Of course as a first time mom, I wanted my first pregnancy/child birth to go the exact way I felt it should go...little did I know that my *plan* would take a 180 degree turn one week before my due date, and Dr. Cap was there to save the day.
Here is my story...
Before I got pregnant, I knew that I would always want to try and deliver my baby as naturally as possible. So as soon as I found out I was pregnant with my first, I started doing as much researching and learning as I could fit into the next 9 months. I hired a doula before I even knew the sex of my baby and that was the best thing I could've done. Maggie was a huge support for me and my husband, and she was the one who introduced me to Dr. Cap. My whole pregnancy went pretty smoothly, except at one point when my placenta was quite low and my OB Dr McNally (put me on restrictive activity for 2 months. After I got the clear that my placenta had moved up, I knew that I didn't want to deliver my baby in a hospital. So I transferred to a birth center, where I could try and have my baby via water birth. That was my ultimate plan, because you know, we have control over this whole situation:)
All my check-ups went swimmingly, and every single midwife assured me my daughter was in the right position, head down, bottom up. I was even more ready and excited to have my daughter join us in this world, as naturally, med free as possible. Then everything changed at my last appt, 9 days before my due date. The midwife that saw us during our appt felt my belly like usual, but this time she wanted to do an ultrasound, just to be *sure* my baby was in the right position...After she suggested this, I felt that something was *off*. During the US, we discovered that Lucia, was sitting straight up, with her cute little head wedged into my ribs, and her cute little tush all the way down by my pelvis. Her feet were also up by her face, but we didn't know this at the time. So the midwife suggested we look into an external version to try and manually flip our baby, but that came with some risks we weren't willing to take. I did however, end up going to see a chiropractor, in the hopes that we could turn her by opening up my pelvis a bit more...The Webster Technique.
After a few visits to the chiropractor, I made the decision to make an appt with Dr. Cap, because I needed a new OB as the birth center did not perform cesarean birth's. Like I said, my doula Maggie referred me to Dr. Cap, because she had delivered her 3rd baby, VBAC, with Dr. Cap and couldn't say enough great things about him. During my appt, they took my blood pressure and it had spiked quite high. When I spoke with Dr. Cap finally, I told him my concerns and asked if we might be able to hold off on the c-section until my body started natural labor...he informed me that could be potentially dangerous, as we would not want the umbilical cord or placenta to exit my body at all, before I had the surgery...so I asked what he recommended and he said as soon as possible...the next morning if I was OK with that. I hesitated, but knew that essentially Dr. Cap had me and my baby in his best interest, so we scheduled the c-section for the next afternoon (2 days before my due date). I was terrified that everything was happening so fast, but Dr. Cap kept me at ease, and assured me everything would be just fine.
The next day at the hospital, I felt at peace with the decision, and I knew that we were in very, very good hand's. I was actually in the early stages of labor, as I was having contractions while hooked up to the monitor in the waiting room before the surgery...Little did I know, but my daughter probably would've arrived that day, even with our the scheduled surgery. The cesarean went off without a hitch, even if it did take a bit longer than normal to pull my stubborn girl out, but she arrived healthy and beautiful! Every day after that that we were in the hospital, Dr. Cap came to visit us and make sure everything was healing right and that I was feeling fine. He really felt like part of our family at that point, and I feel so blessed that he was the one to bring our baby into this world and keep me safe and sound as well.
I also know that when we decide to have our second, we will absolutely have Dr. Cap as our doctor, and I will absolutely be trying for a VBAC. I trust that he will help guide me on this path and ensure that we're all safe and sound above anything else.
Thank you to Dr. Cap, his lovely wife Angie, and the rest of the team at his office and with Scripps Encinitas. We couldn't feel more lucky to have had all of them celebrating the birth of our first daughter! read more