I arrived around noon for the lunch buffet, and half of the food items were either lukewarm or cold. Some of their heaters weren't working properly. Unfortunately, instead of acknowledging that there was an issue, the guy who was working the front (he has a bald head, is tall, and is a little chubby) just kept reassuring me and the other guests at the other table that the heaters were working properly.
After the other table repeatedly told him that there was an issue with the heaters, he finally gave in and asked what items they wanted to order from the lunch buffet. He would put in new orders to the kitchen so that we could fresh, hot food instead of eating the lukewarm/cold food at the lunch buffet table. I chimed in and told him that I had cold food as well, and he reluctantly put my order in (goat curry and a rice). Meanwhile, he asked this other table what they wanted from the buffet, and he wasn't rushing them or making them feel bad about it.
Now here's where things get strange. When he gets the new fresh orders from the kitchen, he drops the food off and is overly apologetic to the table that complained (they are a white couple, middle aged). He is especially apologetic to the white guy specifically.
As for me? he drops off my order and doesn't even look me in the eye. First, I think maybe he's just in an irritated mood, so I let it go. But then, there was a point in the afternoon where he was picking up dirty plates from my table, and he dropped a napkin on the ground. I offered to help him pick it up, but instead of acknowledging me or even thanking me for this, he decided to pick it up himself, shook his head at me, and walked back to the kitchen. As if me offering to help was an offense to him.
At this point, I'm thinking "what the f*** is this guy's problem?"
Then, things get really weird. The other table finishes their meal, and the white guy from the other table goes up to the the front to pay for his meal, and the server changes his tune and is all smiles and even asks him if he wants a to-go box for the aloo gobi that he ordered from the kitchen. The customer says no, and the server offers him several take-out boxes. He even apologizes to the customer, telling him that the burners were working properly but apologizes for any inconvenience.
A few minutes later, I go up to pay for my meal, and he gives me a dirty look. I ask him for a to-go box for my hot food (goat curry), since he just offered one to the other customer. And he looks at me suspiciously. He reluctantly hands one over to me. Wow.
It's strange that he's all smiles and overly apologetic to the other table (white couple, especially the white male) but with me (who experienced the same issues, and didn't make a big fuss about it), I get terrible service and treatment.
Just to be clear: This is my first time dining at this restaurant. I am asian, female, dined solo. Kept quiet during my whole meal. I wasn't even the one who complained about the burners at the lunch buffet table initially (the white couple did). But since they were getting fresh, hot food (which is the right thing to do), I asked if I could too. The server was more than happy to accommodate them, but when I asked him for something, he acted like it was the biggest inconvenience ever.
I hate it when I come across people and after the interaction, you wonder "Was it something I did?" It really messes with your head. But after this happened, I knew it wasn't me. Was it racism? I don't know. It doesn't feel like he has it out for East Asians.
It feels more like it could be MISOGYNY to me. So for all the single, female people of color out there, if you experience some negative vibes or treatment from this male server specifically (tall, bald, a bit chubby), just know it isn't you.
The food was good (when it was actually hot), so two stars for that. But for the guy working the front of the house? Screw you. read more